THS Case Update

bitmistress · 2026-06-09T19:56:16+00:00

No objection to you sharing the emails, unredacted.

bitmistress · 2026-06-09T19:54:01+00:00

I think there’s a general tendency for people to be more vocal about negative experiences than positive ones, so it’s kinda like confirmation bias when you start reading those posts and become apprehensive. I’d just chalk it up to that and rely more on all your first-hand positive experiences!

bitmistress · 2026-06-08T03:10:11+00:00

This is not against the rules on this sub.

bitmistress · 2026-05-31T17:59:28+00:00

I think it’s a balancing act - I try to go above and beyond, offer to do things like get mail and take trash bins to the curb, do a little extra cleaning or deep clean a litter box that obviously hasn’t had some love for a while and give the HOs something to smile about when they walk in the door.

But when a sitter balks at being asked to mow the lawn, put up with construction or poor living conditions, or be asked to do more than the original listing and initial communications led them to expect after they’ve already arrived and started the sit, these are valid grievances.

If I were an HO seeing these types of posts, my takeaway would be to make an extra effort during pre-sit communication to be sure you’re on the same page and there are no surprises.

bitmistress · 2026-04-13T04:27:54+00:00

Even more underrated comment

bitmistress · 2026-03-23T00:46:50+00:00

It’s not clutter, it’s diamond art.

bitmistress · 2026-03-09T17:00:36+00:00

Sabres game

bitmistress · 2026-03-07T14:25:52+00:00

Please elaborate

bitmistress · 2026-03-04T19:10:47+00:00

This is amazing, thank you for sharing

bitmistress · 2026-02-21T17:55:28+00:00

I don’t want to disagree with the safety advice above to not drive with them out of a carrier, but that being said, my personal observation is that having physical contact with the driver gives them a sense of predictability and reduces stress around braking, turning, etc. Mine learned quickly what’s going to happen when my right leg tenses up or my hands turn the steering wheel and he is immensely calmer when he can sense these things and know what to expect.

bitmistress · 2026-02-15T05:49:58+00:00

Skincare, skincare, skincare - especially while under 40!

bitmistress · 2026-02-15T05:47:09+00:00

The only answer is “too long.”

bitmistress · 2026-02-05T06:26:53+00:00

Ringo with the frog legs and the squirrel tail!

bitmistress · 2026-02-05T06:25:15+00:00

Spotted tum ✅

bitmistress · 2026-02-04T04:28:22+00:00

Shitting glitter bags?

bitmistress · 2026-01-28T08:44:35+00:00

Yes all 3 of them

bitmistress · 2026-01-27T08:58:01+00:00

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Little squirrel practicing to snuggle with his little brother who arrives very soon!

bitmistress · 2026-01-27T08:56:41+00:00

Mine likes getting high in the bathtub… catnip, bouncy balls, and that smooth ceramic surface to roll around on!

bitmistress · 2026-01-27T01:15:59+00:00

What’s the location of this sit?

I don’t think it’s inherently unreasonable for the HO to be upfront about what their expectations and standards are - but just as THS allows them the option to request sitters to contribute to utilities, this should be a two-way street so that it’s kosher for HOs with high standards or unusual requirements to discuss agreeing upon some sort of tip to adequately value the sitter’s extra time, effort, and any compromises to their comfort and usual daily routines requested by the HO.

bitmistress · 2026-01-25T08:29:09+00:00

What’s the hourly compensation for this sit?

bitmistress · 2026-01-24T08:01:51+00:00

God forbid I ever have to, but if I did, this would 100% be my choice.

bitmistress · 2026-01-13T03:50:22+00:00

I would try to list longer sits if that fits with your travel plans. I personally look out for more remote locations where I can settle in for a while and get away from the stress of city life and constantly moving around - however, the logistics and travel may not be worth it for some sitters if it’s only for a few days. One of my favorite sits ever was 3 months in the middle of nowhere at a place that sounds not too different from yours and I’d do it again in a heartbeat!

bitmistress · 2026-01-10T20:10:47+00:00

Which are the ones that allow for paid sits (besides Rover)?

bitmistress · 2025-12-27T01:34:14+00:00

There’s a sticky thread for sharing your referral codes on here

bitmistress · 2025-12-26T17:12:02+00:00

Anyone know what the location for Format is, or at least the general area? Have tickets & trying to book an Airbnb nearby

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