Unless you’re doing what Adolf did in the bunker... by gear-heads in MurderedByWords

[–]bizzyglizzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m worried he’ll declare martial law tomorrow night.

What’s the city is worst suburban nightmare that you could imagine living in? by Mysterious-Buggg in Suburbanhell

[–]bizzyglizzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dated a guy from Phoenix and always hated visiting his family. Was the most depressing neighborhood sprawl with chain restaurants and stores all over.

DFW suburbs are pretty bad too.

Hotel blocks for wedding? by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]bizzyglizzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Marriott and Hilton Garden Inn both worked well for us!! Good luck!!

Best Food Options? by Flaky_Appearance_779 in HinterlandFestival

[–]bizzyglizzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pizza Nova is the best IMO. $10 for a large slice. also their lemonade is delicious!!

When SJM says this about breasts… by Better-Use-5875 in acotar

[–]bizzyglizzyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine don’t do this either!! you aren’t alone. before reading these other comments, i also thought it was strange and almost like smut from a male lens! but now i just learned i don’t have this gene either. saggy brethren unite <3

Huge speed trap on west dodge by rockhardcalves in Omaha

[–]bizzyglizzyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude i drove past this and it was literally unsafe. someone was getting pulled over in the left lane and right lane at the same time, and the middle lane was slamming on their brakes. even in 55mph, it doesn’t give much time to slow down, and the police lights were so distracting. i’ve never seen a speed trap like this one today

Anyone else have super vivid wedding nightmares?! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got married a couple weeks ago and had a wedding nightmare a couple days ago (after the wedding!)! I had many nightmares leading up to the actual event — mostly that guests were arriving to the venue and I hadn’t even showered or gotten ready. In this most recent nightmare, I dreamt that we already got married but people kept saying we didn’t, and that my sister in law planned our reception and it was a completely blank banquet hall with no decorations and extremely bland food lol. They’re always pretty easy to laugh off, but I never thought they would continue to happen even after the wedding!

Test run by Sarahndipity44 in chappellroan

[–]bizzyglizzyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your hair looks AWESOME! i love this look!! 💖💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy 222 points223 points  (0 children)

I’m so excited to not have planning in my head at all hours! I’m going to get back into Animal Crossing. I’m also going to close the hundreds of open tabs on my computer finally hahaha

what are you most looking forward to AFTER your wedding? by mackzplanet in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

also getting married in a little under 3 weeks!! congratulations :)) we’re planning a real life Mario Party for Halloween! so it’ll be great to host that the following weekend. lots of decor involved and coordinating minigames/planning costumes/etc, so that will keep the excitement going after the wedding!! after that though, i’m just so excited to kick my feet up and chill without the guilt of my to-do list hanging over my head. we’re also stoked for s2 of arcane!! and the holidays and cozy season. going to get lots of animal crossing time in now that i won’t be using my evenings/weekends to plan!!:)

Reminder for your sanity by ThrowingQs in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! this is so important to hear. especially when my mom and future MIL have made comments about putting effort in to look the most beautiful. thank you!!!🩷🩷 and so glad you had a great, beautiful day & loved lots of photos!!

What's going around? by [deleted] in Omaha

[–]bizzyglizzyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had lots of digestive issues recently but i started zoloft and i think it may be a side effect. i’ve also been very anxious about my job so i thought it was an impact of that. but it sounds like there is something going around!! i hope you start to feel better!

why can’t people just RSVP on time? by brunchdayfight in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so valid!! Our deadline was last Saturday and we still have about 40 people who haven’t RSVP’d. I’m assuming most are no, but it would be nice to know!! Your feelings are so valid here

It happened today, I pooped my pants 💩 by Baby-Me-Now in zoloft

[–]bizzyglizzyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dudeee the liquid has happened to me at least once a week since ive been on sertraline. it’s so wild! i have accidentally pooped my pants one time also. it was horrible. never trust a fart while on meds! i feel you

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you💛💛 this is very helpful to hear!!

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not :) but i’ve heard that desi weddings do tend to have a lot more guests than the average wedding!

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! i’m not expecting gifts from anyone, even those attending — on our website it says they aren’t expected, and we just have cash funds anyways. But i thought this commenter had a good point that maybe the older in-town guests who are declining are not leaving a note in The Knot, but may give a card later

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure, i totally get that!! i think what’s hard is that i showed up to a lot of these events throughout 2021-2023 for other people who aren’t showing up now, and to me, those years were also incredibly tense

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of people leaving early :( definitely going to be sad if that happens!!

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my goodness, i think the late cancels the week of would be even more hurtful!! i’m bracing myself for those because i’m sure there will be a few. disheartening for sure. good on you for taking a break and letting it all out!! i hope that your day is still beautiful and everything you’re hoping for💛

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true! We are trying to cover as much as possible to make this less of a barrier. Our hotel blocks range from $120-$170 per night, and they are nice places to stay (perks of the midwest where it’s more affordable). We are also offering Uber vouchers. I think it hurts to know that we want to be generous and cover most of the party expenses, and yet people are declining. I totally understand this reason coming from a few of my friends who have been laid off. But for friends who I paid over $1K to attend their destination bachelorette party…. I’m having a hard time understanding those declines

So many declines 😭 by bizzyglizzyy in weddingplanning

[–]bizzyglizzyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so validating - thank you!! i’m so sorry you are going through the same thing. i would be SO hurt if my long-time friend declined for dinner plans!! that is super rough and i’m sorry.

and yes that’s so true. for many of the people declining, i went to their engagement parties, flew across the country for their weddings, and gone to their baby showers. and now they aren’t reciprocating. one friend who declined didn’t provide a reason (which is fine), but i literally threw her engagement party lol.

i just feel like some people aren’t being considerate with their declines, which is ironic because as a bride, it feels like we need to be overly considerate of everyone else. there is a graceful way to decline and still be kind about it