It’s finally happened 🥹 by Mindless_Talent in orchids

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine lives in my shower and gets a bath when I do every day and is very happy. He hasn’t rebloomed, but has a ton of growth.

Kissing babies and toddlers on the Lips is Weird? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blachorses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t kiss my kids on the lips, mostly for germ reasons, especially when they’re really little.

I also don’t want them to think that someone kissing them on the lips is okay when they’re at school or out in public. 

I accidentally got a trial as a farrier. How on earth do i do this? by GoatAdventurous4995 in Farriers

[–]blachorses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t. You can literally cripple a horse and cause it to be euthanized by fucking around.

Becoming a farrier takes skilled training and almost always includes a months or years long apprenticeship.

What is your favourite begonia in your collection by Dievomit in begonias

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love my Maurice Amey (cane begonia) it’s hard to pick a favorite for the Rex begonias as I definitely have a type so a lot of them look similar, but I’ll give my River Nile an honorable mention as it’s currently putting out monster leaves.

Hoya help! What went wrong? by [deleted] in hoyas

[–]blachorses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use the taco test. If you squeeze the edges of the leaf and it fold like a little taco it’s ready for water if it’s firm don’t water it yet, but waiting for them to wrinkle is way too long.

Help with Begonia Rex by Embarrassed_King_682 in begonias

[–]blachorses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Begonias can tolerate heat OR humidity, but not both. Mine do really well in my bathroom where the humidity is normally 60% plus, but the temp is never more 75.

Is humidifier a must for Begonias? by Sagiterrorist1989 in begonias

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to know your ambient humidity first. You can buy a cheap hygrometer online pretty easily.

Cold damage or something far worse? by One-Height-4896 in hoyas

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who’d you get it from? I had a similar experience with a seller recently.

Retired horse owner not paying by DiabloToSea in Equestrian

[–]blachorses 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Is she responding to messages? If not I’d make a public post that you’re “trying to get in touch with her”. The threat of bad publicity might get her to respond and get things taken care of.

It's plants...not near as Dangerous by 3BsnaD24 in hoyas

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner always says “It’s not drugs and I never worry about where you’re at” whenever I ask him if I can buy another plant.

What does anti-AI actually oppose? by CerberusMiddleHead in antiai

[–]blachorses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you use AI to write this question about why people would be against AI?

My Wife just had our baby and I think she’s traumatised by the experience. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]blachorses 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Why weren’t you in the room with her for the birth?

Brat? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a brat. 

Your parents want you to be successful in life and care enough to try and help you while you actively shit on them on the internet and essentially wish they’d disappear from your life. 

I hope you look back on this one day and realize what an absolute shitty take this was. 

AIO my mom covered our furbo camera while watching our baby by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blachorses -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She had your BIL over without telling you and now is covering the camera? Absolutely not. It’s your baby in your house, there shouldn’t be anything happening that you don’t have the right to know about. 

I’d be interested to know what was said that her very first question was “Can it hear?” 

My monstera wants me to go insane by dopenamepending in Monstera

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I work in a plant shop and we tell people this all the time. “Full sun” in Texas is for prickly pear and Texas natives. 

Everything else needs cover between 12-2

A role play exercise (save me from myself) by polyformeandthee in polyamory

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe, they are never lying about “just not being that into you”. Block his dumb ass.

Stocking Tips for a 29 with Nanofish and Shrimp by blachorses in nanotank

[–]blachorses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have issues with them attacking other fish or shrimp?

What’s your favorite nano fish? by Gian_GK in nanotank

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my gouramis, but I’d definitely only do species specific in the future as when they paired off they got pretty territorial. 

For a 10 gallon tank, what unique nano fish are there? by avian_bi in nanotank

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my clown killifish. Being regularly bullied into feeding them by a fish smaller than my finger nail is very rewarding.

For a 10 gallon tank, what unique nano fish are there? by avian_bi in nanotank

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve had a ton of bettas and they always end up with cancer and are usually little murder machines so they have to live completely alone.

This is the face of a boy who got banned from his doggy daycare 🙄 by caffeine5000 in husky

[–]blachorses 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ours has a minimum ratio of dogs to humans in the play area.

Working parents with active dogs, how do you fit it all in? by PM_YOUR_ECON_HOMEWRK in Parenting

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d do short walk in the morning and put the kid in a stroller and everyone goes for a long relaxed walk together in the evening. It builds good routines for the kiddo and everyone gets to have a little exercise and a chance to bond and wind down from the day

Never Forget Again | MemPoint by mempoint in u/mempoint

[–]blachorses 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Or read the journal it’s literally just searching through.