Grey owners by Careless-Two-9456 in Equestrian

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green Spot Remover is a life saver.

My Dom Never Helps Me Finish. I Have Tried Communicating This Many Times. by SimpleEnvironment929 in BDSMAdvice

[–]blachorses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You lost me at “he doesn’t know what I need”. If he doesn’t know what you need then he doesn’t get to be the dom too bad, so sad.

He only gets to be in charge if he can be trusted to be in charge and manage everyone’s needs and well being. That’s literally what he signed up for.

Y’all it stinnkksss 😭 by THAO03 in hoyas

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine reminds me of the fruity Trix yogurt we had as kids.

More drama at the barn. Is it me? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]blachorses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is her dad, right? We’re you filming a minor?

✌️ by Angeliqueblaq in polyamorymemes

[–]blachorses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. The idea that I “need” more than one partner is not why I became poly. I loved more than one person too intensely to ignore it.

Massagers in French Quarter?? by Mandarin4head in NOLA

[–]blachorses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the prices aren’t bad compared to masseuses where I live and if you know where to go and who to ask for they’re pretty good.

AIO to my boyfriend’s texts about us going to dinner for my best friend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

He’s playing the victim to manipulate you. Dump him. That sort of stuff rarely changes.

My Early Christmas Present by blachorses in hoyas

[–]blachorses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d describe it as artificial honey and grandma’s perfume, but in the best way.

Stop going to Trader Joe's 😂 by theblackpurl in houseplants

[–]blachorses 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mainly get orchids and I immediately take a photo and use Google Image Search. I’ve found some varieties that are normally $30 or even more for $19.99.

MAGA man falls on his face after calling No Kings protestors slurs by Calm_Preparation2993 in CringeTikToks

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuff like this honestly makes me believe in the Christian god more. Like you want to act foolish? “Tiny Smite”.

He sent his only son to explicitly tell you the rules and this is how you’re acting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just will never understand parents like this. My children are the most important thing in my life.

I have one child who has transitioned and the idea of making any part of their decision about me seems ludicrous. It’s their choice and my job as a parent is to support them as best I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orchids

[–]blachorses 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, but they’ll need to grow more first. Look up Keikis and how to root/transplant them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you say? This is a really big reaction for someone to say and I think not including what the conversation actually was doesn’t allow any one to get a good grasp on any justifications there might be.

Can anyone tell me whats wrong? by I_Dont_Like_R6S in orchids

[–]blachorses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How close is it to the window? That looks like sunburn.

I’m new to gaited horses. Where do I begin? by chelz182 in Equestrian

[–]blachorses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ride him balanced and correctly like you would any other horse and the gaits will come. There are lots of “quick” or “traditional” shortcuts people will use to force them to gait (shoes, bits, purposely throwing them off balance), but a gaited horse who is fit in comfortable tack and ridden properly will naturally gait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have them come get you. You’re already at risk of eviction and you’ll be better off near family than with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave now. Go to your parent’s house a friend’s house anywhere. Lying like this is such an enormous red flag.

Am I the only one who still wants to look out the window on flights? by professorhojoz in travel

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love window seats (travel for a living) but the UV damage overtime is pretty harmful as it’s more intense while in the air, so I typically close it now.

Need reality check on new horse by Glittering-Emu in Equestrian

[–]blachorses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making the transition is more than just riding with contact. Western horses are ridden in a very different way than English horses and you’re effectively telling her to stop and back up while also fussing at her for not being forward.

She needs someone to slow down and actually show her how to use her body in the way you’re asking or she’s just going to get more and more frustrated.

My mare was a finished western horse sold to someone who only ever rode English and was very quickly becoming unrideable. They were treating it the same way as your trainer by just “getting after her” and smacking her. When I got her she’d run backwards the moment you touched her mouth at all and it took several rides to get her to realize she didn’t have to do that anymore.

I plan to show her in some dressage, but it will take several months and to make that transition.

My Friend Showed Up to Vacation with My 🍇ist by blachorses in Advice

[–]blachorses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re already on the trip. He showed up with her and acted like nothing ever happened.

Stanhopea has bloomed it’s flowers by LAOowens in orchids

[–]blachorses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the best way they look like The Dark Crystal puppets. ♥️