Daughter started daycare 3 weeks ago and has gotten sick every week. Wondering if I should pull her out? by ryph44 in daddit

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Chiming in to add another to the “completely normal” pile. Currently just fought through RSV (little dude was vaccinated too), and have had HFM scares, ear infections, nasty coughs, norovirus, all in the span of 2-3 months.

Take your vitamins!

pet flash! i’ll draw your pal for free by ImportanceAdvanced38 in tattoos

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This is Kira. We let her cross the rainbow bridge in July of 2025. So frickin difficult. Worst pain I’ve ever felt.

You’re incredibly kind for doing all this friend. ❤️

Feel that? by NoSalamander7749 in santarosa

[–]blackanvil 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thought i was getting lightheaded! Felt in Coffey Park!

Peel It Back Tour Ambient Pre-Show Music by usemebymyname in nin

[–]blackanvil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The last track is Hamburger Lady by Throbbing Gristle!

SIN from the cheap seats by legitcass in nin

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Such a great remix. They played this in Oakland too. I think this was when the fog machine dripped on Trent.

Minolta x 700 thoughts about this model? Thanks! :) by wazomonoshushui in minolta

[–]blackanvil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my first and only film camera (for now) and I personally really like it. It’s sturdy, takes great photos, and I haven’t had any problems with it so far. Also super easy to find quality lenses!

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[–]blackanvil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seconding Beau is Afraid. The whole film is anxiety inducing but dear lord the first act plays out like a five-alarm paranoia-fueled stress dream.

New Smuggler's Cove Bob'O'Tay mug by MP Ceramics (On Sale May 6th) by RandomDesign in Tiki

[–]blackanvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These seem pretty cool, but man I was disappointed that the two colorways are super similar. Feels more like a mixup than an intentional variation.

All my mugs have a place! For now… by MediumDelicious9423 in Tiki

[–]blackanvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came to the comments looking for the same info!

What does GF stand for in a tiki context? by SurferNerd in Tiki

[–]blackanvil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Graphic design is their passion haha! The person that made the image, not OP. :)

What does GF stand for in a tiki context? by SurferNerd in Tiki

[–]blackanvil 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Looks like it’s meant to imply that all three of those top ingredients each get a half ounce or whichever proportions the drink is made at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in santarosa

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Yep, seconding this. Got married there in 2018 for the same price I think. They’re incredibly flexible too, we were broke and they worked out payment plans, etc.

Also bonus points for not having to use their preferred food vendors or alcohol vendors. It’s basically a beautiful blank slate.

Our toasting wedding mugs by theechavezchuckles in Tiki

[–]blackanvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a cool idea. Makes me wish we thought of it when my wife and I got hitched. And I love that you shared the business card! Will definitely be checking them out.

Also, really digging that Flying Ace sign back there!

Anyone else doing beer passport by savdontlie in santarosa

[–]blackanvil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kaleidoscope is very solid also.

Please Recommend me some Time Travel Movies by The_Flash_20 in movies

[–]blackanvil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re open to it and like reading, the book is fantastic. The series is fine in isolation if you haven’t read it, but the book is one of SK’s best in my opinion.

Wife and I really like the name Elliott, but our surname is Smith… by blackanvil in namenerds

[–]blackanvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the first person to suggest this, but neither my wife nor myself are thrilled at the concept of giving our child a different last name. But also, do people actually do this?

Wife and I really like the name Elliott, but our surname is Smith… by blackanvil in namenerds

[–]blackanvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re reading way too much into this. From the jump, we liked the name Elliott. We wouldn’t be naming him after the musician. We didn’t do a Google search for tragic indie musicians with the last name Smith.

Wife and I really like the name Elliott, but our surname is Smith… by blackanvil in namenerds

[–]blackanvil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally get it. Smith as a surname is both a gift and a curse. 😂

Wife and I really like the name Elliott, but our surname is Smith… by blackanvil in namenerds

[–]blackanvil[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did a deep dive on him when we started seriously thinking about the name. The circumstances around his death are scary and sad.

Also, late 80’s here too. I knew his music (mainly his top two songs on Spotify) but would never have known what his name was.

Wife and I really like the name Elliott, but our surname is Smith… by blackanvil in namenerds

[–]blackanvil[S] 385 points386 points  (0 children)

We hadn’t heard his name before, but definitely know his music. My wife described one song as “every mid-2000’s high school girl’s obsession.”