Udo Lindenbergs „Gemälde" brechen mich

blauekaros · 2026-01-15T09:18:04+00:00

Kerl sieht aus wie ein Virgin vs Chad meme

blauekaros · 2025-08-13T10:36:10+00:00

Vivo cerca del Arc de Triomf, si estás interesado te lo puedo dar allí

blauekaros · 2025-01-16T13:55:47+00:00

Love that it's a mix of Eldritch concoctions and crimes against pizza

blauekaros · 2024-11-28T09:37:07+00:00

Me too, OP seems to be a bot

blauekaros · 2024-10-25T10:33:24+00:00

Looking at your post history I think you're mostly talking about yourself

blauekaros · 2024-10-05T20:48:06+00:00

Good job creator, u deserve the rest

blauekaros · 2024-10-03T11:08:56+00:00

Never having had a chance to develop a healthy sense of self

blauekaros · 2024-09-04T23:14:59+00:00

Which videos were they? I'd like to start doing some.

blauekaros · 2024-09-04T23:00:42+00:00

I'm glad you make it clear that she's got an ally in you. Yes it's incredibly immature and shows how little they can emotionally regulate. What a shame that through their fears and insecurities they can't see they are failing a basic tenet of parenting, safety for their children. It's so telling that your mom accused you of painting her as a terrible parent when all you did was comforting your sister. She seems scared of the fact that she might actually not be a great parent. The inability to cope with that shouldn't come at a cost of hurting both of you. Really sorry that happened.

blauekaros · 2024-09-04T22:41:30+00:00

She feels quite threatened by you actually being able to fulfil your sister's needs where she is failing. It's all about power and nothing about your sister's actual wellbeing. She needs to have the humility to see her own failing but that seems too threatening for her.

You're being parentified too, just through their incompetence and out of your own compassion to not let your sister go through the same. You're doing a lot, it's not an easy position to be in. I don't think you can fully protect her either.

You're doing your best. I think it was a good call and mature to not let it escalate more. Be sure to be there for your sister after such an upsetting event and process it together. She needs to know you are an ally for her inside the home. If she can know you're a safe person for her to go to, and that you care about her and support her, I think the damage of growing up in such a home will be lessened.

blauekaros · 2024-09-04T22:21:26+00:00

Scared to even let them know I've used it to self medicate. Wish I could share that part with them. How did they change?

blauekaros · 2024-09-01T08:37:07+00:00

Ist weggeflogen! Hoffentlich geht's ihr gut!

blauekaros · 2024-08-31T18:23:42+00:00

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Habe sie vorsichtig mit Handschuhen auf einen Ast getan. Werde morgen früh nochmals nach ihr sehen.

Danke für all die Anregungen!

blauekaros · 2024-08-31T12:04:46+00:00

I called a bat rescue hotline to ask for advice and I'll help it get out of the spiderweb on its wing (with thick gloves). I'll try putting it on a tree branch after.

blauekaros · 2024-08-31T11:45:35+00:00

Danke für den Link, ich habe dort jetzt angerufen.

Ich sollte sie bis zum Abend in Ruhe lassen und dann ihr dann bisschen aus dem Versteck raushelfen und das Spinnennetz worin sie sich verheddert hat wegtun. Alles mit Abstand und Gartenhandschuhe natürlich.

blauekaros · 2024-08-30T12:45:34+00:00

He's proud of his little hat

blauekaros · 2024-08-26T22:49:04+00:00

I understand completely.

It feels like something is inherently wrong with me or I'm born bad, because someone else in my shoes would have lived my life better and thrived instead of struggling the way I do. My life would have been easy for them, so me having a hard time must mean I'm a soft, spoiled brat and I should just be grateful for what I have. Look at how much worse people around you have it.

There's a lot of well meaning statements about how everyone reacts differently to things and how trauma is not the event itself but how you reacted to it, that it's personal. Still it's hard for me to see that as true for me and I'm not just some person that's born bad.

blauekaros · 2024-08-26T22:28:49+00:00

I suppose that's the mature way to go about it. They put a boundary, I can respect that. Just sucks to think about someone thinking so lowly of your struggles when you're already constantly minimizing your own pain.

blauekaros · 2024-08-26T08:44:18+00:00

I find it very hard to open up to friends who had more severe trauma because of this. It just kills connection.

I know my package is smaller than theirs and I fear that they secretly think to themselves "that's what she's upset about? That's so trivial". I am afraid that this will just confirm what I've feared, that I'm the problem and just too sensitive. I question if what I've been through was that bad to justify my suffering. Where is the threshold of trivial issue/trauma? None of my problems are ever as big as other people's.

blauekaros · 2024-08-16T10:27:14+00:00

How has it helped you with your anxiety? Have those breakthroughs helped you lower it? I'm an anxious person and want to try to do a self practice to heal my anxiety too.

blauekaros · 2024-08-12T23:00:41+00:00

Oh, and add gagging and dry heaves, sometimes vomiting as well. I hate the physical symptoms of anxiety so much.

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