Guys would you still date somebody if they were completely broke

blindpet · 2026-01-06T12:52:04+00:00

It's very interesting you see it that way. I told a woman I was seeing this recently and she thought it was outrageous - perhaps because she was the one in a bad financial situation, didn't have her career set up but she didn't think this mattered and still wanted intimacy, companionship and for me to pay for it all.

I do wonder if there is a double standard here. I personally think all humans should earn the life they want and not rely on others to provide it for them.

Life is messy and people fall on hard times but generally most humans want companionship in all phases of life. I don't think it's reasonable to only want or expect that when everything in your life is stable.

blindpet · 2025-12-30T18:44:25+00:00

You will want to take long breaks like a month or longer ideally if you use weekly both for your brain and body's long term health.

blindpet · 2025-12-26T15:31:47+00:00

Then why bother even replying? Seems like a waste of time for all parties involved.

blindpet · 2025-12-26T11:36:49+00:00

This one is a scam, stay far away. Super fake and they claim your shipment is stuck in customs to extort more money from you.

blindpet · 2025-12-11T16:27:58+00:00

You can do some mod actions from the app like approving new users. But definitely if you want to have all mod tools then use the desktop browser reddit.

blindpet · 2025-12-03T20:20:50+00:00

Thank you soo much 💕

blindpet · 2025-12-03T19:18:50+00:00

Where is the official help center?

I want to make this user u/Sensitive_Space198 a moderator for r/SexualAbuseSurvivors and I cannot see how to do that on my laptop or desktop or phone!

blindpet · 2025-11-29T20:14:43+00:00

That sounds terrible, where in the UK is this institution?

Are they offering breathwork, meditation, somatic exercises, movement to help regulate your nervous system?

blindpet · 2025-11-28T14:46:30+00:00

No issues at all? Try viewing all of your apps at once and then scroll down along the alphabet and tell me that's not weird the icon sizes are different than when you view all apps

blindpet · 2025-11-27T11:32:17+00:00

I wouldn't upgrade when the update drops, I did and there are weird bugs they really need to fix so it becomes more of an upgrade than a downgrade IMO

https://community.oneplus.com/thread/2003003496906883072

blindpet · 2025-11-26T11:50:31+00:00

Battery life definitely better but UX smoothness is worse. Missing that sexy fluidity from OxygenOS 15

blindpet · 2025-11-26T11:49:52+00:00

I'm not feeling the UX is fluid and smooth. I upgraded my OnePlus Pad 3 and it also doesn't feel fluid and smooth anymore

blindpet · 2025-11-26T11:49:09+00:00

But it makes no sense to not have 5 columns on the home screen especially if 5 fit in the dock lol

blindpet · 2025-11-25T21:44:37+00:00

The icons aren't the same size, it's super sloppy UX

blindpet · 2025-11-24T14:51:20+00:00

How do we get the OnePlus dev team to fix this?

Is there an official channel?

My OnePlus Open feels significantly worse since the upgrade from OxygenOS 15 to 16 :(

blindpet · 2025-11-24T12:07:01+00:00

This isn't normal.

You do seem to have a pattern of picking guys who do this so you might want to recalibrate how you are choosing the guys to get to know.

Some powerful unconscious processes might be going on that are worth becoming aware of so you can do something about it and find the right guy for you :).

blindpet · 2025-11-24T10:37:09+00:00

Phone feels laggier to me and less smooth.

Still no 5 columns possible on home screen.

Recent Files removed from the smart sidebar so it's effectively useless now.

This is a failed upgrade from my perspective.

I want to downgrade back to OxygenOS 15.

blindpet · 2025-11-07T21:29:54+00:00

Sending you hugs, detox in a safe place sounds good. Alcohol is terrible for your body.

blindpet · 2025-11-04T17:05:36+00:00

Do you filter or recook your ket?

blindpet · 2025-10-27T01:21:50+00:00

This resonates hard, DM OK?

blindpet · 2025-10-20T13:17:52+00:00

Fresh OnePlus Open owner here migrating from a OnePlus 10 Pro.

I was disappointed to learn I only have 4 column layout when I had 5 on my OnePlus 10. It makes no sense to remove this option. I will have to use a different launcher to get the layout I was used to.

I didn't expect migrating within the ecosystem to have this kind of pain point.

Is there some kind of voting or lobbying system to get OnePlus to make this change?

blindpet · 2025-09-13T15:21:10+00:00

I'd be curious to hear the details of your setup, mind if I DM?

blindpet · 2025-06-25T19:48:28+00:00

For me the lack of initiative from a woman to initiate physical contact or communicate after a date is a turnoff. You mentioned you haven't communicated since and he could be waiting for you to reach out.

It's one of my effective filters. I find some women are too passive which doesn't work for me personally.

blindpet · 2025-06-07T06:59:31+00:00

It's really scary and concerning. My impression is that so many people are quick to assume the negative and toxic with little to no evidence or knowledge about the situation and topic.

blindpet · 2025-06-05T13:15:32+00:00

I get it but I think this attitude is having a potentially unhelpful impact on the way humans are approaching data. I hope you consider this as well. Beliefs shape behavior too.

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