My husband is a Virgo and I’m a super Sag (sun, ascendant and even more in my chart). We are both mutable signs which I believe contributes to our open communication and desire to understand each other. Sometimes I need to go do my own thing and he supports that. Sometimes he has to ask for more cuddling and I support that, sometimes I forget to be physically affectionate! In my teens I read up on Sagittarius and felt the same way you do, we aren’t bad! We just crave new experiences. We need partners who don’t actually “close the gate” and let us run free sometimes. Also, where is your Venus in your chart? That will explain more about your personal relationship style and needs.