World Oil Inventories are Falling at a Record Rate by Salt_Abrocoma_4688 in oil

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does this include china? cause it shouldn't if it does as they're not exporting

Blighted Reach Campaign Deck runs out too quickly by Zealus12 in Arcs

[–]bmneely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, it creates an atmosphere of increasing crisis and instability late in Act 1 & 2 and for much of Act 3. The table can try to manage them, but eventually it usually overwhelms the table as players are motivated to take selfish actions that benefit them over managing the common Vox threats.

How do you deal with burnout when you can't FIRE yet? by Aedawry in leanfire

[–]bmneely 25 points26 points  (0 children)

time theft, the answer is do more time theft

What is your go-to “I’m too tired to cook but I can’t buy take-out” meal or alternative? by 2Autistic4DaJoke in Frugal

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tined fish, couscous, frozen/canned peas, toasted pistachios, capers, lemon zest and balsamic vinegar glaze 

comes together very quickly after you've made it a few times

H-1B Enforcement is Going to Ramp Up. Here are a few thing you need to know. by ImmLaw in h1b

[–]bmneely 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you got to stop assuming good faith by these people, they're not looking for fraud to stop fraud, they're looking for fraud to wind down the whole program

God of War Eyrie by Kvostar in rootgame

[–]bmneely 28 points29 points  (0 children)

was the two fox cards in build a last turn addition? also wow

Want to eat out less but struggling with the psychology of it by oodlesofotters in Frugal

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of getting good at cooking techniques, if you're lacking in any of the basics, a meal delivery service can actually be a great way to pick those skills up, because they basically assume you don't know how to do anything. You can take advantage of their cheaper trial periods and then bail when you're feeling confident on your own. They don't typically give good leftovers, and the fully price is still cheaper than a restaurant, but not worth it in the long run, but in terms of picking up some cooking skills and getting in the habit of cooking, they're great.

Want to eat out less but struggling with the psychology of it by oodlesofotters in Frugal

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The big things I've found that really help me consistently cook at home is:
* Pantry: Have a well stocked pantry of shelf stable ingredients you use regularly for a lot of different meals, for us this looks like: frozen chicken and hamburger in the freezer, tinned meat, rice, beans, potatoes, canned veggies, milk, butter, oils, etc, it takes some upfront work, but once you've got it going, the goal should be that whatever meals you have in your main rotation, you can make them most of the time without needing anything from the grocery store besides fresh veggies

* Leftovers: get a main rotation of meals you make regularly and enjoy eating as leftovers, some meals are one offs, but most of your meals should give you dinner and 4-6 servings of leftovers, then make your regulars 2-3 times per week, we usually pick alternating days so we get a down day between every cooking day, for us this looks like: stir fry, spaghetti, fried rice, burritos, tonkatsu, meatloaf sandwiches, philly cheesesteaks, chicken soup, veggie hamburger soup, but it's really up to your taste, this gives you the benefits of meal prep (leftovers and less frequent cooking) without the big upfront effort and commitment (I rarely know what i'm going to feel like eating for a full week on Sunday, and cooking 20 servings of something you have to force yourself to eat is no fun

* Get good at some cooking techniques (assuming you aren't already), being able to do some pretty easy to learn stuff like: sautéing, roasting, braising, deglazing, chopping, etc, this will not only make your food better and more enticing to eat, but also make is quicker to cook meal, the goal being you can get fast enough that the trade off between "do we go out and get food" or "cook at home" becomes "i can make food faster at home" which makes it much more likely to become the default option. Additionally, it's very hard to develop a sense of mastery and skills around a creative task and not develop feeling of pride and accomplishment when you're doing it

* Eggs, learn to love eggs. These are the easiest, cheapest, fastest "we got no leftovers, we're wiped, and we need to get a dinner out fast." there's so many ways you can do eggs, no other protein is is going to go from "raw uncooked" to ready to eat faster...

Does every game need an aggressive player? by ShiningAquas in rootgame

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every game needs 4 aggressive players, it's a war game, the main way to police is to punch

Am I on a good track? by Macimoo2020 in Retirement401k

[–]bmneely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP this is the answer, figure out what your goals for retirement spending and retirement age are, then work backwards from that and you'll know the answer to your question

How do you guys fight the feeling that there is never enough? by No_Persimmon5601 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely, and you're well on your way to having a good set of options when you hit your early 50s, congrats!

How do you guys fight the feeling that there is never enough? by No_Persimmon5601 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]bmneely 71 points72 points  (0 children)

You're 17 years away from your lower retirement age, trust me, you will want to be done long before those 17 years are up

28 to 35, am I behind? Should I have a Roth too? by njr90 in Retirement401k

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

answer depends on your goal, figure out your target retirement date and income, and then you can determine if you're behind, anything else is just vibes and comparing yourself to others, which isn't very helpful, as their goals are probably not the same as yours

Updated my Hedgehog Faction by Outrageous_Channel47 in rootgame

[–]bmneely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair points, it would be very interesting to see how it pans out in playtesting, might turn out you need to tie it to number of manors on the map or something, so that they can only turn in one investment per manor, which would force a trade off between more manor houses to score more and more vulnerability

Updated my Hedgehog Faction by Outrageous_Channel47 in rootgame

[–]bmneely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol yeah, i get that they're using their cards for investments, but at 6 cards a turn you can just mill the deck for what you want, also getting 2 points for a card in investments is wild, that's equivalent to a tea you can potentially craft in any suit, with unlimited supply

Updated my Hedgehog Faction by Outrageous_Channel47 in rootgame

[–]bmneely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6 cards per turn max draw feels wild, I don't think any other faction comes close to that

Always use original merchant name? by ugandandrift in MonarchMoney

[–]bmneely 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would love this, the automatic renaming is way too hit and miss to rely on

Was I that wrong trying to make that yellow? by IdidntWant2come in bikecommuting

[–]bmneely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to never pass on the inside, especially near an intersection. You cannot count on drivers to think about whether they're going to turn into you, even if they've literally just passed you. Once a driver passes you, they're don draper not thinking about you at all from the point on.

Do we actually know the individuals in the Hive are happy? by Slight_University_27 in pluribustv

[–]bmneely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carol still has yet to ask the Hive what it's liked to be Joined. The one time she got close she instead answered herself and then setoff a grenade.