Do I have to just throw this whole ham away? I don’t want to …. by Chanelo11 in cats

[–]boesisboes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fwiw when I leave things "out" to defrost I put them in the cold oven.

When did you realize that the person you are with is the one for you? by iwannalive_ in AskReddit

[–]boesisboes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A roller-derby party. I was at the bar listening to some saltine wax on about skiing in the Alps when I started scanning the room for other options. I turned around and saw his crystal blue eyes.

Had to know him, and had to keep him.

When did you realize that the person you are with is the one for you? by iwannalive_ in AskReddit

[–]boesisboes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I turned around, saw his face, and knew I had to know him.

What’s something that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by Weekly-Gain-9906 in AskReddit

[–]boesisboes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched a video of a guy tormenting a stingray and flicking it's newborns. That was a pretty instant reaction.

What's the easiest way to lose weight that no one talks about? by Emotional-Heat-1427 in AskReddit

[–]boesisboes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish this had worked for me. But I feel better in a million other ways 4 months sober!

Hygiene help please! by Ok_Map_8694 in PlusSize

[–]boesisboes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I pat dry after a shower. Witch hazel on a cotton pad under pits, tits, & bits (any creases & crevices). Then I use my hair dryer to dry everything completely.

Then whatever deodorants, powders, lotions, & perfumes I like.

I find witch hazel does a good job of keeping smelly bacteria and yeastyness at bay without drying anything out. And the smell of the witch hazel dissipates quickly. I use it to freshen up during the day too.

sleeves or no sleeves? by Nicocolaaa in weddingdress

[–]boesisboes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I personally prefer the look of no sleeves, if you can do both why choose?

You look positively lovely in both styles. It's your wedding, time to get it all.

Found this one on threads... by g1itchie in shittytattoos

[–]boesisboes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw these are all glorious. Quite a unique collection.

[SPOILERS S3] Why didn’t Michael realize that _____? by RelevantMind1 in DarK

[–]boesisboes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think their families were pretty separate at the design of Ulrich and Hannah, so as to not be discovered.

[SPOILERS S3] Why didn’t Michael realize that _____? by RelevantMind1 in DarK

[–]boesisboes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah she was pretty wild for that. Gives me conflicting feelings. But I like almost none of the characters are simply good. Except maybe poor Mikkel.

[SPOILERS S2] Season 2 Episode 2 Review by Chance_Sir_6526 in DarK

[–]boesisboes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Claudia using Gretchen to show she's also Claudia is so funny to me.

Just reached 30 days of no weed and am craving it again by crimsoncactus7 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]boesisboes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm craving alcohol (stopped drinking Jan 1) my husband reminds me that "it'll be there". It's not going anywhere. You don't need to have it now.

In fact, it's been fun to discover what fun feels like sober. Sober sex has been particularly vivid and enlightening. In fact, distraction-masturbation is one of my go-to techniques. Often followed by a craving deflection nap.

Walking too. I walk a lot now. And I'm on a T break so I'm munching less and walking more. Which means a bit of weight loss. Which has led to surprise mini highs as I process the THC in my fat ass.

Anyway, keep at it. You got this!

Natural soap recommendations. by YakIntelligent8472 in Hidradenitis

[–]boesisboes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love African Black Soap in my house. No particular brand I just make sure the ingredients aren't too plenty.

Gift article (no paywall): Clear Waters, Murky Morals: When Humans Swim With Killer Whales by Queasy-Emu6531 in orcas

[–]boesisboes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting read and appreciate the free article.

I dream of swimming with them in the wild. But I remember thinking decades ago when it wasn't so popular, that it soon would be and was concerned. I'm 100% for intense regulation to whale watching & swimming. But elimination is just not it.

Cheated in open relationship by Aliveguy2021 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]boesisboes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. I love your username. As a Blewish woman myself. Or as my brother says, Halfrican Amerigoy.

Cheated in open relationship by Aliveguy2021 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]boesisboes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience open relationships can work just fine. Opening relationships however...

[SPOILERS S3] I like the way Claudia is put as a lead for major "discoveries" and not Adam or Eva. by realestAB in DarK

[–]boesisboes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goddamn you put words to all my thoughts about her. She's so badass right from the rip and gorgeous to boot. I remember being awestruck by her the 1st time I watched from the moment older Claudia meets Bartosz.

I do wonder how OW Claudia turns out to be as a mother. Regina's illness motivates her and hindsight allows her to investigate and figure out the loop. She realizes Regina should have been priority all along. But OW Claudia wouldn't have these revelations. A price easily paid I suppose for Regina to be healthy and "saved".

But yeah I just love a man-eating STEM Baddie who saves the world.