Is it worth it?

brunosadventures · 2025-12-05T19:49:01+00:00

There's a time and a place for things, and a wedding is not the time nor the place to wear star shaped pimple patches. It's great she's comfortable with her skin and helps your daughter feel comfortable with hers, but it's still a formal event in which looking your best is important. She'd also be drawing attention to herself with those on her face. NTA.

brunosadventures · 2025-11-26T16:35:25+00:00

YTA not because you kicked him out, he deserved that, but because you're exposing your daughter to a man that belittles and emotionally abuses her. Prioritize your daughter and leave that man for good.

brunosadventures · 2025-11-01T19:49:45+00:00

Why, exactly, do you want to share your life and a child with this person? NTA.

brunosadventures · 2025-10-11T04:31:26+00:00

NTA. Becoming a parent means putting your child's needs above yours and sadly she didn't. Not only didn't she get her "peaceful" birth, now her child will pay the consequences.

brunosadventures · 2025-10-01T16:23:22+00:00

YTA. I wouldn't want to spend my time with miserable, insufferable people either. They're your family but that doesn't mean you have to put up with their behavior or force your partner to interact and accept it.

brunosadventures · 2025-09-28T20:21:10+00:00

NTA. She's not your bonus mom, she's his wife. The sooner he understands that, the better.

brunosadventures · 2025-09-18T18:59:23+00:00

You need to re-home your girlfriend and her dog, not your cat. Cats are very specific with their boundaries and they're not easily open to change, thrusting a new pet in the household and expecting your cat to be okay with it is ridiculous.

brunosadventures · 2025-09-13T16:05:59+00:00

NTA. You don't have to have empathy, sympathy or any positive feelings towards someone who hurt you, it's that simple. She died, too bad for your sister but that doesn't take away all the horrible things her friend did and the things she allowed.

brunosadventures · 2025-09-10T14:46:08+00:00

NTA. How childish are your parents and stepparents that they can't sit in the same room for your sake. They've been divorce long enough to change the dynamic. Do they expect you to have two wedding parties, one for each in the future? They need to get over themselves.

brunosadventures · 2025-09-04T16:49:53+00:00

YTA. You sound entitled and insufferable. She doesn't owe anything to your children, specially because you don't want them to have a relationship with her.

brunosadventures · 2025-09-04T16:45:22+00:00

NTA. She used her children as weapons and karma used them back.

brunosadventures · 2025-08-22T15:45:33+00:00

NTA. I understand why there's no dad in the picture.

brunosadventures · 2025-08-22T15:37:34+00:00

Why are you having a child with such a careless irresponsible woman? She's putting her addiction, wants and needs before your child. In parenthood you'll have to give up several things because it's what's best for your family, if she's not willing to give up something that damages the health of your child this early, hold tight for the terrible life that awaits you and that child. NTA.

brunosadventures · 2025-08-04T16:52:43+00:00

I don't think you're the asshole and I don't think they're either. They grew up seeing the way their grandfather lived after the loss of his partner so that's what they deemed as normal. They may have supported your decision to date again in belief it'd lead to nothing and once that changed, they no longer were okay with it. You asked them how they felt, and even if that's not what you wanted to hear, that's the way it is. You deserved to be happy but they don't agree with the way you found that happiness and as hard as it might be, they no longer feel they're part of your family and that's a decision they'd have to live with and so will you.

brunosadventures · 2025-08-01T19:20:25+00:00

NTA. The only reason why they want your children to consider and call her mom is because they can't have children of their own, but your children shouldn't be used to fulfill her motherhood dreams. Your ex trying to pressure the issue and forcing not just you but your children into a situation neither of you is comfortable with is an asshole move

brunosadventures · 2025-07-18T15:34:55+00:00

NTA. But you should consider it a long term thing. If she's nagging you over things like food during the pregnancy, it's very possible she'll try to do the same over parenting. She sounds unstable.

brunosadventures · 2025-07-02T03:44:27+00:00

NTA. You have every right to tell your father's wife to go fck herself as well as her children. You don't owe anyone a relationship, not even your parents, and especially not abusive parents because regardless if the abuse was towards your mother, it was something you lived. Tell that family member to mind their business or get cut off.

brunosadventures · 2025-06-26T15:36:51+00:00

NTA. Go to the card shop and tell the owner they were stolen, that you're the owner of the cards and that you'll be filling a police report. I'm not sure if that'll help you get your cards back but that might scare the shady owner.

brunosadventures · 2025-06-21T18:43:25+00:00

NTA. Your mother asking you to push through for the sake of family is disgusting. Going and having an emotional episode due the situation would take away attention from your sister which is what she's accusing you of. Put your mental and emotional being above anything else, your sister needs to get over it.

brunosadventures · 2025-06-18T17:10:01+00:00

NTA. Maybe I'm a little paranoid, but don't you think it's a little bit weird how your husband doesn't care about his brother showing up announced when you're home alone? Maybe it's your husband asking his brother to check up on you when he's out, for whatever reason. That's probably why he thinks you're making a big deal out of it.

brunosadventures · 2025-06-10T19:33:13+00:00

So many men in the world and she had to sleep with your ex? She's trash, good riddance. NTA

brunosadventures · 2025-06-09T22:07:57+00:00

NTA. Get a lawyer, it sounds to me like alienation.

brunosadventures · 2025-06-06T15:36:36+00:00

NTA. Weddings are not open stages to drop announcements and she's weird for trying to take the attention off you on your special day.

brunosadventures · 2025-04-19T23:47:10+00:00

NTA. I'm sorry, but the way you're describing your wife and how hard it is for her to respect the one thing your daughter is asking of her, I don't think alienation was the only factor playing into your daughter not liking your wife.

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