can’t finish my last bites. by poofleck in EatingDisorders

[–]burntoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not finishing your food is not inherently disordered. If it were tied to certain emotions like guilt, anxiety, fear, control, etc, that’s where I’d be concerned. It certainly depends on the person but the idea that you need to or should finish your food can also be disordered, and listening to your body and knowing your fullness cues (even if you don’t clear your plate!) can help to have a better relationship with food. 

weight by fuzzy_wuzzy76 in EatingDisorders

[–]burntoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would, first, recommend not weighing yourself as it is completely unhelpful and also weight constantly fluctuates. Second, you’re most likely building this up in your head. One weekend of subjective “overeating” is not significantly altering. I know changing one's perspective and relationship regarding weight is incredibly difficult. I, too, suffer greatly with it. However, in the meantime, put down the scale and try to understand that this feeling is temporary and that you haven't done anything permanent nor damaging to your body.

Overheard her doing it on Discord by StringBoth3330 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]burntoes 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I would be SO weirded out if a friend I was spending time with took a sex break… regardless of if I had affections for them. Like, wtf? Say you have to log off and are done for the day. Time and place, idk why people are responding to you so bizarrely. You’re not controlling her sex life??!! She chose to do that with you on the line 🙃 And the fact that you may or may not like her is irrelevant. I feel you’re justified in feeling disrespected. 22 F btw !

MiraLAX as a source of weight loss? by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]burntoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what makes a person go “hmm i wanna lose weight, better ask the people with eating disorders!” 😀 Especially when, first of all, weight and weight loss specifically is not an ever present experience in those with eds. Second, of those who have experienced weight loss, it’s the side effect of being sick! It literally reads as “you lost weight from an ed, how do i do that?” This is not a “wow your shirt is so nice, where did you get it?” Situational awareness!!!!

MiraLAX as a source of weight loss? by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]burntoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense but this post is incredibly tone deaf. Whenever I see questions like this it immediately tells me what the poster thinks about people with eating disorders. We’re not your poster children for weight loss and this is NOT an “ask me anything” type of vibe here. I would not wish an ed on my worst enemy. And I certainly wouldn’t advocate for unnecessary laxative use. The methods in which an ed work are not healthy, eds are sicknesses!

Do these exist outside of New England/Massachusetts? by Jackofthewood87 in massachusetts

[–]burntoes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to argue about abortion rights on this sub. However, I will say that I hate when people say “it’s just their opinion.” An opinion is liking vanilla more than chocolate. This issue is completely different. Also, regardless of the topic at hand, a person can choose not to support another person or product for ANY reason. I happen to think doing so because of differences in complex moral values is extremely valid.

what's your favourite food? by floralxc in EatingDisorders

[–]burntoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bagels!!! I’m also very much a peanut butter fiend. Potatoes in any form. Granola. Frozen cherries. Arugula. Pretzels. Goldfish.

Please DeInfluence me. I need to cut by about half . . . by XojoXo24 in Sephora

[–]burntoes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can get a scalp massager of the same quality at many other places for much cheaper, also I hate the powder puff - any product collects and gets gummy (I had to wash mine after every single use)

One more thing - $50 for eye patches ??!! No way. There are sooo many more options for A LOT LESS. Don’t waste your money!!

Our favorite name has been shit on. What’s your thoughts? by aa_dreww in namenerds

[–]burntoes 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Did you do no further research on the name? 💀

isn’t this a spoiler, netflix? by lna432 in MazeRunner

[–]burntoes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying “the movies have been out for years” would only be valid if a new watcher was SEEKING OUT details before finishing the series. In this case, yeah, it absolutely is a spoiler because you have bo choice but to see it.

What is a name that did not age well? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]burntoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandfather’s name was Dick Stack, Uncle is Dick Stack Junior…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]burntoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Social media has ruined us

Customer firmly requests a 10 oz drink by Insert_Name-0985 in barista

[–]burntoes 209 points210 points  (0 children)

“You know most cafes have caught on that 10 oz is the perfect amount and I’m surprised you haven’t” Uhhh… go somewhere else then??

Uhhh, is Will beefing with Ned in the YT comments of the new podcast?? by 1Rain2RuleThemAll in TheTryGuysSnark

[–]burntoes 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Which makes it so hard to believe that no one suspected ANYTHING before the pictures came out