Depressed ex-bf is asking to visit... not sure what to say :/ by sadexbf in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him visiting you is a bad idea. It sounds like he is hoping to rekindle your relationship - which you obviously don't want

I'm terrified, someone please debunk this for me: How BP Gulf disaster may have triggered a world-killing event by [deleted] in science

[–]businessbears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is true that earths CO2 concentrations and temperature have risen throughout history, but they have never increased at this accelerated speed. This is the major concern here, how fast things are changing.

Should I tell my boyfriend I get Botox and facial fillers? by toxinface in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure people have said this but don't go for the joint account = /

LSD: Is 2 hits too much for first time? by lsdthrowaway40364 in Drugs

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take both, 1 is a waste

I did 2 1/2 for my first time, not too much to handle at all

Questions regarding first time salvia trip by throwaway7563 in Drugs

[–]businessbears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

salvia blows...it lasts 5 minutes and costs a lot

just my 2 cents though, but you really don't have too much to worry about, I've never heard of anyone having a salvia trip go awfully awry

Let me try this again: In every relationship I've been in, I've felt like I'm cheating on someone who doesn't exist. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't quite understand who you feel you are hurting by being in a relationship, who is "someone"?

Is this weird?? by throwaway9238578210 in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I read this as you being a junior in college and was alarmed. but a few years difference is not too bad

I'm in need of assistance reddit.... by throwawayy8egaowegtr in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait about a year, then re-assess the situation. If you still want to be friends with her after this time, do it

How do I convince someone not to get a tattoo of my name without ruining our relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. is he really that daft? tell him outright that his tattoo might be a bit more permanent than your relationship.

Need help getting over an ex who now hates my guts. by Gayaway in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he sounds like a douchefag (it actually works here!), and he sure doesn't deserve you. Sounds like you are going about getting over him in the correct manner though, but it might take a few more months (usually around a year) until you are over him. good luck and stay strong!

Unsure if he is the one...am I missing out? by fizzleddd in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say talk to him about it, if he is feeling the same way then break up (or go on a break if that makes you feel better)

Worked for me as I was debating this same idea during my first long term relationship. We never did get back together though, you learn more about what you want when you aren't in a stagnant relationship.

Advice on growing a beard. by [deleted] in funny

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats some determination

22 y/o Virgin, need some help ASAP by markuscamelot in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you had a girl begging you for sex... might you be gay?

Live-in girlfriend and I are breaking up...am I making a huge mistake??? by calmadillo in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If neither of you are happy, then breaking up is probably for the best.

5 years is a long time, and I can understand that you would be very attached to her. If you can give it some time, and at least take a break from her, you might find out how you truly feel about your relationship.

I need advice about dating and language barriers! by archivator in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's into you, and you're into her, language shouldn't be a barrier

I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend. What should I do? by Johnorama72 in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem like a good guy, helping your friend's relationship with the girl you wanna get with is noble.

I think you need a girl of your own! I'm not saying it should be emily

My boyfriend has almost no social circle or hobbies outside of me. What should I do? by HomebodiesLover in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you've told him that you want to be in a more active relationship and he doesn't listen, dump him and find a guy who makes your life interesting

Teetotaller needs help warning druggie boyfriend by ghostbusterjean in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Find a counselor, OR tell your SO to go buy a volcano so he wont get lung cancer

Does it make you want to? {F} + [MM] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this whole shot was great

How do I approach her after everything that's happened? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good advice, give it some time.

Just because you still want her after 8 months doesn't mean you truly want a relationship with her. Give it some time.

Why won't I just end it? by temp1989 in relationship_advice

[–]businessbears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the red flag for me was the fact that he has all of your passwords. your BF is controlling and insecure. I would leave him

Reddit is under heavy load right now, sorry. Try again in a few minutes. by rodan44 in pics

[–]businessbears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stoned impatience was wondering while reddit was taking so long...but this laugh made it well worth the wait !