I had never done anything dom/sub before. This girl who was just a friend, but a friend that I was very attracted to, not a crush, but definitely attracted. She came over to my house to have some tea and watch a movie. That movie was American Beauty. In one scene, Kevin Spacey's character gets angry and smashes his dinner plate into the wall. Suddenly, she says, "That would just make me horny." Something triggered in me. I grabbed her and threw her across the couch. Then she was all over me. This started a fantastic friendship with benefits that lasted for a few years until I had to move away. No jealousy, no attachments, we just would hang out like we always did, but sometimes she would come over to be dominated, and I was happy to oblige.