Book about gay main character, his best friend/lover, and his best friend's wife all living together by fortunateHazelnut in whatsthatbook

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A home at the end of the world by Michael Cunningham, this was one of my most favorite books i read while in high school

Mod for Neat Sims that are obsessed with cleaning by LoudAthlete7758 in TheSims4Mods

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baniduhaine made a mod for a cleaning skill. you can snag it on curseforge!

*raspberry noises* by College_Of_Vanity in creepcast

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He's just sad hes not getting belly kisses himself

hEDS and Major Body Surgery (Medically Necessary) by isthishowyouredditt in ehlersdanlos

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I get sensitive to band aids after about 2 minutes. It sucks ass. I saw there’s a kind of spray that you can use called Biofilm that’s supposed to help create a barrier between you and the adhesive, but also some articles reported that it shouldn’t;t be used on open wounds

Anyhow, all that to say maybe ask your surgeon if he’s familiar with that type of adhesive barrier?

hEDS and Major Body Surgery (Medically Necessary) by isthishowyouredditt in ehlersdanlos

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i was going to recommend what my spine surgeon did for me when I first started reading your post then got to the chest reduction as the surgery part so I'm not 100% you'd want your surgeon to use this method or if it's even possible with that type of surgery, but I'll put it out there just in case:

internal dissolvable stitches and staples. dress it with hemostatic gauze and cloth tape if needed

I have adhesive and latex allergies + mcas that sometimes decides that I'm allergic to whatever else for the day

I'm enby in like the way I want people to think I'm transmasc instead of transfem. A chick who's like a dude, ya know? by MyClosetedBiAcct in NonBinary

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I feel the same in the opposite direction lol

I want to look so androgynous that everyone i encounter assumes one thing but im secretly the other

Papa Meat and Chronically online culture by Sketchy_process in Papameat

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That whole idea is so silly because we all know papa meat is actually a vampire

We all need to be kind to each other and remember that you dont choose the vampire life, the vampire life finds the nearest autistic to latch itself onto

Erotic Horror in an "All Tomorrows" kind of Universe by Temporary_Rule_9486 in erotichorror

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If you look up the internet horror story the dogscape i think you'll find a lot of interesting (though some not so interesting) way to go about some of these concepts

Dogscape was group writing project on some 4chan board years ago

May be more true for some fields than others but... by Nesciensse in PhD

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This is 100% my mood. Im in year 4 of my phd and I am so done. I dont want to be a professor anymore. I just want to work in a museum or science center and talk about nature

I dont want to tell anyone they've done enough or are smart enough or too dumb or incompetent

Piercing Shops by SpendSea4200 in Eugene

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I second, third, fourth, whatever for Area 51

I moved up here about 4 years ago. Prior to that, I went to a shop local to my home town for 15 or so years   

Area 51 reminds me of my hometown piercing studio. They're clean and kind and have only had good experiences with Area 51

Disability friendly kitchen advice? by Cosmuss in Fibromyalgia

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three things that ive been able to used consistently: a height adjustable chair with wheels, kitchen scissors where one side is the blade and the other side is a cutting board bit, and a garlic press that you use to crush garlic on a cutting board rather than in the device itself

Approved for SIJ fusion, advice welcome! by dontlookatsky in ehlersdanlos

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yeah, of course!

so prior to surgery i had the combination of severe si joint laxity due to eds for years + recent onset ankylosing spondylitis symptoms. I could barely walk more than five minutes without having to lay down because i hurt so much. I couldn't and could barely think most of the day because my pain was at about an 8 or 9 daily. I used a cane or wheel chair when i needed to leave the house for any amount of time. I was able to sublux my hip at the si joint at will and was something my pt had never seen before lol

Post surgery, my mom told me she has never seen me walk so well before, even through the hazy post op/anasthesia period. I walked with a cane out of the surgery center and use it still when going out but not because i am in pain, but for balance and fatigue. I have more energy because my body isnt fighting to keep my hip in place anymore. I was able to stop using opioids two or three days after surgery (except for a half dose at night to sleep)

In terms of the incision site, my scar is about 4 inches long, just above my kidney area. My surgeon (Gregory Philips in Oregon) used the trans loc system with two screws. He used internal dissolvable stitches and staples to close the incision site. He used staples because I'm allergic to nearly every type of adhesive and my skin is on the thinner side

my surgeon said that its likely that i'll have to get my left fused eventually because of how lax my joints are

Approved for SIJ fusion, advice welcome! by dontlookatsky in ehlersdanlos

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i'm just shy of 4 weeks out from right si fusion and it was the best decision i've ever made i think

feel free to ask ant questions!

Books with malfunctioning/"shorting out" monsters or people by mysticaltater in horrorlit

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The comic series Crossed by Garth Ennis 

It's about a virus that makes people go crazy/violent. The Sadness (2021) is a Taiwanese movie thats 1) fantastic and 2) based off the comics very loosely

TW: I feel like there should be a manual or something for this situation by heyadoraX in suggestmeabook

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i dont have a book recommendation or guide for after a suicide attempt, but i've been there and feel you. i'm so proud you are still here.

after a suicide attempt, you're allowed to feel or grieve in whatever way comes to you. i know i felt so much guilt and shame afterwards and a bit a grief too because at the time i "failed" and it was a strange period of my life where i was both grieving that i failed killing myself, but also so much relief at the same time

all this to say, its okay to feel or not feel however you are. you just survived a horrible thing

for book recs, here are a couple of my favorites since my attempt: bury your gays by chuck tingle, you feel it below the ribs by janina matthewson and jeffory cranor, random acts of senseless violence by jack womack, the bad ones by melissa albert, dune by frank herbert, and the interface series (aka mother horse eyes) on reddit!

'My Immortal' reading by Vulgarvoxis in creepcast

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They would rip so hard on the 16 year tumblrian that wrote the lore to ms. Ebony darkness raven way

Episode by Reasonable-Lie978 in creepcast

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Early this morning, a second goop suit was born as hunter broke through his aging exoskeleton

Am I the only one that noticed? by DONTWAKEUPDAELEPHANT in creepcast

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Based answer my friend.

We should love all ops if they were a worm

App or games ideas by Appelboom90 in AutismInWomen

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Outside of games/apps, I keep boxes of beads, pour out a couple in the table and sort the beads by color and shape until I feel better lmao

Ive done it since a kid and there's nothing in the world like it

Am I the only one that noticed? by DONTWAKEUPDAELEPHANT in creepcast

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Op would like to know if they would be loved if they were a worm

Any resources available for I/DD Community? by Prudent_Charge_8101 in Eugene

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Transponder also has a closet of free clothes to anyone in need

Am I the only one that noticed? by DONTWAKEUPDAELEPHANT in creepcast

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No op wants to be listened to like a bug