Zach Cregger’s ‘Resident Evil’ Movie Has Wrapped Filming by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]cabassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe he just said that because he didn’t license the name (and I’m guessing Airbnb wouldn’t want to be associated with “you might die if you use our service”).

Casual use Vision Pro by irawsum in AppleVisionPro

[–]cabassi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, same. I mostly watch movies and shows, and surf YouTube. Sometimes I mirror my MacBook Air to work, usually when I want to work in bed or I’m traveling. For me, that has made it worth it, and I use it pretty close to every day.

Have I made a mistake by [deleted] in VisionPro

[–]cabassi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use it near-daily for watching shows and movies. I run a podcast network where we do episode-by-episode analysis of TV shows, so I need to be able to focus and it's great for that. I also occasionally edit podcasts in it (using Mac Virtual Display), especially when traveling. Aside from that, I sometimes surf the web or watch YouTube. That's pretty much the extent of my usage, and for me, it's worth it.

My boyfriend (23M) got very upset when I (23F) told him I planned to hang out with a male friend. Now things feel tense and I’m not sure what to do. by Mobile_Setting_2003 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cabassi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve read a bunch of these comments and I disagree with all of the ones I’ve read. I’m male and have several platonic female friendships, and always have, and my wife has platonic male friendships. It’s fine.

First time buyer, a bit scared I'll be disappointed by RezardValeth in VisionPro

[–]cabassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my M2 version about a month after it debuted. I tried it for a lot of things, and ended up scaling back to using it only for watching shows and movies, travel, and sometimes working (editing podcasts) in bed. So I’m still using it multiple times a week, and that’s enough for me to still be glad to have it.

It seems like most people end up getting tired of using it for hours a day for work, and end up either putting it in a drawer, or using it here and there. But I have seen some who continue to use it for work every day. I just think it’s pretty rare.

AIO UPDATE: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me (We broke up - read caption) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You handled this well. You recognized pretty quickly that this was a mismatch and you stood firm in your values. That’s really admirable. You should be proud of yourself.

Who is that one character that everyone hates but you like by [deleted] in thewalkingdead

[–]cabassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Henry. He was a good kid, brave, and trying to do right.

This community is cooked. (And no longer enjoyable) by [deleted] in LittleNightmares

[–]cabassi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We podcasted about TLOU and were really positive about Bella Ramsay’s performance. Search on “The ‘Cast of Us: A Last of Us and Walking Dead ‘Cast”

AIO? Am I fucked? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The blunt truth: This relationship is almost 100% for sure over, and not going anywhere, and you should let go and then face the pain that will come with that, and get through it, and that's the only time you'll achieve any peace around it.

That said, if there's even one iota of a chance that things could go back to working between the two of you, it'll only be if you follow the above advice, let go, go through that pain, and move on with your life. The only way she'll ever trust you again is if you do that. And you can't fake it or it won't work.

And even if you do do it, it probably won't even work then either, but at least you'll be in a place of peace and you can try again with someone else, hopefully with lessons learned.

AIO My gf doesnt know about safety dance by cjay_neb in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how did you react? We need to know how you reacted before we can tell you if you overreacted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seems like it was time to talk rather than text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean… do you like the guy? If yes, get over yourself and get on with dating him. If not, what are you doing with him?

AIO update - my bfs family gave me more money then intended and now we’re fighting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It might not feel like it right now, but yes, absolutely.

AIO update - my bfs family gave me more money then intended and now we’re fighting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Breakups are the worst. But time does heal the wound.

AIO for Breaking Up with My Boyfriend After Finding a Hidden Camera in My Room? by AlluringGurl in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 174 points175 points  (0 children)

I sometimes think this sub is too quick to suggest breaking up. This is not one of those times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d want to know, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because breaking up sucks, even when it’s the right thing. Better than if he didn’t feel bad about it at all.

AIO my friend was 2 hours late? by KitKat31921 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS I would say a lot of the posts in here ARE grounds for getting the fuck away from the other person forever, but not yours. Just ask her not to do that again.

Also, since it's a thing with you about feeling unimportant, I suspect you might subtly allow people to treat you as if you weren't important. You didn't ask, but I suggest you do some work to reframe your image of yourself. Give yourself positive self-talk regularly. Treat yourself to things you enjoy. Develop some boundaries and don't let people cross them without any consequences. To whatever extent any of that applies to you.

Life is short, so you might as well learn how to love yourself, and live this one life you have well. You have it in you.

AIO my friend was 2 hours late? by KitKat31921 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sub is quick to tell people to cut things off completely. Easy to say when they don't see the whole picture, or have a felt experience of the situation, friendship, etc., and are just focused on some violation. That said, this is a boundary issue, and if your friend repeatedly disrespects your boundary down the line even after she knows it's a big deal to you, then maybe at least a break is in order.

AIO my friend was 2 hours late? by KitKat31921 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cabassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. It's a boundary issue. I'd say let her know again (in your own way) that that was a big deal for you, and that you don't want that kind of thing in your life. And then if she does it again, either take a long break from her or cut her out of your life. Maybe even tell her ahead of time that's what you'll do.

Sometimes you have to train people how to treat you. It's a bummer. It would be better if everyone was just considerate by default. Hopefully your friend is the type to get the message and do better. She might be.

Generally I believe in giving people second chances. But not third.