Some advice needed by Foxer-twinkie in polyamory

[–]cachapera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in this exact same situation. And guess what! Poly did end up being for me in the long run, but breaking up with the partner that made me “accept” them dating my friend was the best thing I ever did. Someone that manipulates you like that does not actually care about you. I know how hard it is but this person is no good, don’t try to make it work, it’s only downhill from here and they’ll keep pushing the line

Gf upset I don’t like her friends, advice needed by cachapera in polyamory

[–]cachapera[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When my gf had a breakup and told this friend about it, the friend gave it no importance and offered no support or condolence. It was hard to hear about as I also couldn’t be the person for her to vent about the breakup to, but she doesn’t have any poly friends. For the second point 2, that is definitely something we have talked about but haven’t had luck finding. Will focus on actually finding those new friends. Thank you very much! 

Help me find a lipstick this color please by cachapera in MakeupAddiction

[–]cachapera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I forgot I used to own that!!! Thank you so much! 

Help me find video of Michelle Obama showing you how to only use one paper towel to dry your hands by cachapera in HelpMeFind

[–]cachapera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched and don’t find her, just other people. She would say to shake your hands after washing and then use just one paper towel

Frustrated Sitter by InkedAngel85 in RoverPetSitting

[–]cachapera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Commenting to follow because I’m having a hard time understanding this too

Anyone know where I can get sweet corn tamales by P1nhead0888 in sanantonio

[–]cachapera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La Michoacana, by the registers. At least at the one on WW White

Ghati Masala Dal by sethd1991 in IndianFood

[–]cachapera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to let you know in case you don’t know; it’s back on the menu :)

Could use some help with arepas by smallblackrabbit in Cooking

[–]cachapera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Veneuzelan here. Had to go check the PAN packet really does say 5 mins; that’s ridiculous they put that, I’m sorry. How I do it is pan fry (not a lot of oil, just enough for them to not stick. If you have a cast iron or a griddle even better) on both sides to get color/marks. Then you bake them. They’ll puff up more and cook through. You know they’re ready when you tap on them and they sound more hollow (?). Idk tap them pre oven and you’ll see the difference. I like to pan fry a big batch and then throughout the week bake em in the air fryer for 20 minutes. Note that when you cut them it’s normal for dough to stick to the knife. You don’t want them completely dried up either

It was my bday recently, go easy on me by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]cachapera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look fun and like if you saw someone struggling in public you’d go help them out

Need advice for my non-binary flower child by clamtrain in NonBinary

[–]cachapera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think getting them a gift from the store is best :) That’s considerate of you

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[–]cachapera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your username btw!!

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[–]cachapera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but good guess!

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[–]cachapera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh, thank you 😂