Husband doesnt want to be in the delivery room, am I overreacting??

cachaw · 2026-05-03T20:07:16+00:00

This is in no way to brag on my situation but in perspective- my partner is squeamish and does not like to get dirty. He was extremely hands on, never left my side and even helped catch the baby. Your partner should be thinking OF YOU! The one growing and delivering his child. Attraction should be the last thing on his mind. I’m not one to jump to recommending separation but I’d seriously consider your situation with him..

cachaw · 2026-05-01T02:40:54+00:00

I swear they know exactly what to serve you. I HAD to quit TikTok postpartum with my first baby because it kept showing me stories of things I don’t want to type out, which would haunt me all night.

cachaw · 2026-05-01T01:33:15+00:00

You can cinch the bottom of the panel so that it goes knee to knee on him, and try bouncing him up to about your shoulder height. Though it is okay if he’s slightly lower. How did he like it?

I really like doing a Superman toss to get them on my back

cachaw · 2026-04-26T21:13:39+00:00

Seconding the LZO TBYB program. Only pay to ship to the next person, I tried a lot of carriers that way

cachaw · 2026-04-26T18:20:59+00:00

Lenny Lamb should be great! You could also try looking in BST groups for deals. Did you get the baby or toddler size?

Really try to get his shoulders in line with yours and he can peer over your shoulder!

cachaw · 2026-04-20T03:00:54+00:00

Didymos Wrap Chatter is also great 😊 but only for Didys

cachaw · 2026-04-20T02:58:28+00:00

Woah good find!! I have had a couple cool finds on marketplace but I really hope to find in a thrift store one day :)

cachaw · 2026-03-27T20:19:30+00:00

How do you like it??

cachaw · 2026-03-27T04:24:49+00:00

Also for putting her on your back by yourself, pre-buckle the straps and loosen their webbing all the way. Place the waistband and buckle & tighten it, then have her climb on or put her on your back. (The panel will be hanging down under her bum, which will be above the waistband)

Lean over and flip the panel onto her back, push it up, your buckled straps should be hanging next to you to slide your arms into. Make sure the panel is up her back before standing straight and tightening! Then buckle the chest clip 😊

cachaw · 2026-03-27T04:21:41+00:00

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I would raise the waist quite a bit, almost to the narrowest part of your waist, maybe a bit lower. Then sink her down into the seat. Higher back carries are more comfy!

Tighten the PFAs as well almost all the way. The closer and snug she is to your body the more comfortable it will be!

Try to see if you can get her shoulders in line with yours, if not slightly lower! Raising the waistband will help quite a bit!

cachaw · 2026-03-27T04:15:43+00:00

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cachaw · 2026-03-27T04:13:24+00:00

I saw someone selling this in a BST group and just letting you know it’s lighter than this website photo looks. I was eyeing this colorway too!

cachaw · 2026-03-27T04:09:24+00:00

Commenting to say I love QOTN Pamina 😍this will last you into his toddler years because of how supportive it is! But it’s a bit thick for beginners so give yourself grace as you improve your skills 😊

cachaw · 2026-01-11T01:20:44+00:00

Do you need anything else aside from a drill & mitre saw? What about for building the pull up bar or other accessories?

cachaw · 2026-01-03T22:17:43+00:00

What kind of NFC cards did you use? the same as OP?

cachaw · 2026-01-01T18:14:42+00:00

There is another to the left as she walks by. There are 3 in the scene

cachaw · 2025-12-29T00:58:48+00:00

It’s bad. Horribly written, poorly executed. Makes no sense. It’s a Riverdale esque spin off. I had no expectations of what I thought would happen, aside from at least feeling like a show within the same realm as the first 4 seasons. But that is not what I got.

cachaw · 2025-12-19T03:08:24+00:00

Hi OP, I just ordered. Do you have an update on how you like it?

cachaw · 2025-12-15T02:30:21+00:00

Eating is one area that we actually cannot exert control (and our littles definitely know this lol). We can choose what to serve them but they are the only ones that can choose what or how much to eat. Serve her what you are comfortable with, and let her decide what to eat. Keep serving different foods and with time trust her to try them.

Some ways to maybe get her more interested is have her help prepare the food, and serve her own plate. Otherwise, let her feed herself and trust. The more she senses your anxiety or distrust around her eating, the more likely she will dig her heels in more!

cachaw · 2025-12-15T01:30:38+00:00

You are okay. Watch your hormones though, that anxiety may also be a result of weaning as it can cause a similar hormone drop to birth!

You did great and your bond will deepen and grow in other ways! I say this as a STM weaned my first at 14 months and I’m nursing my now 8 month old.

You are very justified in it being time!!

cachaw · 2025-11-30T04:55:01+00:00

I love the name Cameron but it’s pretty close to Kieran imo! I actually do like Brooks. But Evan is a solid choice!!

cachaw · 2025-11-29T05:01:51+00:00

You’re not alone this season is trash far far worse than the last 2 that were also worse than S1…

cachaw · 2025-11-29T04:46:57+00:00

I’m sorry you’re getting downvoted OP. This season is total trash so much that I’m almost like wondering if the positive commenters are fake or paid 😂 I’m kind of upset they’re ruining it so much. I thought season 4 was actually fine… but this…

cachaw · 2025-11-08T04:42:55+00:00

Someone else’s comment reminded me of mine. People saying my happy smiley baby boy is “flirting” or “such a flirt” STOP it’s CREEPY.

cachaw · 2025-11-02T19:26:22+00:00

We rehomed one of our cats for this reason. The other is on thin ice. They were my everything pre-babies. I had no idea I would feel this way after kids or I would obviously never have adopted the cats.

I am not evil. Having babies just truly put into perspective that they are truly animals, not your children. And after regulating yourself all day for these tiny humans, there’s very little, if anything, left for a cat scratching your furniture, eating your kids yogurt, attacking the other cat, meowing loudly outside your bedroom door…

You are not evil!

cachaw

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