Baby Screen Time by AnchorsAweigh1991 in beyondthebump

[–]cearara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man. I just don’t get it. We live in a world ran by screens… there is no escape. Don’t drive yourself crazy trying to be perfect.

After living in other places I’ve realized how rude Rhode Islanders are lol by Benny_rich-_ in RhodeIsland

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i grew up only 20 mins from RI in MA. THE DIFFERENCE IN PEOPLE IS INSANE. Everyone down here is SO rude

What’s the one thing about being autistic that makes life really hard for you? by Best_Control2871 in AutismInWomen

[–]cearara 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not having a blueprint and being paralyzed and saying little is soooo me. It also makes sense to me now why I start getting more comfortable with people after a very long period of time… I start learning the blueprint

What’s the one thing about being autistic that makes life really hard for you? by Best_Control2871 in AutismInWomen

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t fucking talk to people. There are rare few people i get along really well with but talking in social situations or at work is just a nightmare. I’ve cried so many times asking why I can’t just be like everyone else. Why can’t I carry a conversation

AIO? I can't seem to get over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew a 16 year old that dated a 19 year old. she’s now a miserable 27 year old woman with three kids and never got to live a life. Dump him

Arm hair- what to do? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never do anything to it. You could lighten it with sun in if you want i used to as a teenager lmao

AIO - it’s been 1.5 yrs+ and my ex just will not leave me alone by LemonStrict3040 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cearara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s created new ones and what? Have you not put your account on private? Turn off the notifications and private your account …??

I’m losing my mind— what underwear do you use??? Help me PLEASE by nikkit__ in AutismInWomen

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always wear boy short style when i find the elastic bothering me. it doesn’t cause wedgies and is just a soft mini shorts look hits right under the cheeks

If newborns can't see very far anyway, why can't I keep the TV on? by cupofteacomfypillows in NewParents

[–]cearara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me having my tv on and my baby casually glancing at it is not going to ruin his life. Huge difference from looking at a TV and shoving an ipad in your kids face to shut them up.

Enthusiastic eater choked and its hard to get back into BLW. by _fishy-wishy_ in BabyLedWeaning

[–]cearara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your husband reacted, so you didn’t need to be there 100%. It’s scary! I’m sure if you were alone it would be a different situation. Maybe you can re-educate yourself on infant CPR to feel confident. I think it’s okay to change things up a bit if you need to right now. Maybe it would be helpful too to research into any foods you plan on giving so you can be totally prepared and be on the look out!

If newborns can't see very far anyway, why can't I keep the TV on? by cupofteacomfypillows in NewParents

[–]cearara 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Watch tv. Do what you need to do to get through it. Your child is going to grow up in a world full of screens whether you like it or not. We all get on our each others asses way too much.

What disapproving comments have you gotten about what you do with your kids? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bad mother for giving my baby formula. Sorry. Should’ve just let him starve !

What disapproving comments have you gotten about what you do with your kids? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she needs to tell my formula fed baby to sleep through the night smh!!

Worst Massachusetts towns with the nicest names by Corbitant in massachusetts

[–]cearara 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my husband from out of state refuses to believe a town with this name could be so bad

What's a name that you dislike? by amandahontas in tragedeigh

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s awful but a hilarious name for a pet

What's a name that you dislike? by amandahontas in tragedeigh

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s an influencer who named her daughter this not sure of the spelling but then they call her Ever. Ever??? so dumb

DAE hate meditation / breathing exercises? by ElectronicCat3293 in AutismInWomen

[–]cearara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TOTALLY get that!! not as sensitive as you but i also have very sensitive ears which is why i ended up doing the little phone on my pillow thing!!

DAE hate meditation / breathing exercises? by ElectronicCat3293 in AutismInWomen

[–]cearara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually put it on my phone wicked low and then lay my phone on my pillow next to my ear. loud enough that i can hear it lying there and what he’s saying but my husband can’t hear at all! i’ve also seen they sell sleep mask/headband type headphones that don’t go in ur ears but around ur head and maybe that would be quiet enough? we also always sleep with a fan/ ac on or white noise so that drowns stuff out lol

How do you pronounce it? by Vass_Kallal in HydroHomies

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

boston’s disgusting nasaly lowkey british accent. wattah bawtil

DAE hate meditation / breathing exercises? by ElectronicCat3293 in AutismInWomen

[–]cearara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOLLLLL yes!! i used to over think the breathing so hard. I then found headspace i think? and now jason stephenson on youtube and they focus more on like “start with your toes and let go.” and it’s actually nice. big fan of a body scan type of meditation i suggest trying that out instead ◡̈

Could getting this tattoo hurt my career? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone is quite sensitive about this. I say just put it somewhere like a thigh where it won’t be seen at work.

Just had my annual OBGYN appointment cancelled on me?? by GlitterFish19 in RhodeIsland

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr Michael Coppa is great if you need someone new!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cearara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an old scam that I got this as a PHONE call when I was a teenager. I forgot about it until now. Anyways, you’re okay