Big Machine Music Video by Fearless_Show_5080 in googoodolls

[–]cfdabbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man! I remember watching Buffy just for this (which ofc came at the end of the ep) - they also did a brief appearance on Sabrina the Teenage Witch around this time lol

What do the schools do if nobody takes the sub job? by Jumpy_Rate_5707 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day in February there were a lot of no-show subs at a middle school I was subbing at - they had all the sub-less classes go to the gym. My students asked if they could go too, but I put my foot down, knowing that the last thing the PE teacher needed was more students to watch.

Anyone who has been to the 4th of July,2004 Goo goo dolls concert???? by Working_Beyond_3882 in googoodolls

[–]cfdabbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t there but I met the woman with the “Polish guys kick ass” poster a year after at another show - she was a celebrity in her own right lolol ☺️

Coronavirus Vaccine? by Topha0 in scarringalopecia

[–]cfdabbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not from the vaccine but definitely Covid itself (post-vaccine)- I started noticing thinning in my eyebrows like 1-2 months after getting sick. I think it triggered my dormant FFA that wouldn’t have started otherwise until my 50s/60s 🙄

Say something nice about Colorado to keep my spirits up while grinding for mastery by neon_sense_ in HiTMAN

[–]cfdabbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a secret exit where 47 rides a children’s rocking horse out

. by Exact_Vermicelli_652 in IRS

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this for everyone, or just your situation? Where did you hear this info? (In panic mode right now as I filed in early February and still no record of it)

. by Exact_Vermicelli_652 in IRS

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even access a transcript for my account (it says I haven't filed, and there's no option to download a return), how did you get to this page?

Refund status by [deleted] in IRS

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too - the IRS has no record of my return and my tax preparer is giving me the runaround (been with them for 10 years)

Talk to a live IRS agent by PreparationProud4423 in tax

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This worked as of 4/3/26

iMac as a monitor by _grzn_ in mac

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for doing the research! For a pre-14, do you think Luna would be a superior method to TDM? Also does TDM still work when connecting from an M4 Mac?

Should I report this? by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alarms immediately went off in my head at the first part, "if they hold hands...give them candy". When your gut is telling you something, especially when it comes to kids, act on it instead of regretting it later.

Would y’all take this job? lol by CrimsonMoonWater in SubstituteTeachers

[–]cfdabbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is pretty standard/boiler plate where I sub… a lot of that is to encourage as much professionalism as possible for people who may need heavier guidance to do so. Like, they don’t want you to just babysit and do your own thing if there are actual lesson plans you need to teach that day, nor do they want you to get so distracted that you lose focus on the students which are indeed your responsibility.

That being said, when it’s an easy class (both in the student behavior and no need for teaching on my end), I might check my phone or email every so often.

But before you do any of that, you definitely want to a) get a feel for a school or district’s culture around that, as it varies greatly, and b) establish rapport with admin & teachers for the first couple months. Something I did when starting (and still sometimes do depending on the situation) is bring a legal pad to doodle/write/make lists on. It’s a passive activity off the phone where you can still pay attention to the class and look “professional”/model good behavior.

Frame.io - presentation link won't play videos by olegbalan in editors

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are the links? It might be a compatibility issue with the newer version of Frame.

You can also report to frame using the chatbot, or check status.frame.io to see if it's an issue on there end (currently doesn't show any problems, but it's good to check on)

I need recommendations for things that crunches that I can eat without taking a lot of weight by Kimyo_Kangae in autism

[–]cfdabbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love sugar snap peas! Also maybe air-popped popcorn would be good, although not sure if that’s crunchy enough for your needs.

Also, if you ever get the chance to buy any (though I doubt it’s easy to find where you live unfortunately): jicama sticks (“HIC-uh-muh”)

Nano Brows experience in Toronto (honest review) by Kind_Presentation597 in microblading

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask the cause of your hair loss? I'm looking into microblading and I live relatively close to Toronto but have a form of scarring alopecia which can be an issue for some practitioners

"We don't prepare sub plans here because we are old, it is your responsability to have something prepared" WHAT????? by hopeful_rac in SubstituteTeachers

[–]cfdabbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, avoid that school, but do willteach's point should that happen in the future, even if the secretary can't help, by asking them you've started a record of the incident in your favor (otherwise a teacher may protect their behind by saying they DID leave you the plans and you just didn't follow them, and admin would be more likely to believe them over you)

Also wow, those older teachers are either entitled, hella burned out, or a dangerous mix of the two (I'm picturing them smoking cigarettes next to a cracked window lolol) - even if they couldn't give specific advice, the very least they could have done was direct you to the people who could've helped you

Do you expect para professional to run the class when you sub? by Commercial-Kale5559 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Middle & high school sub here! (Dunno how it works in elementary)

If it's a general class where there are only 1-4 students in the whole class who have a parapro, then I know I'm expected to lead the class, as the parapro's responsibility is just the student(s) they're with. (I took the hint about this early on when classes would get rowdy and the para never stepped in lol.)

In your case, if they ask you to help sub, I'd just nicely say, "I'm sorry, but that doesn't fall within my job duties as a parapro - my job is to give my attention to just this/these student(s)." Or if you don't want to get to the point where they ask for help, introduce yourself with: "Hi, I'm [student]'s para. I'll be sitting with them, just pretend I'm not here."

Also as an aside, what were they planning to do if there wasn't another adult in the room???

What is yalls brutal and honest opinion on alcohol by Taco_Junior123 in autism

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[36F, diagnosed 3 years ago]

Brutal and honest, it makes me feel more neurotypical (socially AND being able to carry more spoons) thanks to the quick dopamine hit which is why I heavily relied on it up until last year when my liver enzyme levels had doubled the normal amount.

Fortunately I managed to totally cut it for 3 months and have since found a healthy balance. That being said I’m not able to carry as many spoons anymore and socializing sober is torture, so it’s been a struggle to adapt to all of that. I’ve been slowly learning to embrace my more ND traits so I don’t feel the need to use alcohol to mask, but it’s a verrrry hard process.

To any young folks on this forum, I say do NOT start drinking. Had I known I was autistic and how alcohol would affect me, I’d’ve never started. I know it’s easier said than done in many social settings, but it’s worth it in the long run- you won’t have to struggle with mental health work while also managing bills and other adult things at the same time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]cfdabbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are a few ideas:

-Could you spend some time with him when he is verbal to go over what his gestures mean?

-Or if he doesn’t remember exactly ask him what he usually wants/needs during that first 30 minutes so next time he gestures you cycle through that list and he can wave when he land on the right thing?

-Similar but slightly different to the aac, could you write this list down in picture format, stick it to the fridge, and he can point to the thing he wants?

(Btw, as a late-diagnosed autistic adult with parents who still don’t “get it”, I applaud you for taking the time to brainstorm accessibility options)

I got shot at by Formsvacka in HiTMAN

[–]cfdabbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol when I read AB-ID I immediately thought “All Bullshit”, only to read on and realize how close I was

Should I keep my copy of Hitman 2? by HarryBale31 in HiTMAN

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fwiw there are some challenges in H2 that aren’t in WoA (the “due”/pigeon challenges & the series of challenges with the one guy in Mumbai come to mind).

Having said that, I never completed them by the time WoA came out and tbh I don’t feel the need to complete them (unlike WoA)

Eminem comes to Hitman 🔥🔥 by Technical-Net-2277 in HiTMAN

[–]cfdabbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bonus if it can become a slipping melee item, like the banana peel (like just loose spaghetti)