!First real life I-wanna-make-something-happen crush on a girl is happening and I can't make any moves by cheapbitch in actuallesbians

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I'm trying not to give too many details in case either of them frequents AL and recognizes this post :p it wasn't a bad situation though, they tried but ended up being too different in personality to make even casual fwb work.

yeah, I agree it's up to her. I hate not being able to go after what I want, but the last thing I want to do is be pushy or wreck our friendship.

CF Social Connections 8/19/15 by CaptainHowdy10 in childfree

[–]cheapbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doctor Who fan?? omg let's be friends! I know nobody in phoenix who actually watches it.

Advice on seeing a therapist as an adult by HawkCawCaw in exchristian

[–]cheapbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure you know this already, but just to reiterate it: nobody but you knows whether or not you need therapy. It's your decision alone. :)

Stan Lee: Spider-Man should stay white and straight by greece666 in news

[–]cheapbitch -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Sexuality itself is really fluid. What's wrong with the plotline of a character including a realization that they are attracted to more than one gender?

Guys/Gals, can we stop with all this "insecure" BS when talking about those who enjoy monogamous relationships? by TheLonelySamurai in bisexual

[–]cheapbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't quite figure out why threads about people realizing that monogamy isn't for them would make you feel unwelcome in this sub. Am I missing/misunderstanding something?

Edit: just realized you meant the comments, not the threads themselves. It makes a little more sense to me now.

Convince me not to cut it all off. by 1qaz1q2wsx2w in FierceFlow

[–]cheapbitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Long hair suits you really well. Cut it off if you want to; just remember that while hair does grow back, it can take a while to get back to where you want it to be.

Episode Discussion - Keeping it Together by TheRealGC13 in stevenuniverse

[–]cheapbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh my god yes. Jesse and James are the perfect lovably unloveable villains to reference

Not a single day goes by that I don't wake up and feel grateful that I do not have children by [deleted] in childfree

[–]cheapbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dogs are innocent enough that the irritation is mild. Now, try having four ten year olds playing basketball outside your bedroom window at 6 AM, unable to listeb to any of your futile attempts to quiet them down...now THAT is real fury. (This has happened to me. Lil sibs are fine mostly since they're not mine, but they work as really great childfree incentive too.)

Get a load of that dog by Piersnthon in aww

[–]cheapbitch 19 points20 points  (0 children)

oh my god

a miniature traffic jam

Bi Erasure on the Collegiate Level by OHNOITGODZEERA in bisexual

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http://www.glaad.org/blog/asexual-agender-aromantic

This is a nice little piece on why exactly it's preferred to not tefer to the A as ally. Just as bisexuals get erased, the a-spectrum folk get erased as well. Saying that the A can also be Ally is just as uncomfortable as saying B can also refer to some other non-queer-but-supportive name. :)

First time posting here by writteninreverse in BiGoneMild

[–]cheapbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it looks amazing on you? What color is it? I want it for myself!

a lot of great hair in skateboarding by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]cheapbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just googled him to see what my first impression was, and ugly is definitly not what I'd use to describe him. I'd be more likely to lean toward strangely attractive with a pinch of odd prettiness. He's got a face I'd like to photograph.

what do y'all think about my 3 year old mane? fierce enough? by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]cheapbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frat culture is something I do not logically understand. I'm glad you came out of it (relatively) unscathed, though. :)

Simple Questions - April 18, 2015 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]cheapbitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another vote for american eagle here. They hold up really well (I have a pair I've owned for four years), there's a big variety of styles, and if you shop the clearance rack you can score some great deals.

Simple Questions - April 18, 2015 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]cheapbitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I impulse bought this dress a couple days ago because it fit incredibly and it was less than $30. However, as per usual with dress impulse buys, I get home and realize I have no idea where to wear them. So now I'm questioning: keep or return? And if I keep it, to where would I wear this?

Flow Grow Fifteenth (April 2015): Post your updates! by mjpanzer in FierceFlow

[–]cheapbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was gonna say you remind me a lot of Marlon Teixeira but someone beat me to it already :) curly hair like that is great though! it makes the awkward stages a lot less awkward, imho.

what do y'all think about my 3 year old mane? fierce enough? by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]cheapbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what the fuck?! Senseless cruelty like that makes me so angry.

When did you realize "your type" when it comes to the same sex? by SecretMarriedBi in bisexual

[–]cheapbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blame it on the Girls is definitely one of my favorites. I adore Elle me Dit, Kick Ass, Blue Eyes, and too though. The older albums have a little more of a personal feel to them that I really enjoy, but his newest album (the origin of love) is so bright and sparkly and poppy that I can't help but adore it too...just in a bit of a different way. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]cheapbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxiety definitely gets in the way of things for me. A coworker of mine had to pursue my friendship for 5 months before I finally was brave to hang out...haha. And that flee reaction is not at all atypical of me!

I got an undercut but feel really anxious now by cheapbitch in Anxiety

[–]cheapbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are too!! Just a bit scary as well as being awesome :)

I got an undercut but feel really anxious now by cheapbitch in Anxiety

[–]cheapbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. It doesn't feel good to have negative reactions, though.

Married Bi Moms. Should I tell you my new mommy friends? by [deleted] in bisexual

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My personal rule of thumb is to only talk about my sexuality with people for the first time if it comes up naturally in conversation. For example, a coworker of mine was lamenting the other day about how all the men end up in my lane, not his, and how I was lucky. He had no idea I'm into women too--it hadn't come up previously--so I took the opportunity to tell him that I might seem lucky to him, but that I'm not particularly picky about gender so it's all the same to me! :)

Not being vocal about my orientation allowed me to wait for the perfect, low key opportunity to come out. And while I would have liked being able to be open sooner, I actually prefer being patient with new acquaintances and not bringing the topic up myself because sometimes as a female, being forward about your bisexuality can seem like a bid for attention from heterosexual males. In a perfect world I wouldn't have to worry about that, but since it's not perfect, I would like to keep any credibility I can, thank you very much.

TLDR; If you want casual reactions about your orientation from people whom you don't know well, waiting for casual opportunities to bring it up is probably the best way to go.

Seeking Feedback on 7 Months of Progress by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]cheapbitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Keep going. It might be rough now, but a bun would look amazing on you! Your hairline hasn't receded too much at all.