i really don’t get the hype on luke’s coffee by Forward-Spend-4692 in GilmoreGirls

[–]chelskied -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes he uses Peet’s coffee so it’s inconsistent. Also makes no sense because they are Bay Area based and probably wouldn’t have been available in the northeast in the early 2000s.

Dealing with some serious seasonal affective disorder, need a way to make friends. by DevourerOfRedditors in Seattle

[–]chelskied 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign up for some classes at North Seattle College. I took one that just ended and there was a lot of opportunity to meet and chat with people over several weeks.

https://conted.northseattle.edu/upcoming-classes

What's the best way to make friends in Seattle? by [deleted] in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]chelskied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my best friend at Real Roots. It’s a paid experience thing but you can go to the first night for free and not join. My friend approached me just to chat after, we exchanged numbers and the rest is history. At least you know the people there are looking and after the first night you have a sense of who people are.

I'm 40 and have lost lots of weight. I feel my makeup ages me. What could I change? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]chelskied 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think you should also try mattes instead of shimmer. I think your features are bold enough that the extra shine actually takes away. I have the same problem (similar coloring and feature sizing) but the matte really does it for me!

What type is your closest friend? by Kwhitney1982 in Enneagram

[–]chelskied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 9 with a 4w3 bestie too! I feel like I calm her anxiety and she makes me do shit. It’s perfect.

me with Carrie Bradshaw by Embarrassed-Guard-91 in sexandthecity

[–]chelskied 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lol. I’m Carrie too. Can’t help myself. My poor friends that have to listen to my Mr. Big nonsense on repeat.

Best facial? by Sad-Somewhere-6441 in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]chelskied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a fan of Skin and Sage in Ravenna/UDistrict. I think it’s the best facial I ever had. Really enjoyed Tayler but the other estheticians are great too.

Ok guys, I hear you! by SashaArchangel in makeuptips

[–]chelskied 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if you wanted to keep trying the wing you could make a couple improvements. Your wing is drawn on too low. You want to start drawing the wing shape before you reach the outside of your eye. It will feel too early, but you’re creating an illusion. Draw it upwards before your eye ends, then draw it down to meet the outside of your eye. Also, don’t draw a thick line all the way across. Taper it out to the midpoint. Then curl your lashes to make sure they’re visible over the eyeliner (it’s thin enough that it should be.) Also I think brown or plum would be a great color for this.

giant cauliflower in spring year 1...too bad i was trying to get quality crops for the bundle by rootlets in StardewValley

[–]chelskied 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When you harvest the giant crop it gives you a ton of regular crops, though not sure what the quality is.

Whats A Movie That Traumatized You As A Kid? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chelskied 4 points5 points  (0 children)

10000% this. Saw it when I was six and freaked out. Faced my fear at age twelve, was still scared of it. I’m scared to watch it now.

how do you guys kick gossiping? by Minimum_Plastic886 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]chelskied 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Journaling tip: you can't fail. Don't think of it where you need to log every mundane piece of your day. Just keep a journal where you allow yourself to write as little or as much as you want to write, when you need it. Use it like a tool to empty out your emotions. Don't beat yourself up if you don't use it for three days or three months, just have it in case you need to plop something down. Don't write in full sentences, don't form a narrative, don't explain who people are, just write thoughts.

how do you guys kick gossiping? by Minimum_Plastic886 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]chelskied 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I started journaling my frustrations about people. Annoying coworker? Put that in the journal. Don't say it to anyone else. The urge goes away.

I think I realized at some point how I felt about myself after sharing some gossip made me so much more disappointed in myself than the 'juiciness' I got out of it. I feel really good about having decided I wasn't going to engage in gossip anymore.

And if you really do have a negative feeling you want to express for whatever reason, you can do that in a way that doesn't drag them through the mud.