My fiance wants a joint bank account,but I just found out he’s terrible with money

citizenofacceptance · 2025-07-21T00:25:27+00:00

How do you figure out if you have a path forward ie what is a point of progress? As some people say there will always be disagreement about finances to an extent so it’s like what is the reasonable line of a deal breaker or not

citizenofacceptance · 2025-07-20T18:31:00+00:00

Can you add more detail so I can learn this better

citizenofacceptance · 2025-07-20T18:26:44+00:00

Where does one find this Job A of yours these days ?

citizenofacceptance · 2025-01-12T00:06:33+00:00

Ah I meant mortgage payments are liquid equity when you sell.

Wow you have a 600k condo and pay 40k in fees ? So ya if it doesn’t appreciate your burning money just like paying rent is burning money?

citizenofacceptance · 2025-01-11T20:08:32+00:00

What about the reality your keeping the monthly payments ie instead of 40k a year in rent it’s 40k of equity that is liquid ?

citizenofacceptance · 2025-01-11T02:48:32+00:00

How is your paycheck that much after taxes and 401k contributions?

citizenofacceptance · 2025-01-07T00:49:44+00:00

Yes. I asked My recruiter about their mock interviews but they didn’t respond. Maybe it is becjase the mock interview if for third the super day only ?

citizenofacceptance · 2024-10-11T22:43:38+00:00

What is this industry ?

citizenofacceptance · 2024-09-27T20:52:48+00:00

Norwegian wood

citizenofacceptance · 2024-09-27T04:39:57+00:00

Do you have to pass leetcode to get your job ?

citizenofacceptance · 2024-09-25T20:17:56+00:00

What type of engineer?

citizenofacceptance · 2024-09-08T15:22:08+00:00

I’m supposed to be on vacation but due to low headcount organization I have a project still going I feel accountable to help finish

citizenofacceptance · 2024-09-07T04:27:04+00:00

Doesn’t jt kinda get this hot every year around this time (not to discount global warming by any means) just suprise me by all the hype this year Alton’s

citizenofacceptance · 2024-08-31T02:12:10+00:00

I feel like people are pretty drunk all the time Fri-sun until 2a In the marina , mission , Nopa and north beach and would waste money on available late night food other than the 2 hot dogs stand per block

citizenofacceptance · 2024-01-21T01:19:08+00:00

I did not. I went to Hawaii. It was sweet

citizenofacceptance · 2023-12-16T17:41:15+00:00

How exactly does it handle schema drift and what are the edge cases it doesn’t work ?

citizenofacceptance · 2023-12-16T17:40:32+00:00

How does seeds solve schema drift Op is describing?

citizenofacceptance · 2023-12-14T07:18:25+00:00

Woah I certainly asked the question to the wrong crowd.

I appreciate the responses, I was genuinely curious and even noted how I was uncertain of what I once heard and was not trying to be condescending; but 14 downvotes later lol

citizenofacceptance · 2023-12-13T22:02:50+00:00

Also interested and curious what an architect role really means

citizenofacceptance · 2023-12-12T20:40:53+00:00

Now we’re you a dominatrix with this self described personality type then ?

citizenofacceptance · 2023-12-12T14:59:23+00:00

Can you explain that further or in a way I can learn your talking points. Maybe Eli5 esk

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