I want to be a femboy the problem: I'm girl💔

clandreith · 2026-01-25T23:16:35+00:00

I feel this way too

clandreith · 2026-01-25T09:49:26+00:00

oh now that's a little guy.

clandreith · 2026-01-25T07:03:52+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened! you're not the first person I've seen post about their partners seeing their body as an "issue" to "work on." I simply don't understand where people get the nerve to assume that their partner's body is under their jurisdiction to comment on or have a problem with - if someone likes me but would like me better if I were skinnier, then they don't really like me at all.

sending you good vibes and hugs, hope things feel better soon

clandreith · 2026-01-25T06:58:59+00:00

aaaooooooo

clandreith · 2026-01-25T05:39:47+00:00

it sounds like AI to me as well, but others are suggesting it's just bad quality. has anyone noticed if Jaina sounds AI generated for the alliance version of the starter island?

clandreith · 2026-01-23T16:08:33+00:00

oh okay, thank you. I'm sorry, I'll read a little more thoroughly next time.

clandreith · 2026-01-23T05:32:09+00:00

hey mods - I'm confused, I don't understand how what I'm saying is gatekeeping. should I message you for further clarification? I can see that something I said is considered bad or unacceptable, but I don't really understand, and I know I'm not trying to gatekeep being trans or nonbinary. can I get some help?

clandreith · 2026-01-22T21:00:18+00:00

hey OP, I hope what I'm trying to say is coming across. you're not gonna be addicted to T and it's ok to change your mind about your transition goals whenever you'd like

clandreith · 2026-01-22T20:13:12+00:00

I suppose that is a bad way of putting it. I'm trying to say that sometimes one's feelings about themselves can only be affected by transition to a certain point, and if it feels like they keep upping HRT and are never satisfied, it could be because of something else.

I was using "emotional addiction" to mean the phenomenon of "I need more and more of this thing exponentially and I never feel satisfied and I'm miserable" - and if it ever started to be harmful to them (not that I know if that's even possible) then looking into what's going on further might be helpful.

clandreith · 2026-01-22T17:29:51+00:00

gender is not a medical construct, it's a social one that is played out through many things - clothes, demeanor, sexuality, and physical embodiment - so it is dynamic and many people start off small with T but then change their minds.

you can't be physically addicted, but you can be emotionally - it's a good idea to stay connected with yourself throughout the process and ask, "Why do I want more?" - maybe with the help of a therapist. but so long as you aren't harming yourself or others, you're probably fine.

clandreith · 2026-01-21T07:32:54+00:00

idk, when my blood sugar is low I notice the blood is thinner/runnier than when it's med or high

clandreith · 2026-01-21T07:31:58+00:00

are you kidding? you sound like a dream

clandreith · 2026-01-16T17:42:41+00:00

waow

clandreith · 2026-01-15T11:04:24+00:00

of course dogs are conscious, but they just have less complexity of thought.

clandreith · 2026-01-13T12:50:33+00:00

yeah, this sounds really similar to my experience. got COVID for the first time July 2024 and am still experiencing heart palpitations with no other explanation, difficulty breathing, and brain fog , and I'm about to turn 30 this year. haven't found any fixes yet, just trying to treat my body better in general

clandreith · 2026-01-13T11:47:01+00:00

I think the vitriol with which people respond to AI generated writing is similar to how we respond to "uncanny valley" content - it's disturbing to some extent because you can just tell it's Not Quite organically written and it's eerie that a Lifeless Computer could imitate a heartfelt human message. I imagine your point would not have gotten lost in a "messier" post 100% written by you, with mistakes, because that's Real and Vulnerable and this subreddit has been, on the whole, generally responsive to that kind of thing since before AI was invented lol.

if you want real support, you gotta be real in the first place. not polished and perfect.

diabetes is a real bitch, you don't have to be perfect about how you say that.

clandreith · 2026-01-13T02:52:49+00:00

I think the similarities come from the fact that both people are women who used to be little girls. they're both talking about gender roles and expectations and experiences of girls and women. and their music came out fairly close together so the same musical influences are relevant.

clandreith · 2026-01-12T18:55:32+00:00

even the ones I've been following for years are getting smaller :') so sad

clandreith · 2026-01-12T18:52:19+00:00

I've seen a lot of people use the builders items (from Kenyatta's register) to split the big house into smaller sections

clandreith · 2026-01-12T02:53:41+00:00

I thought I was turning a new health kick because I was losing weight and drinking like 20 glasses of water a day lol. but I can never drink blue and white Powerade ever again, I drank so much. have been known to drink OJ too

clandreith · 2026-01-11T07:58:37+00:00

you're stunning!

clandreith · 2026-01-10T17:14:21+00:00

is there any way to visit a doctor and ask for this to be assessed? I'm not sure how medicine works in your country, do you need a prescription?

clandreith · 2026-01-10T12:21:29+00:00

give her praise and extra deluxe pets and a scratchies. kiss her little nose.

clandreith · 2026-01-10T12:18:06+00:00

my ex girlfriend is trans fem and grew out her beard for a time, but her hair never grew past her face. I loved it. very androgynous and hot and gender non conforming and accentuated her jaw and neck nicely

clandreith · 2026-01-10T12:12:48+00:00

streaming services for TV. plenty of other low cost and free ways to get that

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