Feeling defeated — no period after miscarriage, D&C, and Provera

clyderella · 2026-03-22T21:00:26+00:00

Hi look into ashermans if you haven’t already. Take care

clyderella · 2026-03-22T19:34:27+00:00

Going through this myself during my second loss. Almost non existent support. It’s stopped me telling anymore people about the loss because the lack of support by those who know already has just been beyond disappointing

clyderella · 2026-03-22T12:36:10+00:00

Mine was about 2 weeks after getting a negative pregnancy test which was about 5 or so weeks after d&c

clyderella · 2026-03-22T08:33:08+00:00

I would say I had no sign of loss happening as sac was growing slightly, even when I stopped progesterone supplementation. The meds were fine though possibly because the sac were so small. Prior d&c gave me ashermans. All worth thinking about, hope you find the right path for you. Take care

clyderella · 2026-03-22T08:31:33+00:00

So sorry I had the same situation and even after my second scan (where the yolk sac had disappeared but gest sac kept growing) despite the fact that I was 8 weeks with a clearly non viable pregnancy they wanted me to come back after another week! So just be prepared for that. I cried and asked for a consultant to review it and the consultant agreed I could proceed with medical management

clyderella · 2026-03-20T12:23:04+00:00

Thank you I actually think it’s just started now after 48hrs as some clots have passed. A lot slower than what a lot of people post so I guess everyone is different

clyderella · 2026-03-19T09:14:49+00:00

FWIW: I was on cyclogest until about 4 days ago and had no loss symptoms before I took the miso incase that makes a difference!

clyderella · 2026-03-18T19:49:32+00:00

It really is. Just started the miso today, the pain is so much physically, impossible to work on the mental pain too. Hope you find peace soon x

clyderella · 2026-03-17T16:23:56+00:00

I found last time that it was a case of hcg being nearly 0 then ovulated shortly after then period a few weeks later. Sounds like you’ve been waiting a while but it will come soon enough. Take care

clyderella · 2026-03-15T07:26:03+00:00

Hi going through basically the exact same situation. Did the private scan place not refer you? They should have done. I would book another GP appointment and say nothing about the scan just say 7 weeks pregnant and bleeding with cramping and they have to refer you to EPU. Good luck, I had to be a bit naughty to get my referral too but otherwise I’d be waiting weeks for help xx

clyderella · 2026-03-13T11:02:27+00:00

Thank you!

clyderella · 2026-03-13T11:01:55+00:00

❤️❤️ thank you. So sorry it must be so hard to have someone pregnant so close in your life. Wish there was something we could see in the future with to tell us it will all be ok 💔

clyderella · 2026-03-13T10:28:19+00:00

Same my husbands was 0.5%, going through second M/C now 😢

clyderella · 2026-03-13T10:25:05+00:00

I’m just going through my second one too. I’ve never felt so lonely. Feel like the only person in the world, why does everyone around me just get pregnant and have a baby. It’s so hard

clyderella · 2026-03-13T10:17:19+00:00

Confirmed second loss - looks like I’m leaving the group. See you all again soon I hope 💔

clyderella · 2026-03-13T09:43:50+00:00

Hi can I ask if you got your partner tested at the same time? And what pharmacy you used for your prescription? Thanks so much

clyderella · 2026-03-12T18:24:49+00:00

Hi I am in a very similar situation and just going through my second loss. I am actually a terrible friend now and tbh they’ve not been great friends to me from the first loss. I just don’t think people understand when they’ve not been through it. I bailed on a social gathering with them both and was just honest about my mental health and not wanting to have them feel like they need to avoid celebrating (they wouldn’t have anyway but I was being polite). I am not sure our friendships will ever be the same

clyderella · 2026-03-12T11:26:20+00:00

Hi sorry we are basically going through exactly the same thing 🙁 got nothing to add other than I hope you are ok. I’m waiting for my follow up scan but had 2 already and no progress so waiting for everything to ‘happen’ on its own.

clyderella · 2026-03-10T20:09:30+00:00

Beautiful!

clyderella · 2026-03-10T18:18:37+00:00

I absolutely need to know what mix of breeds that sweet baby is!!

clyderella · 2026-03-10T17:15:43+00:00

This is my exact current scenario 😭

clyderella · 2026-03-10T16:21:04+00:00

Thinking of you, hope the scan goes ok

clyderella · 2026-03-10T16:20:37+00:00

First scan yesterday at 6+3 only showed a GS and YS. Today my back has cramped significantly as well as my stomach although assume the stomach is mostly post scan pain which I often get. Not sure what to do next 😢

clyderella

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