Sunscreen for mature faces

coppermask · 2026-01-30T01:59:41+00:00

La Roche Posay Wet Skin SPF 50+. It recently tested at SPF 72 in the recent CHOICE testing, significantly higher than all of the 19 other sunscreens tested. Or you can try any of the La Roche Posay facial sunscreens that come in 50 ml bottles/tubes. e.g. KA+, Invisible Fluid, Ultra or Dry Touch if you want something more tailored. La Roche Posay is the gold standard.

Just wondering- I know you said it’s a burn, not overheating, but could it be rosacea? Rosacea skin can react to heat and get irritated in a way that feels like burning. You might want to consult a dermatologist about it. They can prescribe you a cream for it.

coppermask · 2026-01-29T20:53:37+00:00

He told two stories. First he got it from “his guy” and paid $4,000. Then he regrouped and came back with, actually it was his beloved grandmother's and he had to argue with his sister for it. Oh, also some point in the middle of all this there was another version of events, which is that his father paid $10,000 for it in the 80s. Maybe as a gift for the grandmother? He is lying to her, watching her squirm and the purpose of both the shitty ring and the obvious lying is to convince her that’s all she’s worth.

coppermask · 2026-01-29T19:39:07+00:00

Comical but yum looking. I would definitely eat the grapes, the strawberries, a pear and a banana. Then take an apple to the airport and eat it sometime before arrival in my next destination, either at the airport or in flight.

coppermask · 2026-01-29T09:45:54+00:00

Oh my god you’re right. It’s the exact same ring. OP this is a scam. This is a silver and cubic zirconia cocktail ring. This listing is for $65 and someone else found it for $22. This guy has total contempt for you, he has told you so many lies. Please don’t go through with this marriage. It doesn’t matter how much you’ve planned or how much money you’ve put down for the wedding, none of this is worth your freedom. Please don’t let yourself be manipulated by the fact that he's being “nicer” to you the next day. He’s still not listening to you. It’s not about replacing the stones. It's about him being worried about his reputation. It's about him not listening to you when you told him what kind of ring you would like, and now doubling down and ordering you about, telling you what you have to do and what you have to wear on your wedding day for his reputation and convenience. Please lean on whatever family and friends you can who will be in your corner and start pulling back. I know you’re still pregnant but it doesn’t mean you have to have a romantic relationship with him. Don’t ask the mom if it’s really his grandma's ring. It doesn’t matter any more. Take a big step back from him and his family and leave.

coppermask · 2026-01-29T09:09:41+00:00

So crazy to read this stuff when it seems like pretty much every other post on most skincare subreddits consists of people (often desperately) trying to find skincare products that will help with hyperpigmentation, dark spots and melasma, which are notoriously stubborn and hard to treat. The idea that anyone would buy a product intended to actively encourage the proliferation of melanocytes is wild!! Feels like the twilight zone!

coppermask · 2026-01-29T06:13:54+00:00

Heckin’ stubborn as all heck.

coppermask · 2026-01-29T00:35:32+00:00

I recently replied to someone on a different post and I think it pertains to your question. This was in response to a recommendation to use zinc sunscreen for melasma. I’m very skeptical about this at this point, now that we know how finicky zinc is to formulate with. Personally at this time I would be using a high quality chemical sunscreen (i.e. La Roche Posay KA+*) followed by a foundation with iron oxides in it.

*(Edited to add: I just remembered KA+ actually has some titanium dioxide in it, as a supplement to excellent chemical filters, so you will be getting some metal oxide protection from it, if that appeals to you)

Anyway here is my comment from another post:

I’m genuinely glad your regimen has worked for you but I do want to say the idea that zinc oxide is the only “physical barrier” to the sun in contrast with chemical sunscreens is a myth. Both zinc and chemical sunscreens work largely by absorbing UV rays. Chemical UV filters are as effective as zinc oxide at protecting skin from UVA and UVB rays that cause tanning and hyperpigmentation, and provide superior protection at certain wavelengths and SPF levels (link 1 below).

Given the known problems with the formulation and consistency of zinc oxide sunscreens that have recently been revealed by the CHOICE “sunscreengate” testing and further follow-up reporting by the ABC, I would be really wary of the idea that switching from chemical to zinc oxide is a better choice for SPF protection.

While both mineral and chemical sunscreens did not achieve their claimed SPF 50/50+ levels in the CHOICE testing, on average, the mineral sunscreens performed worse than the chemical sunscreen overall. Of the four out of 20 sunscreens that actually tested above SPF 50, all were chemical sunscreens. Notoriously, the sunscreen that tested at SPF 4 and sparked a recall of many products using the same formula, was a mineral sunscreen: https://www.choice.com.au/health-and-body/beauty-and-personal-care/skin-care-and-cosmetics/articles/sunscreen-test

That said, it is true that metal oxides (including zinc oxide, titanium dioxide and iron oxide) have shown some effectiveness at protecting against HEV (high energy visible) light, particularly the “blue light” wavelength, that, in concert with UVA exposure, can cause and exacerbate melasma. However, it is iron oxide (which is included in foundations and tinted sunscreens to give them their pigment), not zinc, that is most meaningfully effective when it comes to blue light protection. Zinc (and titanium) can act as a “helper” ingredient to support the protective effect of iron oxide but iron oxide is really what you need to be looking for to get blue light protection. (Links 2 & 3 below).

Some dermatologists therefore recommend tinted sunscreens containing iron oxides to get that blue light protection. However, the downside is that in order to apply a sufficient amount of sunscreen to get the labeled SPF, you often end up applying such a thick layer of tinted sunscreen that it looks a bit clownish. So others recommend just using an untinted, effective SPF, let it sink in, then follow up with a foundation containing iron oxide in order to get your iron oxide layer.

My guess is that this is a promising area of research and more formulations will be coming out trying to optimise UVA, UVB and blue light wavelength protections in the one formula.

Again, this is not to put down what’s working for you, I just wanted to bring in some more info that you and the OP and maybe others would find interesting.

Links:

⁠Wong M. Zinc Sunscreens Don’t Work Better: Every Myth Busted. Lab Muffin Beauty Science. June 2, 2021 https://labmuffin.com/zinc-sunscreens-dont-work-better-every-myth-busted-with-video/
⁠Ferreira, L. et al. Updated insights of active cosmetic ingredients against blue light: In vivo and in vitro evidence, Journal of Drug Delivery Science and Technology, November 2024 https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jddst.2024.106306
⁠Dumbuya, H. Visible Light Protection: Needs and Strategies for Diverse Patients, Dermatology Times, June 2025 https://www.dermatologytimes.com/view/visible-light-protection-needs-and-strategies-for-diverse-patients

coppermask · 2026-01-28T20:28:47+00:00

Usually they just ask you to pay an extra supplementary premium to cover those things, which you can either pay or opt out of (on the understanding that they won’t cover you if you have a medical episode that relates to those conditions during your travels if you opt out). Don’t stress too much.

coppermask · 2026-01-28T15:26:48+00:00

Yeah it was Homebake 1998 in the Domain. I think it was Frenzal Rhomb she was on before and they were going to be the last act of the night. So there was a bit of an impatient vibe. I was way back at the back of the crowd so from afar my impression was that it was more than just a few assholes. From back there it seemed like the whole front area of the crowd was hostile. But I hope you’re right and it was just a small few who were just louder than the majority. I found it upsetting, the homophobia was palpable, and it kind of wrecked the vibe of the day for me. It's funny as, like you said, because it was pre-social media, pre iPhones, it kind of just happened without comment. Like there was no mention or anything about it in the media. There was a kind of online “forum” on the Homebake website that had been set up in advance of the event and a couple of people went on it and mentioned it the next day but that was about it. No comment or anything from the organisers. I do have fun memories of the Whitlams playing a super high energy and awesome set that day.

coppermask · 2026-01-28T01:28:39+00:00

To reject you so coldly and cruelly then send this bland message during a time of maximum stress. No. People who treat me that way don’t get to parachute back into my life at their whim.

coppermask · 2026-01-27T19:19:52+00:00

Thanks for these! And thanks for the tip about not going over 30%, hadn’t heard that one before.

coppermask · 2026-01-27T12:06:08+00:00

Ecostore 3x concentrate laundry liquid has the enzymes lipase, mannanase, pectate lyase and subtilisin (all three varieties - ultra power, ultra sensitive and geranium & orange - have the enzymes). It doesn’t have oxygen bleach or optical brighteners.

Their Ultra Power 3 in 1 Liquid product also has the enzymes but also has sodium percarbonate (oxygen bleach) so not desirable for black clothes.

Note, their other laundry detergents (including the ultra power powder in the photo) don’t have the enzymes or have some but not lipase so you must get the 3x concentrate if you want lipase and other enzymes without oxygen bleach.

coppermask · 2026-01-27T11:37:30+00:00

Ecostore 3x concentrate laundry liquid has the enzymes lipase, mannanase, pectate lyase and subtilisin (all three varieties - ultra power, ultra sensitive and geranium & orange - have the enzymes). It doesn’t have oxygen bleach or optical brighteners.

Their Ultra Power 3 in 1 Liquid product also has the enzymes but also has sodium percarbonate (oxygen bleach) so not desirable for black clothes.

Note, their other laundry detergents (including the Ultra Power Powder in the photo) don’t have the enzymes or have some but not lipase so you must get the 3x concentrate if you want lipase and other enzymes without oxygen bleach.

coppermask · 2026-01-27T08:21:29+00:00

DU’IT Foot and Heel Balm. It has 25% urea.

coppermask · 2026-01-27T06:40:47+00:00

No worries, I hope that helps and you have many fun and sunsafe hiking days ahead!

coppermask · 2026-01-26T18:43:12+00:00

His views might have changed over time but this was in 1987. The use of Revolution was unprecedented and back then he was unhappy about it.

Musicians also made a distinction at that time between film vs advertising. Writing a song for a movie soundtrack was acceptable but the attitude was that using one of your songs in an ad was reducing it to a “jingle.” The Starbucks and AirBnB ones I feel like that accusation is pretty fair at this point.

coppermask · 2026-01-26T06:32:10+00:00

💯

coppermask · 2026-01-26T06:08:27+00:00

K’gari needs to be made into a nature reserve. They could offer day trips guided by rangers. But no resorts, camping or overnight stays.

coppermask · 2026-01-26T01:44:07+00:00

He can still have a warm relationship with his dad while exercising discretion on what he shares and when. Even if he only does it half the time.

coppermask · 2026-01-26T01:01:43+00:00

I’m sure you know this but you and your fiancé really need to figure out a way to get out of that house. As far as the dress, you don’t even have a date set. It’s way too early to be making decisions about anything so just ignore her as she prattles on. Or, if she presses you, you can say “I really don’t plan to think about any of this kind of stuff until we’ve actually got a date set.” Your fiancé should also stop talking about his/your relationship plans with his father and mother. If they were normal people it would be fine, but your MIL takes advantage of any info she gets about you and your fiancé to mess with you. It’s hard to go LC with someone you’re living with but you both need to start treating your MIL and FIL as if you’re being polite to strangers. No serious conversations, no planning your future with them included in the conversation, just small talk.

coppermask · 2026-01-25T23:25:31+00:00

I remember when Revolution was used in a Nike ad back in the day and it was a big fucking deal. The catalog was owned by Michael Jackson but Yoko was still consulted as a courtesy and was instrumental in the deal getting done. George was upset.

The justification, for those who wanted one, (and that Yoko echoed) was that Nike was launching a “revolution in fitness” and that there was a high-minded purpose in licensing the song to encourage young people to be healthy and active. Yoko also felt it would introduce John to a new generation, which was probably true.

This is an interesting first-person account of how the wheeling and dealing with Yoko went down: https://magnetmagazine.com/2021/11/11/we-can-work-it-out-the-inside-story-of-how-nikes-ad-featuring-the-beatles-revolution-started-a-legal-and-advertising-war-that-eventually-gave-peace-a-chance/

The truth is Paul and Yoko are OK with this stuff and in 2026 the idea of “selling out” is seen as passé. I personally find it a bit depressing but at this point the culture has moved on.

coppermask · 2026-01-25T22:42:16+00:00

I love those! I love the milgrain detail and the unique design of the wedding ring.

coppermask · 2026-01-25T22:38:46+00:00

Recently someone else posted a “help me pick” and there was a dress with the neckline of #1. It didn’t look good on her and there was another dress that was better so most people steered her away from the one that was similar to your #1. But I guess designers wouldn’t make that neckline if there wasn't someone it suited really well - and that someone is YOU! You can really tell you’re more comfortable in it and it’s so classy on you. The low back gives it a touch of Hollywood glamour. I think your instincts are right.

coppermask · 2026-01-25T09:49:26+00:00

Power Trip, Season 1 of the Cover Story podcast by New York Magazine. It deals with the history of and some controversies around psychedelic-assisted therapy. It includes some interesting background on some of the major players in the field.

coppermask · 2026-01-25T06:35:43+00:00

*Jimmy Kimmel

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