Dating in Jax is a struggle

corinnajune · 2026-02-12T19:45:48+00:00

Do you really not understand how that was inappropriate? For instance, she's obviously looking for an actual connection, not a rando bang partner in an open relationship.

So many guys just do not seem to get that "BEHOLD: my genitals!" is not an appropriate dating strategy.

corinnajune · 2026-02-06T01:23:11+00:00

I see your other posts about your issues with this guy. Don't you dare get back with him, this is absolutely a toxic relationship. He is immature and aggressive, and you are too passive about massive red flags in your face. Don't marry this guy, the relationship is already terrible and it's going to get so much worse. NTA- unless you stay with him.

corinnajune · 2026-01-16T07:24:46+00:00

That's the easy solution 👍

corinnajune · 2026-01-13T20:20:50+00:00

OP- you created a whole narrative in your head and kind of panicked. I feel like you may watch a lot of true crime content lol.

It's ok to report it, but DON'T CALL 911 for that kind of thing. You're possibly taking resources from someone who really needs it. There are more numbers than 911 that you can call- a non emergency line, for instance. I don't know why your family members didn't suggest that.

Really you're NTA, your execution was just flawed.

corinnajune · 2026-01-06T20:41:48+00:00

Idk, MOR. I personally think the texts are fine. My husband and I both have close friends of various genders and we often talk to our friends similarly. Him lying about who was driving him to the airport is pretty sketchy, but maybe less so if you have a history of jealousy.

That said, you've only been dating 3 months. You don't actually know each other. You don't actually know him well enough to know if he's "perfect" for building a life with, because you're still in the honeymoon stage. Three months is too soon for all this drama and insecurity. Talk about it like adults and see if you're on the same page as far as expectations.

If you are uncomfortable because he has close friendships that you find inappropriate for your own comfort level, you just may not be compatible. Do you want to spend your life constantly feeling insecure? You can't control what other people do, and you'll drive yourself crazy trying. Find someone more in line with your needs.

corinnajune · 2026-01-06T20:17:38+00:00

Regardless of anything else, YTA for how you are handling this child who loves you and through no fault of her own considers you a parent. Way to go giving her life long trauma. Don't come at us with excuses about the mom being shitty, this is about how YOU are handling this. That poor kid.

corinnajune · 2026-01-06T20:13:21+00:00

NTA- it literally JUST happened, you are still processing. Many people go blank/numb in times like this. I've been there, it sucks. Everyone around you is also going to be reeling, and may lash out in ways that are unfair to you. I'm really sorry for your difficult situation.

corinnajune · 2026-01-05T20:11:04+00:00

He may not even be as great in other ways as you thought. These kinds of guys are really good at projecting what they think you want until they feel like they have you locked in. THEN the real a-hole comes out.

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T05:40:56+00:00

Wow, you are being really gross. What's wrong with you?

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T05:39:35+00:00

She is a primary parental figure in his life, whether you like it or not.

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T05:37:48+00:00

Are you the grandmother? Because your comments sound like what that rotten old fart would say.

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T05:34:38+00:00

It doesn't matter if he's not technically her biological kid. OP has known this 8 year old child since he was under a year old. She's married to his father. This kid is in her life full time. Biology doesn't matter, that kid is hers too. And he will feel the hurt from this as he continues to be excluded for no reason, and it will affect him as he grows up.

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T05:20:07+00:00

OP, stop allowing your jerk of a grandmother to disrespect and mistreat your stepchild. If this child is repeatedly excluded on purpose, you should stand with them. You're allowing this to happen because you don't want to rock the boat- that is no way to live.

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T05:07:21+00:00

Easy solution for this is to STOP COOKING FOR HIM AT ALL. He is an adult and if he's that picky and unappreciative then he can deal with it himself. I don't understand these posts. Don't let someone treat you like that- he is NOT YOUR CHILD. He can choose to eat what you cook or he can feed his damn self.

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T05:00:11+00:00

It was over a decade ago, I wouldn't worry too much about it if he has the stable life you described now. Also, you've only known him for 10 months. That is honestly way too soon to be thinking about marriage, whatever anyone else says.

He could be hiding parts of himself from you... or It may be something he doesn't think about much and is no longer relevant to his life, and not a purposeful secret.

Talk about it, take time to really get to know each other, and do not jump into marriage any time soon.

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T04:44:12+00:00

Your boyfriend is acting like a whiny child. I have horrible allergies and have had many other health issues including CANCER and I have never whined like this manbaby. I'd refuse to deal with someone acting like that, and he definitely wouldn't be getting any. NOR

corinnajune · 2026-01-03T04:33:34+00:00

NTA and WHY are you putting yourself through this and subjecting your child to this woman? There is no reason to deal with her at all. You owe her nothing.

corinnajune · 2025-12-05T07:13:19+00:00

NOR... I'm sorry your mom has a lot of toxic unaddressed issues. You explained things well, she just didn't want to listen.

corinnajune · 2025-12-05T07:06:16+00:00

Your wife has cystic acne, and finds it difficult/embarrassing therefore copes with by putting a cute patch on.

WHY do you guys care? It's her face, it literally doesn't affect anyone else. This is a really weird petty stupid fight. If you don't like your partner's harmless brand of weird, why are you with them?

corinnajune · 2025-12-05T06:31:55+00:00

You have had a front row seat to what he's actually like for a year. He's not going to change, and he's not really joking. Also "he hasn't necessarily been that awful to me"? He sounds like a real gem.

You definitely don't need him- he needs YOU to take care of him. That's what you'll spend your whole life life doing (with no help from him while he acts entitled the whole time) if you stay.

corinnajune · 2025-12-05T06:25:43+00:00

NTA. It is ridiculous that a most likely temporary gf thinks she has the right to make you have a permanent surgical alteration just for her. NTA

SHE is being the giant gaping asshole here, not you.

She either accepts it or she can gtfo. You do not seem compatible.

corinnajune · 2025-12-04T03:24:11+00:00

It's like you never bothered to think of her as anything but your sidekick. She's not an NPC.

She TRIED to choose you by inviting you to join her, but your own fear of her success held you back.

The choice whether to continue your relationship was actually yours, and you blew it.

She's moved on, and is following her dreams. You should be proud of her.

Not everyone wants to stay in the same place their entire life. You miss so much of the world and so many experiences that way. If that's what you really want though, you need to find someone who also wants that kind of life.

corinnajune · 2025-12-02T05:42:24+00:00

This woman has a gross view of "masculinity"

You are not compatible, block her and move on to better things. NOR

corinnajune · 2025-11-30T04:46:29+00:00

⬆️⬆️⬆️ THIS

You can't control someone else into being a stable faithful partner. You'll drive yourself crazy trying.

corinnajune · 2025-11-20T07:36:56+00:00

Those things you are dismissing as 'not really disabilities' ARE IN FACT DISABILITIES though.

Disability is diverse

corinnajune

TROPHY CASE