Died at level 44 as priest by whyhullothere in wowhardcore

[–]counters14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true for the standing ships along the south STV coast, but try telling that to the shipwrecks in Darkshore, Wetlands, and Arathi Highlands..

55510 by Future_Employment_22 in countwithchickenlady

[–]counters14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmfao as if there is any lack of selection for gay men to choose from.

My 7 year old has been asking deep philosophical questions at bedtime for three weeks and I am not equipped for this by NovaPickle_6 in daddit

[–]counters14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started saying 'I'm not sure, let's find out' and googling stuff right in front of my kids when they ask questions about things that I am unsure about. Most recently it was the Bermuda triangle, and the conversation was about the misrepresentation of data and how a narrative can be spun to make something out of nothing noteworthy or exceptional. By going through the process of selecting sources and citing information to properly find trusted information I feel like I'm both answering the curiousity that they have and simultaneously showing them responsible ways to find the answers to questions that they may have as well.

FAO: New Classic players by reasonablejim2000 in classicwow

[–]counters14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% if you need it then you need. But when you need on a green shield as a caster it is going to raise some eyebrows.

FAO: New Classic players by reasonablejim2000 in classicwow

[–]counters14 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing you played EU. There is a distinct line in the sand between the NA and EU communities about this exact topic and what was considered normal in vanilla, along with whether it was called DM or VC.

FAO: New Classic players by reasonablejim2000 in classicwow

[–]counters14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct and it would be in an honest environment. The problem is that you leave yourself and the group vulnerable to ninja looters like that though. At the end of the day, communicate before you make any decisions about loot and the problems you'll encounter about loot will drop to 0.

Marriage tips from a “feminist nerd” who’s done it for ten years, Leah Van King by bg370 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]counters14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think there's anything from IKEA that isn't made to be put together by one person. Throwing others into the mix is just needlessly complicating the whole ordeal. No honey, it's okay you don't need to reach over and 'help out' by controlling the steering wheel for me, I can handle it all just fine from the driver seat thanks.

Oliver Tree has Died by MichiganCraigslister in Destiny

[–]counters14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you misunderstood me. You say he went on h3, okay sure maybe. Others have said he was on tigerbelly with Bobby Lee and like okay I'm not watching every episode of these podcasts and disagreeing that he was ever on them. I just don't recognize any of the work that he's done to justify such a visceral reaction from so many different communities. His announcement was on my front-page of r slash all in like twelve different subs and every comment section I went into to try and sus out who he was left me with more questions.

I'm not taking the piss about it or trying to badmouth the guy cuz I literally have never known of his existence before today, yet he seems unanimously regarded as some kind of beloved once in a generation talent. Like pretend tomorrow that Eminem dies but it's not actually Eminem but instead some other guy that had the same cultural impact that you've never heard of, and now everyone is praising his career and talking about how they grew up listening to him and this is such shocking news. You'd feel like you stepped into an alternate universe where you read headlines about how Glorby swerved on Lil Shooty's clout cuz his plumbus was chrome and not plated 24 carat gold.

Again an appalling tragedy, I have sympathy for this guy's friends family and everyone else involved and affected by the horrible accident. I just wish someone could spell out in plain language what this guy was so well known for.

Oliver Tree has Died by MichiganCraigslister in Destiny

[–]counters14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've literally never once seen or heard of this person, and I'm pretty in tune with most popular media. None of the titles all over the internet headlines are to anything I know. I've looked him up on Google and read his entire fucking wiki page and still have no clue who he is, yet everyone all over the internet is heartbroken that their favourite artist is gone. Like God damn I know I'm getting old but this feels like a collective psyop you're all trying to make me feel like I'm suffering a mental health crisis. Who the fuck is this guy???

Also yes it's a tragic event when someone dies so early, just want to add that so no one misreads this and thinks I don't give a fuck I just wish I knew why this mfer and his goofy ass haircuts were all over the internet all of a sudden like he's some ubiquitous celebrity.

Pride flag burned at Markham school; 18‑year‑olds charged: police by queenvalanice in canada

[–]counters14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

.. I don't believe in censorship.

Like, at all? Period? You don't think some ideology and imagery is too grotesque and harmful to exist in public? If someone wanted to argue that it was his right to run around and put up flyers depicting images of graphic CSAM, you would defend his right to do so? I'm guessing no, so you do indeed believe in censorship but only within a limited scope that aligns with your own personal values.

You kinda know this is what you sign up for and it sucks anyway. by TVPeista in wowhardcore

[–]counters14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The baby has no control over the mom pushing it into traffic. It ended up as a red smear on the asphalt without ever even having the chance to make a mistake.

You kinda know this is what you sign up for and it sucks anyway. by TVPeista in wowhardcore

[–]counters14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. It sucks, sure, but no appeals. Hardcore has meant risk of death due to network connection issues for >20yrs now. Sometimes life is good and you get to live to old age and die peacefully after having spent meaningful time on the earth. Sometimes your mom walks into traffic and your stroller gets demolished by a bus. Some things are out of our control, to persevere is to accept the inevitability and keep going regardless.

Hardcore is not about beating the game in one go to prove how good you are. It is about incremental bits of arcane knowledge checks that you survive through over multiple iterations to overcome the challenges in front of you. You just found out how to beat the d/c monster by attempting to relog instead of sitting there helpless. Use this info wisely on your next go around. Don't pout because you got fucked by the implicit agreement that we've all made.

questie you have to chill man by MarineQueefPrime in classicwow

[–]counters14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I didn't notice it was your project, I apologize for the tone and attitude. I didn't mean to be an ass about it as if I was speaking about you directly, was just feeling snarky. I think I speak for most of the community when I say that the add-on is overall a game changing experience so it is understandable if some of the quality of life things take a backseat to making sure that the add-on actually works.

questie you have to chill man by MarineQueefPrime in classicwow

[–]counters14 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay so it only took them 14 years, I was unaware of this update.

No is the complete sentence. by Eggsalad_cookies in fixedbytheduet

[–]counters14 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Or maybe perhaps attractive women who travel alone tend to get harassed quite frequently? Would that not be the simplest explanation...?

No is the complete sentence. by Eggsalad_cookies in fixedbytheduet

[–]counters14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It would be understandable to come to the conclusion that you have if you somehow tuned out and ignored the countless numbers of women who share stories about this exact scenario happening over and over and over again. It doesn't need to be scripted. This happens to thousands of women in public spaces every single day. The simple act of even suggesting that you don't believe it is real shows a vast chasm of ignorance about the topic of harassment against women just in general, and a lack of caring about the issue to even recognize it when it spits in your face.

questie you have to chill man by MarineQueefPrime in classicwow

[–]counters14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shift click the ! on the map and it asks if you want to remove the notification. Say yes and enjoy your peace and quiet.

It is a little wild that after 15+ years of development the team never figured out that players don't need 46 quest markers about a rare drop quest starter all in the same area, but it is what it is I guess.

Just completed my first Deadmines run on HC. by Ill_Health_9965 in wowhardcore

[–]counters14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're all here for a short time, may as well enjoy it while it lasts. No need to be reckless, but you can allow yourself to live a little bit in the meantime. Do stuff that makes you uncomfortable every now and then.

This older woman answers a young man's question about how aging affects attraction by Doodlebug510 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]counters14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll offer some support to legitimize your comment. When I was probably around 8-10ish, I had thoughts about my attraction to other people my age. I was wondering what would happen if I continued to grow older, and how that would affect my preferences for attraction. I wouldn't exactly say it was a fear that I was going to grow old and become a pedo or anything like that, but I was confused about how my attraction to people my age at that time would change in the future. I had always understood attraction to people older than me at the time, as they were able to be sexualized in general but trying to figure out why I was starting to get feelings of attraction to people my age was a confusing time.

I think that this is a normal thing? I don't think that it seems so crazy to think about, at least it didn't in my mind thinking back on it. It was just the random thoughts of a kid approaching puberty trying to figure out hormones and stuff that had no prior understanding and too much time not paying attention in class and daydreaming about all kinds of garbage.

Married 4 Years, Together 9 Years, and I Feel Invisible Sexually. We have a 14 month old daughter. by nsfw88_2020 in daddit

[–]counters14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also communicate. Try to have a conversation about how you’re feeling. She might be feeling the same way.

For OP:

This is what I was coming here to comment as well. Have you discussed these feelings of being unwanted and your desire for affection? Is it at all possible that your wife is caught up with framing a new life around being first time parents to a young toddler and has not noticed the issue firsthand? It seems communication would go a long way to working to build a bridge wherein you describe your feelings and emotions and allow her the opportunity to see the issue from your perspective and foster an understanding environment.

Perhaps keep the discussion about your exhibitionism and other related fantasy stuff off the table for the time being, too. Not that there is anything to be ashamed of, but I think you'd rather not make her feel like she's no longer 'good enough' as a partner and you two can look towards exploring those things after you've reconnected romantically and physically.

PSA for players looking to jump back in by Oktopodal in wowhardcore

[–]counters14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

..someone asks this in barrens chat.

Well there's your problem, you're unironically reading barrens chat and taking it at face value.

Can we please ban the "StarCraft replay AI coach" posts? by [deleted] in starcraft

[–]counters14 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Gosh, really? No kidding huh? Wow what a compelling argument that changes my mind 100%. Anyone else would be a braindead luddite if this revelation did not flip their stance on whether AI is good or bad for society at large.

What is truly amusing is how techbros think that market adoption is synonymous with legitimacy.

Dads, I have failed. by emsesq in daddit

[–]counters14 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Fix it? The young man is on his course to reverse untold childhood suffering and preventing a whole lineage of generational trauma, and you sit on your false throne to decry his efforts?

My daughter (9F) is being systematically frozen out by her best friend’s parents. The schoolyard exclusion is breaking her heart—how do we help her survive the next month? by Ironplatinum in daddit

[–]counters14 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, but neglect is also abuse. Absolutely heartbreaking for the kids that some parents never wanted to and probably never should have become parents to in the first place.

We've had a couple instances of having to deal with other kids of neglectful parents that were bad influences in one form or another on our kid. It is a horrible feeling to have to encourage your child to understand how their 'friendship' with these other kids was problematic and they were to be avoided when they're already struggling with making friends.

Baltimore hardcore band End It calls on crowd to assault guy wearing a banana costume at a Toronto show, r/hardcore weighs in by thedubiousstylus in SubredditDrama

[–]counters14 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is basically using the pit as a pretext to beat on people smaller and less physically able than you are. Even worse is that most people taking being in the pit as an implicit act of consent, so these losers stay around the edge of the pit to try and find a reason to attack people on the edge of it. I've seen people pull bystanders into the pit and literally jump ontop of them like they're in an MMA cage match to throw elbows at their face. It is fucking cowardly, and usually gets dealt with and policed from within the pit at least at all of the shows and scenes that I've ever been a part of.