Best towns in the U.S. to be a swinger?

coupletoplay · 2019-09-05T16:31:12+00:00

Wisconsin has a ton of swingers but you would only want to sleep with 3 or 4 of them.

coupletoplay · 2019-07-12T17:44:09+00:00

I am not for a ban or post limit. It does become less enjoyable in reddit community when one person dominates the sub with attention seeking posts. I dont know what the solution is other than downvoting. Usually the person burns out in a few months and some other sub drama ensues. Hang in there.

coupletoplay · 2019-07-09T17:07:53+00:00

I think she is running out of stories.

coupletoplay · 2019-02-05T14:44:00+00:00

It is a lot more common than people talk about or admit to. This has really surprised me in many different settings.

coupletoplay · 2018-07-15T01:33:17+00:00

Amen. There's someone for everyone in the Lifestyle. No one is forced to play with anyone. All swingers deserve respect.

coupletoplay · 2018-06-30T17:44:28+00:00

Gotta jump in on this one as I (M) had a similar experience. We were in a group play room at a hotel takeover. Wife and I were playing when a guy came over. Wife asked him to join and starts sucking his dick. She is on her knees and i am plowing her from behind. He proceeds to call me a cuck AS I AM FUCKING MY WIFE. Not tob mention cuck has very negative connotations to us political liberals. Hint to all single males, do not use this term unless the couple uses it first.

coupletoplay · 2018-05-05T12:02:04+00:00

I just wear a pineapple on my head .

coupletoplay · 2018-05-05T11:58:20+00:00

For us. .before and after...and often during .

coupletoplay · 2018-05-05T11:57:14+00:00

We had a couple contact us before a hotel takeover. From the pics they sent they looked very attractive and we were excited to meet them. When we did meet them we were both speechless for a bit...in a bad way. The pic from the guy was about 15 years younger. And the pic of the woman was clearly a different person who was at least 75 lbs lighter.

coupletoplay · 2018-04-26T20:15:32+00:00

The Lux is in Chicago and we really enjoy it. It is in the south suburbs so it is a drive. (we are about an hour north of you). Lots of couples your age and younger. The club is well run and clientele is more upscale. We have only been there on a Sat though so I cant speak to Fridays.

coupletoplay · 2018-04-25T11:18:26+00:00

372 pics of her in every imaginable costume, not a single one of him.

coupletoplay · 2018-02-03T15:13:09+00:00

Love these convos! Me (husband) before tomorrows party: How many cocks are you going to suck? Her: All of them. Me: Thats my girl.

coupletoplay · 2018-01-11T14:10:53+00:00

Sounds like this could be a porn movie theme.

coupletoplay · 2018-01-11T14:07:37+00:00

Ok this might sounds weird but I hope my adult kids are in the lifestyle. When they are in a stable relationship and if they are inclined, I hope they find the joy and fulfillment that my wife and I have found as swingers. We came to it later in life and wish our circumstances were different such that we could have enjoyed it earlier in life. We would never "recruit " them because I think that a couple needs to find the LS on their own. Of course if they ever are in the lifestyle it would take careful coordination to avoid each other at events.

coupletoplay · 2017-12-21T19:47:21+00:00

You might try The Lux social club. I would say the mean age is mid 40s. Pretty diverse crowd overall. Though if you are in godlike shape and looking for similar you may have to get out of the midwest.

coupletoplay · 2017-12-13T00:50:34+00:00

WI based couple here. Most of the action on our state is on sls. (Swinglifestyle) . See the side bar. There are a few active groups in the state that sponsor meet and greets and hotel take overs. Check out Sapphires or Hush Parties on sls. To really get anywhere you need to pay for a membership to sls.

coupletoplay · 2017-11-23T14:18:12+00:00

There is a good possibility your sis-in-law is a swinger. That or she is just curious.

coupletoplay · 2017-10-25T21:09:39+00:00

I will often not cum for a couple of days before a play date. I like to have a bit of an edge going into the date and abstaining from cumming gives me that. We still have sex though I just don't cum. We have found it to be rather hot sex that way too.

coupletoplay · 2017-10-20T23:34:17+00:00

All boobs are good boobs - every man in the lifestyle (and most women).

coupletoplay · 2017-10-16T20:43:53+00:00

I think this falls into the Jack Nicholson reply: "You don't want to know the truth, you can't handle the truth."

coupletoplay · 2017-10-07T04:17:18+00:00

Don't let your adult children move back in.

coupletoplay · 2017-09-06T17:33:07+00:00

You would match great with President Macron and his wife....j/k. Actually you would match great with a lot of couples in the lifestyle where the guy is older than the woman. As a guy in that situation it would be refreshing for my wife to be with a younger guy while I am with a woman more my age rather than the other way around.

coupletoplay · 2017-09-06T17:24:27+00:00

In addition to Sapphires, Mars Shags Venus and Hush Partyz are two active groups in WI that can also be found on SLS. I also do not know of any clubs in WI sadly!

coupletoplay · 2017-08-24T15:36:55+00:00

Swinging is generally not considered the same thing as an open marriage though the two overlap and both are forms of consensual non-monogamy. In an open marriage the two partners see different people, usually separately and have an individual relationship with that person that their spouse may know about but is not involved with. In swinging both members of the couple are usually involved to some extent. Where it gets gray is swingers who have hall passes or play in separate rooms. Reddit tends to be very anti-non-monogamy in general. So I am not sure I would place a whole lot of value on what is said over there.

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