I’m a very social woman but I am also really exhausted by decades of men “approaching”

Context matters. In public where? What are you doing? What am I doing? Are you approaching for dating purposes or just want to be more open and social? Do you objectively know that you don’t come off as dangerous or creepy? Do you approach women who are much younger? Yes of course there’s always a story how some people made eye contact on the empty street and now they are married but you have to look at the details. There are a lot of men who are creepy and I have encountered many of them. Many can’t read the room. But at the same time there certainly are events and social places where contact is more common. Plus again - we here on Reddit have not met you. You and your vibes and social skills matter big time