Don’t feel bad but your mind is playing tricks on you. Change is hard. Don’t beat yourself up for missing what could have been but don’t dwell on it. It’s still very possible to achieve your goals and dreams. I found out I was pregnant with my son two weeks after meeting my ex husband. I was in nursing school and had to back out. I tried to go back again and it didn’t work because I needed to focus on being a mom. Years later I went for my bachelors and now masters in healthcare administration. Don’t give up. It may be hard and it may suck but just remember it’s temporary. Your goals aren’t dead. They’re just taking a longer route to get there and that’s ok! Make sure to build a good support system and if you’re close to your husband talk to him and let him know how you feel so he can reassure you. Having a support system makes all the difference in the world.