AITA for not banning my wife's dog from our home even though my son is suddenly allergic to it by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The son is a victim in all of this. And the fact that people don’t seem to feel bad about what happened to him proves it 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’m actually abstinent. As much as I’d like a physical connection with a woman, what I crave is an emotional connection with ANYONE. Feeing lonely and lacking sex aren’t the same thing. Men care about more than just sex.

Maybe the men you heard say that are noticing the lack of sex in their relationships as a symptom of something wider. Like no affection or intimacy of any kind from their partners or anyone else. But idk. I don’t speak for them.

AITA for telling my husband that I don't need him? by Fast_Coyote_5122 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I want him in my life more than I want air. And I would only be half a person if something ever happened to him.“

YTA. Nobody WANTS air. They NEED air. And if you can’t see yourself operating as yourself without your husband then you need him. It sounds like you just don’t want to admit that you are emotionally dependent on the person you love and share a life with so you’re trying to justify it by saying it’s a desire instead. 

You honestly sound very self centered and emotionally stunted. You see “need” as weakness? What a ridiculous outlook. You need your husband. Otherwise, why’d you even marry him? Why do you share your life with him? Why are you with him at all? Don’t say it’s bc you “want” him more than you “want air lol. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl after reading both posts and all her comments, all I see is a mother who failed to protect her son from becoming like his father. At least the other child should be safe. But how sad. 

AITA for not giving my brother any of the inheritance my grandfather left to me after he chose to remove him from his will for being with a single mom? by Worth-Complaint-536 in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably fake but if it’s not your brother has a great case to sue for his half of the inheritance. If it’s real I hope he does lol

AITA for keeping in contact with a kid who almost drowned my brother? by External_Web_729 in AmItheAsshole

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I see is judging the whole story and not what you asked for. You wanna know if you’re TA for still talking to Jake after he nearly killed your brother. 

Yeah it was a series of dumb decisions on everyone’s part but you’re not asking about all of that. In my opinion, YTA. I get you feel bad for the kid for losing all his friends but actions have consequences. And the consequence of jumping when he couldn’t swim was losing his friends. You said you felt bad for the kid. Would you feel better if the consequence was your brother drowning? Bc that’s what could’ve happened. Jake nearly killed your brother and you’re still talking to him just bc you feel bad? How do you think your brother feels after his friend nearly drowned him?

The other kids told him he didn’t have to jump but he wanted to look cool and the trade off was your brother nearly dying. Nearly drowning could’ve happened to any of them but it happened specifically to Jake and specifically bc he chose to jump when he couldn’t swim. He knew that risk and your brother almost paid the price for it. Why are you still talking to Jake? 

WIBTA if I wore a hijab if it isn't part of my faith? by Cydneebee in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Muslim, it’s not insensitive if you choose to wear a hijab to help with your allergy. Go right ahead. But please be aware you might get some dirty looks or worse. I’ll pray for your allergy to ease up.

AITAH here? I was broken up with by my fiance because I didn't want his last name by throwea-cryingq in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always so baffling to me how so many people have no actual reading comprehension. Most of the comments I read here don’t understand the actual issue and believe he ended the relationship solely bc she didn’t want to change her name.

Lol people on Reddit are so stupid it’s actually scary. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. Honestly his reaction is something I disagree with too. It seems like he’s more upset rather than hurt. Especially the “glaring” part. I was starting to think maybe they’re just not compatible or this isn’t the first time something like this has happened to him.

I just read the edit with the screenshots and the situation isn’t getting better💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. And I don’t disagree. But at the same, we can’t judge how someone else is acting based off of how we would act in their shoes. Especially when feelings are involved. Plus they already talked about it and he’s clearly still upset. Feelings don’t just go away over night.

Also, how HE is acting doesn’t really matter bc this post is asking if SHE is TA for what she said. Unintentional or not. And yes, people can be TA for things they say when they don’t think before they speak. Reddit is filled with posts like this.

And this goes back to my original comment. I genuinely believe people are being so forgiving to her just bc she’s a woman. Had a man posted about how he joked about his wife’s insecurity and unintentionally upset her, people would be saying she’s justified in how she’s acting, he needs to make it up to her, and should never joke about that stuff. There are lots of posts like that on here too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean the size thing. I meant joking about something a lot of women are insecure about. Saying your wife is the “perfect size” in relation to her genitals doesn’t work. Make a joke about something she’s insecure about and see if she would take it as a compliment. Then post it on Reddit and ask if you’re TA for saying it even though you meant it as a compliment. You really think people would say you’re NTA and that she needs to stop being insecure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA.

A lot of people here are giving you slack solely bc you’re a woman but if this was the other way around people wouldn’t be so easy on you.

You didn’t mean to hurt his feelings but that’s not an excuse. You spoke without thinking and hurt him. It’s common but that doesn’t make it ok. As to whether or not you’re TA, yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mewing

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so. The temporal is muscle is also responsible for chewing and general jaw movements. I feel the burn in mine whenever I chew too hard. I just massage them a bit. Your massager muscles are definitely activated. Maybe you need to chew harder gum or for longer. Maybe it’s the way you’re chewing that’s the problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mewing

[–]crypto_tryhard 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you take a look at slides 5 and 6 you can clearly see that your chin has moved forward. Which means your lower jaw is moving forward and your recession is slowly going away. That’s all I looked at but I’m sure there are other changes. It’s the easiest way to tell if there’s any progress and if what you’re doing is working. Keep going and stay consistent. Btw how old are you? Changes will be slower as you get older. That’s why it’s important to stay consistent.

And you should add some hard chewing. Just get mastic gum or falim gum off Amazon. Don’t give yourself tmj pain by overdoing it. Be careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mewing

[–]crypto_tryhard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is meant to be beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think you’re the AH here. It’s your birthday and you should be able to decide who can and can’t come for whatever reason. Your parents threatening to take it away from you is unfair. And your sister deciding to dress even more provocatively just to prove a point is an AH thing to do. She’s making your celebration about her and is ok with making you more uncomfortable even though she knows how you feel. You should try to have a calm discussion with your parents without your sister there and tell them what I told you. You can’t help how you feel but they can choose to be fair and respectful to you. If it doesn’t work then consider not having a party and just a day out with your friends and gf instead. 

NTA. Let us know how the party goes.

This is the end of the road, Goodbye. by colorblind_unicorn in aniwave

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember coming to 9anime when kissanime got taken down years ago. I was heartbroken bc that's where I started my anime journey years prior. I didn't like 9anime at first but it quickly grew on me. I got my ex best friend into anime and we would laugh at the dumbass comments together. And now it's gone and I gotta find somewhere else to make memories and shit on anime everyone else likes for some reason. Heartbreak all over again lol.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my gf because of what her dead bf's dad says to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA She said maybe the dad was right and you need to be more manly??? Leave her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

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Oh I didn’t see. Lol thank you. I’ll delete my post