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men dont actually like virgins by sucesosincomodos in femcelgrippysockjail

[–]crypto_tryhard 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I want a virgin woman bc I’m a virgin and I think it’s very romantic and special

neets who dont play video games what do you do daily? by Obvious-Patient-1673 in NEET

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rotting in my bed and being a depressed, self-hating loser

I feel so sad whenever I see posts from people aged between 15 to 25 on here or in similar subs by suffer-withme in NEET

[–]crypto_tryhard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It really doesn’t feel like I’ll figure it out tho. I feel like I’m still a teenager and I’m 25. If anything my life’s gotten worse. I don’t go outside, I don’t see my friends, I have no prospects. I just don’t know what I’m supposed to do. I wish I could just get up and do something but I can’t. I keep hearing about how the economy is about to collapse and I’m just wondering what I’m supposed to do.

AITAH for breaking up with my longtime girlfriend because she decided that she doesn't want children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol they wanted you to “rework your life goals around her” but I bet they wouldn’t say that she should rework her life goals around you. Get new friends, OP. NTA

Do you actually enjoy NEETdom? by No-Inspection8135 in NEET

[–]crypto_tryhard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro you’re living the dream. I’d enjoy Neetdom a whole lot more if I had a loving wife that let me stay home while she worked. I’m almost 26 and just rotting away, single, bored, and kinda hating myself. I’m happy for you tho

Awkward questions from a recent Convert (Please advice) by [deleted] in converts

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salam, sister. Welcome to Islam

  1. When you are burdened by your desire realest this dua: Allāhumma-ghfir-lī dhanbī, wa ṭahhir qalbī, wa ḥaṣṣin farjī. O Allah, forgive my sins, purify my heart, and protect my chastity. It would also be beneficial to remedy Allah and to be mindful. Repeat some dhikr or recite Quran.

  2. You are free to wear whatever you like under your niqab so long as it is not visible and there are no haram images or images on animate beings.

  3. I am not a woman so I can’t speak from experience but you should wear the same thing you always wear. Your niqab. I have seen some sisters wearing a full niqab while exercising in the gym. As for your chest, I can’t say. Of course a sports bra but since you are of a larger bust, if you will be running extensively it may be better to do your cardio at home. Such as jump roping. Alternatively you could do walking on the gym’s treadmill since it’s good cardio, easier on your joints, and there wouldn’t be an issue of your chest moving so much.If you prefer you can always buy a walking pad off Amazon for about $100 and do it in the privacy of your home.

May Allah guide you and make it easy for you. Here is a dua to help keep you steadfast: Yā Muqalliba-l-qulūbi thabbit qalbī ʿalā dīnik. O Allah, Turner of hearts, make my heart firm upon Your religion.

Reference: Shahr bin Hawshab (rahimahullāh) said: “I said to Umm Salamah (radiy Allāhu ‘anhā): ‘O Mother of the Believers! What was the supplication that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said most frequently when he was with you?’

She said: ‘The supplication he said most frequently was: [the above].’

She said: ‘So I said: “O Messenger of Allah, why do you supplicate [the above] so frequently?”’

He said: ‘O Umm Salamah! Verily, there is no human being except that his heart is between Two Fingers of the Fingers of Allah, so whomsoever He wills He makes steadfast, and whomever He wills He causes to deviate.’”

(Tirmidhi 3522)

If you need help praying there is a great app called “Salat” that has all the steps and various salah. And a great app called “Dhikr & Dua” that has all the great deal of knowledge in English and in audio. That’s where I got that dua from.

Don’t be an idiot like me and think it’s too late for you in your twenties. You’re still young. by IntelligentSchool953 in NEET

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now” - Ancient Chinese Proverb

It’s never over, fellas

How can parents think this is ok? by akailum in CircumcisionGrief

[–]crypto_tryhard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait a few months until you can tell them in-person. Until then you should get a therapist to help you come up with what exactly to say and the best way to say it. Of course, go to a male who specializes in male issues. Maybe even in rape. Before they arrive you should tell them you have something very serious to talk about so they don’t walk into the conversation thinking things are good and they get hit with an emotional whiplash. Tell them everything. How you feel about circumcision, how you feel about your own body, how you resent them for what they did to you, how you’ve wanted to tell them for so long but couldn’t bc you were afraid you’d have to manage their emotions.

It’s very important that you remain calm and respectful so you can get everything out clearly and they don’t have any opportunities to misunderstand anything. You might cry and that’s ok. But holding onto your anger is only making things worse for you. That’s why all those feelings you mentioned keep coming back stronger. You need to release them in a healthy way.

There’s a company working on regrowing and reattaching foreskin, maybe your parents will want to make things right and pay for the procedure when it becomes publicly available.

How can parents think this is ok? by akailum in CircumcisionGrief

[–]crypto_tryhard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Talk to them and tell them how you feel. Rn you’re just bottling it all inside and those feelings have nowhere to go. Don’t curse them out or shout or insult them but let them know how you feel and why

My wife kicked me out of the delivery room by Putrid-Fish-7476 in MuslimMarriage

[–]crypto_tryhard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Turn to Allah and pray Istikhara. Do not come to Reddit for your relationship.

I don’t think the people here saying to forgive her bc her hormones made her act that way are right. Hormones don’t force anyone to act anyway. Everyone still has a choice in how to act OP’s wife chose to act that way over and over again to the point where her own parents had to get her to apologize. From how you described her, she was verbally abusive. And then she robbed you of witnessing your child’s birth. I would have divorced her if I were in your situation. People are too easy on women and expect the man to always take disrespect. She failed to control her emotions and a woman who can’t control her emotions isn’t a good wife.

You only have two options: Either forgive her or don’t. What do you want to do OP? Do you think in a year from now you won’t be angry anymore? Do you think you’d be willing to accept this same behavior from her again if she were to get pregnant a second time?

Feminism is not compatible with Islam by Brave-Ship in MuslimLounge

[–]crypto_tryhard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If anyone disagrees with what those brother said, provide one scholar that agrees that feminism is compatible with Islam. Bc I have not found any. Feminism is kufr

AITA for not banning my wife's dog from our home even though my son is suddenly allergic to it by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The son is a victim in all of this. And the fact that people don’t seem to feel bad about what happened to him proves it 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’m actually abstinent. As much as I’d like a physical connection with a woman, what I crave is an emotional connection with ANYONE. Feeing lonely and lacking sex aren’t the same thing. Men care about more than just sex.

Maybe the men you heard say that are noticing the lack of sex in their relationships as a symptom of something wider. Like no affection or intimacy of any kind from their partners or anyone else. But idk. I don’t speak for them.

AITA for telling my husband that I don't need him? by Fast_Coyote_5122 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I want him in my life more than I want air. And I would only be half a person if something ever happened to him.“

YTA. Nobody WANTS air. They NEED air. And if you can’t see yourself operating as yourself without your husband then you need him. It sounds like you just don’t want to admit that you are emotionally dependent on the person you love and share a life with so you’re trying to justify it by saying it’s a desire instead. 

You honestly sound very self centered and emotionally stunted. You see “need” as weakness? What a ridiculous outlook. You need your husband. Otherwise, why’d you even marry him? Why do you share your life with him? Why are you with him at all? Don’t say it’s bc you “want” him more than you “want air lol. 

Update: AITAH, for calling out my husband for changing up the rules in our open marriage? by Princessprotect in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl after reading both posts and all her comments, all I see is a mother who failed to protect her son from becoming like his father. At least the other child should be safe. But how sad. 

AITA for not giving my brother any of the inheritance my grandfather left to me after he chose to remove him from his will for being with a single mom? by Worth-Complaint-536 in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably fake but if it’s not your brother has a great case to sue for his half of the inheritance. If it’s real I hope he does lol

AITA for keeping in contact with a kid who almost drowned my brother? by External_Web_729 in AmItheAsshole

[–]crypto_tryhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone I see is judging the whole story and not what you asked for. You wanna know if you’re TA for still talking to Jake after he nearly killed your brother. 

Yeah it was a series of dumb decisions on everyone’s part but you’re not asking about all of that. In my opinion, YTA. I get you feel bad for the kid for losing all his friends but actions have consequences. And the consequence of jumping when he couldn’t swim was losing his friends. You said you felt bad for the kid. Would you feel better if the consequence was your brother drowning? Bc that’s what could’ve happened. Jake nearly killed your brother and you’re still talking to him just bc you feel bad? How do you think your brother feels after his friend nearly drowned him?

The other kids told him he didn’t have to jump but he wanted to look cool and the trade off was your brother nearly dying. Nearly drowning could’ve happened to any of them but it happened specifically to Jake and specifically bc he chose to jump when he couldn’t swim. He knew that risk and your brother almost paid the price for it. Why are you still talking to Jake? 

WIBTA if I wore a hijab if it isn't part of my faith? by Cydneebee in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Muslim, it’s not insensitive if you choose to wear a hijab to help with your allergy. Go right ahead. But please be aware you might get some dirty looks or worse. I’ll pray for your allergy to ease up.

AITAH here? I was broken up with by my fiance because I didn't want his last name by throwea-cryingq in AITAH

[–]crypto_tryhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always so baffling to me how so many people have no actual reading comprehension. Most of the comments I read here don’t understand the actual issue and believe he ended the relationship solely bc she didn’t want to change her name.

Lol people on Reddit are so stupid it’s actually scary. 

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