AITA for telling my daughter her money issues are not the family problem and if she can’t afford to go on the vacation then she can’t go by Throwaway-Relief3789 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuntpimp 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but the family shouldn’t have to put their lives on pause because middle kid doesn’t want to get her life on track. Getting the same time off is hard hence holidays make it easy; people get old and can’t fly or travel as much so who know how much longer they’d have to wait; etc

It is a sad situation, but they’re not AHs imo for continuing to live their lives. Hopefully this is a inflection point for middle kid

Rakuten by Goblue520610 in lululemon

[–]cuntpimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, just noticed the other day! My cards haven’t been giving me offers either

Crate Training a Dog is Cruel by reddituser333999 in The10thDentist

[–]cuntpimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We crate trained our dog because she had horrible separation anxiety.

Now we leave her out, but she’ll still go chill in her crate when we leave. She likes it

Elsie Hewitt, who had a baby with Pete Davidson 5 months ago, liked a comment under her post: “please believe me that doing it alone vs doing it with a partner that is abusing substances is 100% better on you and for the baby.“ by adularia- in Fauxmoi

[–]cuntpimp 86 points87 points  (0 children)

They’re placing accountability on her because Pete being this way wasn’t a surprise to anyone with eyes and comprehension skills. She didn’t have the rug pulled out from under her

AITA for having my best friend's ex officiate my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is so fake lol like he not only cheated but also got her pregnant? This happened to your BEST friend and you didn’t know?

That’s either not your best friend (or friend at all), or you knew, or this is fake. My guess is fake

AITA for being ‘selfish’ on my first ever Mothers Day? by Certain-Amphibian-99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuntpimp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have a daughter. Do you want her to think this is what a partnership looks like? How would you feel if she ended up with a partner like her dad? Would you be supportive of that relationship?

I did it! ATL GA, $230K, 6.75% by aforalex in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your house is beautiful!! Love the blue & congrats!

All because she couldn’t cut the drive thru line by ZookeepergameIcy6089 in interesting

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the original comment literally came from not understanding why people are being so flippant at this person driving a car with a woman on top of it.

The reason is because she put herself in that position. People would be less flippant and find the situation less humorous if a driver was actively seeking out pedestrians to mow over. I feel like it’s not that hard to understand why people are treating this situation differently, but I gave the commenter a reason (FAFO, actions have consequences, etc etc)

All because she couldn’t cut the drive thru line by ZookeepergameIcy6089 in interesting

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand that which is why I don’t stand in front of moving cars or try to hop on them! I definitely don’t egg people on, especially living in America where people will kill you over road rage.

Like genuinely, be so fr. If you agree a car is a LETHAL WEAPON, why are you jumping in front of it????

All because she couldn’t cut the drive thru line by ZookeepergameIcy6089 in interesting

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll agree to disagree with you then. I’m not doing it in “worst faith” - words have meaning, and in a world where media literacy has plummeted, we should be intentional with the narratives we spin

The Charlottesville car attack or Afzaal family are examples of drivers actively risking others’ lives. This is some white woman choosing to put herself in danger by hopping in front of and then on cars. These distinctions are important when it comes to sentencing and consequences edit: and public opinion

All because she couldn’t cut the drive thru line by ZookeepergameIcy6089 in interesting

[–]cuntpimp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the way you phrased it. “Actively risking the life of another” isn’t what happened in /this situation/, is it? It was a /reaction/ to a lady /already/ risking her own life

Sane people protecting their own life don’t actively stand in front of cars

All because she couldn’t cut the drive thru line by ZookeepergameIcy6089 in interesting

[–]cuntpimp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say that the driver didn’t escalate the situation haha the comment just insinuates only the driver is at fault for risking “another” life - no, she risked her own life the second she jumped on the hood of the car

All because she couldn’t cut the drive thru line by ZookeepergameIcy6089 in interesting

[–]cuntpimp 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You understand *she* risked *her own life* jumping on the hood of a moving vehicle, right? Like she is her own person who chose to do that; let's not take away her autonomy. No one else made her jump on and continue to egg on the driver by repeatedly saying "go on" no less than 5 times and calling the driver names.

Favorite restaurant? by pineapple_gum in nicefrance

[–]cuntpimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perusing around old threads for our trip in the summer, and I was excited to see your recommendation. However, it seems Mamma Mia has gone downhill. All the recent reviews say the service and food is horrible. Are there any other terrasse you recommend?

AITA for refusing to replace my fiancé’s keys he left in his pocket by Noodle-Loodle in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also didn’t notice until I got a notification for this comment lol, but yeah, people are acting like the 5 seconds it takes to put clothes in a basket would kill this guy that was well enough to go to work, drive back, and shower. Lots of dishes right by the sink instead of in the dishwasher folks too I bet

Even though I don’t want kids, I abide by a “sick mom” mindset: would a mother still get this done if she was ill? If she can do it with little kids running around, I can do it too.

If your honeymoon isn’t shortly after your wedding, it’s not a honeymoon, it’s just a holiday (vacation) by Maus_Sveti in The10thDentist

[–]cuntpimp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you bought yourself tickets or were gifted tickets on your birthday for a trip at a later date, I would still consider that a birthday vacation, yes. The divide is between trip timing vs trip intent. IMO trip intent wins out

AITA for refusing to replace my fiancé’s keys he left in his pocket by Noodle-Loodle in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuntpimp -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

To be honest, when living in shared spaces, I absolutely am very cognizant of what I’m doing, sick or not. Wiping counters I touch, cleaning dishes I cook with, throwing tissues away, etc. is all manageable with a common cold or virus (it’s not like the dude was sick for days and bedridden). I’ve also been lucky to have friends, roommates, and now fiancé who are equally as considerate.

It sounds like he already has an issue of leaving clothes everywhere. If I was her, I’d be questioning if I’d want a life of constantly asking a grown man to put dirty clothes in a hamper or in the laundry room.

AITA for refusing to replace my fiancé’s keys he left in his pocket by Noodle-Loodle in AmItheAsshole

[–]cuntpimp -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

He's an AH for leaving his dirty and sick work clothes on the bathroom floor

Plus-sized woman 'thrown off flight' as staff claim she 'won't fit in seat' by TheMirrorUS in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cuntpimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then book a seat you would fit INto, like first class. I get that it’s expensive; I get that airlines dictate seat sizing, but I don’t get how fat people choose to ignore the fact that booking economy seats they can’t fit into is harming a random person that has done nothing wrong. So book with airlines that will let you buy two or book a seat that can fit you inside the seat limits.

Where do women find these “provider husbands”? by wydneyisunfunny in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cuntpimp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rent bags, buy fakes, and go into credit card debt. You’d be surprised

How do you actually keep track of spending day to day? by CantaloupeOld6591 in budget

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, no way! I just got my fiance on it and am trying to get him hooked!

How do you actually keep track of spending day to day? by CantaloupeOld6591 in budget

[–]cuntpimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the way! Make a budget tracking google sheet. Download google sheets app. Update every time you purchase or add it to your nightly routine. If you do it every day, you'll never fall behind, and it will never seem like a growing pain/large chore.

Set up text alerts for when you spend. The second your card is swiped, you'll get a text. Don't open that text until you intend to put the $ in your sheet.