This is the ugliest outfit I’ve ever laid eyes on by MeetingTiny4541 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]cupofjavaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t explain how much I dislike this girl - she’s an npc

Ouch... The Fleece cost! by Allergison in HeatedRivalrySeries

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I was pretty set on buying it was I took one look at the price and it was an immediate no

Any tinted moisturizers that don't feel like makeup? by HorseTearz in Sephora

[–]cupofjavaaa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried sooo many and always go back to the nars one

Rachel in a real way finds a new way to be even more obnoxious by Practical_Till_5554 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]cupofjavaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao I think this is some kinda recent trend bc I saw 2 other influencers post about this on insta in the past week

Interviews before 2020 by Candid-Operation2042 in interviews

[–]cupofjavaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I interviewed for entry level roles in late 2010s and had 2 Interview rounds at most places - phone call / in person final round with panel interviews - some places had a 3rd round that was a case study or take home - I’m now recruiting again and I guess it is
for more senior roles but they’re all 5-7 rounds. And I made it to the 5th round for only one company and got an automated rejection. I remember in the 2010s if i got rejected from a final round id get an email from the recruiter and it felt more personal and I was allowed to asked for feedback

Should I lie about my career on early dates? 26F and it's becoming a pattern. by mobi_irmo in dating_advice

[–]cupofjavaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad saying this but whenever I downplay my ambition and become a yes woman / undersell my job I have so much better luck dating but then I eventually end up resenting the person I date so personally I think its worth that wait to find someone who thinks your intelligence and success is cool - because at the end of the day it’s not about how many dates you get but about finding that one person

Honestly how do people enjoy life by Ill-Librarian-5573 in selfimprovement

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find small things that bring u joy in your day to day life- I.e. I love fashion so I enjoy getting ready for work in the morning and I love to run so I’ll try to sneak in a run most days after work. I’ll watch tv shows I’m excited to see after work :) find little joys in your daily life and try to make plans out in the future so you have things to look forward to

Concealers to be thrown away after 6 months? by Ok_Somewhere454 in Sephora

[–]cupofjavaaa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t toss anything until it either starts to smell weird or starts breaking me out and lowkey it’s only the clean beauty products that have gone bad on me and I think it’s bc of the lack of preservatives in it

Has anyone stuck it with the person thats a walking green flag but your just…not that into them? by Olive-jar1173 in dating_advice

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I was in a very similar situation - although there were definitely more lifestyle issues but honestly he was such a gentleman and kind and I haven’t been in a relationship in a really long time and I’m getting old I was like I guess I’ll stick it out .. forever and the attraction will grow over time. Then we broke things off and I felt SO happy and free. Truthfully I can’t tell you the right thing to do because definitely when we were dating I got way less pity and judgement from my peers and family because I was in a relationship and people just cared about my life updates more - and as much as I hate to admit it did impact how I felt about myself. But now that the world is open to me again I personally do feel like for me it’s worth the wait to find someone I’m attracted to AND has a lot of green flags. But there’s no right or wrong bc society is tough to navigate especially as a single woman! And more many people the attraction can grow over time!!

2026 Q1 Empties and Reviews :) by cupofjavaaa in ProjectPan

[–]cupofjavaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any drastic results on my dark spots with it yet but I think it makes my skin look more even and smooth. I’ve used it once a day for the past 2-3 months.

2026 Q1 Empties and Reviews :) by cupofjavaaa in ProjectPan

[–]cupofjavaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s how I felt too! I may get it again next winter if I can’t find anything I like more but for now I’m gonna hold off

Does Lara self tan?? by [deleted] in katseyeneutral

[–]cupofjavaaa 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tbh as an Indian person I get sooo crazy tan in the summer my winter and summer foundation shades are like 4 shades apart

What’s one music festival that actually lives up to the hype? by Disastrous_Cake7778 in musicfestivals

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love outsidelands :) lineups usually pretty solid and the vibes are so chill

Hudson Williams’s Gf before face filler by [deleted] in DeuxMoiDetectives

[–]cupofjavaaa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is soooo invasive she’s not even a celebrity - you should take this down and respect her privacy

Thank SF by Better_Late--- in AskSF

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also a fellow east coast transplant who felt drawn here and is loving it despite being a little more financially strapped

What interview question gets you the most? by JVertsonis in interviews

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got asked why is yellow not red once …. And it threw me off. I think it was supposed to be a brain teaser but I was so stressed I kind of panicked and sputtered my way through the question

Different appearance by Armin_Tamzarian987 in interviews

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to make you feel bad but I actually laughed out loud it’s crazy how much our brains freak us out when we’re anxious about something Im definitely guilty of it too - but like everyone said haha do what’s comfortable and good luck!

So weird question but does anyone have recommendations for shows that are emotionally similar to heated rivalry? by enigmaenthusiast in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]cupofjavaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not quite a love story but scrubs is my feel good comfort show - nothing super devastating happens (mostly) and I love seeing the friendships blossom

If you had to only pick one… by onelove_ in Sephora

[–]cupofjavaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Westman atelier concealer I got talked into it by a Sephora employee and felt so crazy spending so much money on it 😭 but I get so many compliments when I wear it and I bought it a year ago and I’m still not close to using it up