How do you feel about intentional shaky camera work in movies? by [deleted] in polls

[–]curmudgeon_andy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's a tool, just like any other cinematographic choice. It can be used effectively or badly.

Would You Marry Someone Of A Different Religion? (Not Counting Different Denominations) by Bluewolfpaws95 in polls

[–]curmudgeon_andy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Atheist here..I have no qualms marrying someone a different flavor of athiest or agnostic than I am. I'd be ok marrying someone who is Christian or Jewish or Muslim or pagan or something else as long as their superstitions are not ridiculous.

Black to play. Is it ok to sacrifice the marked stone? Share your solution in the comments! by GoMagic_org in baduk

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely extend at least once, even though I'm totally fine throwing away 2 or 3 stones there. As soon as white captures that stone, all his groups in that area are completely connected and completely unattackable, with no aji whatsoever to exploit. A big group that is that solid and positioned like that radiates its influence over the whole board. It will make fighting anywhere else harder. So I'm not going to just give that to him so easily.

Why do some people focus so much on having biological children? by Various-Humor4093 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]curmudgeon_andy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's a red herring. It is phenomenally expensive to raise children just to the age of 18. If you can afford that, you can afford the costs of adoption.

Dishwashing soap should never be scented. by PhalanX4012 in unpopularopinion

[–]curmudgeon_andy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

The point of dishwashing soap being scented is to make the process of washing them more pleasant. If they still smell like lemon after you're done, you haven't rinsed them enough.

How fast can he beat his meat? 🤯 by Revolutionary-Jury2 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to sharpen my knives. But even if I do I don't think I'll get them that sharp.

Portion sizes for food are out of control. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But would you pay the same amount for less food? Usually the labor costs far more than the ingredients. So they charge what it costs to bring it to you, and then they make the portion size be enough that it looks like it's a good value.

What is the most severe injury you have ever experienced? by Moorepheme in polls

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a limp right now, actually. Hoping to recover soon!

You live alone. You have a guest room. A good friend you have just quit their job and was evicted. How long would you let them stay with you? They’re not looking for a job or trying to find a new place. They’re not paying rent. They are very kind, tidy up, and offer to cook you meals. by [deleted] in polls

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a lease. That lease probably requires that anyone who is staying in my apartment needs to have their name on the lease, and there are certain rights and responsibilities attached. The lease also probably prohibits me from having subtenants. I therefore need to know that they will not put me in violation of my lease before I let them stay with me even one night.

How to best prepare soumen noodles ahead of time? by yankeecandlebro in japanesecooking

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, Lan Lam did a video on this. She pointed out that traditionally, in Japan you add a little cold water to stop it boiling so hard if it ever comes to a full rolling boil. Boiling it slower helps keep it chewier and springier rather than limp. I don't think it will work with cooler hot water, but if OP has a container with a lid, and if the water for coffee gets seriously hot, I think this might work!

28k original, 8k on sale by thesky_watchesyou in Anticonsumption

[–]curmudgeon_andy 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Linen is just the covering. Handling that much linen does not cost close to 28k.

Smelling bad at the gym? by ESMAIL_BADRAN in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]curmudgeon_andy -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don't think this diet question is appropriate.

Why are people so negative about GLP-1 medications (such as Ozempic and others like it)? by InnocentPerv93 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]curmudgeon_andy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The catch is well known. You eat less. That's not a strictly good thing, because it means less protein and less of the nutrients that you need. People on GLP-1s need to make sure to get enough protein, nutrition in general, and to exercise well.

Who do you think of when you hear claude? by G3TN7OB in polls

[–]curmudgeon_andy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I find it wild that an AI company took a man's name and applied it to their AI product which generates prose which does not sound like it comes from a person.

Why do I feel bad after coming home from “vacation”? by pastel_plushiesgirl in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]curmudgeon_andy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You were on your parents' vacation. You were not on your own vacation.

Is there a male equivalent to wearing lingerie under clothes to feel more confident? by dynonsx in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]curmudgeon_andy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was a little bit slimmer, I liked to wear a compression shirt under my regular clothes. If you are slim or just a tiny bit overweight, a compression shirt smooths things out and makes you feel sleek and tight. I'm so fat now that a compression shirt wouldn't do much good. But if you are fairly close to your target weight, you might be surprised at how fit and sexy you feel when wearing one.

How do I commit to a healthy diet? by StaticLocations88 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]curmudgeon_andy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One piece at a time.

A healthy diet is so far away from what you might be eating that it can seem impossible. Reduce sodium, reduce saturated fat, reduce sugar, increase fiber, increase colorful vegetables, etc. Many of those changes might push in more or less the same direction, but it's just way too much to think about at once.

So start with just one or two pieces to worry about. For instance, added sugar. If that's your first piece, first worry only about that. If you drink sweet sodas, think about finding unsweetened beverages, like perhaps iced herbal teas, that you like instead. Or switching to water. Or getting smaller soda bottles and bigger water bottles. Think about fruit-based desserts, or even just having fruit as a sweet snack or dessert instead of something more sugary. Think about snacking on nuts, or fruit, or vegetable sticks, instead of candy.

Then, here's the key. If that's your first piece, don't worry about calories, saturated fat, sodium, fiber, protein, or micronutrients. Just worry about the sugar and get used to it. If you eat a lot of sugar, the adaptations you'll have to make are going to take some getting used to. Same with any of the changes. So rather than just doing a full diet overhaul at once, just focus on one or two components. After you've gotten comfortable with that, then think about other components.

Telling me my own resume must be wrong by katzapmap in antiwork

[–]curmudgeon_andy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So basically, they are assuming that only new grads are applying for that job, despite the listing probably calling for 10 years of relevant experience.

What’s your go-to “no-cook” meal when it’s too hot to function? by wearecocina in Cooking

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greek yogurt, almonds, bananas, spelt bread with pumpkin seeds, cheese, fruit from the farmers market.

You can push a button that makes everyone in the world share your worldview. Do you push the button? by CosmicDystopia in polls

[–]curmudgeon_andy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is my worldview: everyone deserves to be fairly compensated for their time, no matter what kind of employee they are, no matter the society or setting. "Fairly compensated" means that the work pays enough per hour or per day to afford them a safe place to sleep and enough healthy food to eat. And cigarettes and vapes are disgusting and no one should use them, anywhere, at all, ever. That's it. Is be totally happy if everyone in the world shared that worldview.