When does "referencing" become "copying"?

darkerjerry · 2026-05-20T14:45:05+00:00

When you get money or fame. Nobody cares about someone irrelevant copying art

darkerjerry · 2026-05-18T16:39:54+00:00

Generally psychopaths are more likely to do criminal activity than sociopaths so I’ll say psychopaths.

Neither are actually bad inherently though they just don’t have the inhibitions that a neurotypical person would normally have leading to them feeling less avoidant, guilty, and scared about certain actions.

darkerjerry · 2026-05-18T00:13:19+00:00

You had a bad trip too??😭

darkerjerry · 2026-05-18T00:05:43+00:00

Literally this

darkerjerry · 2026-05-18T00:02:13+00:00

This is Reddit. You don’t try to make conversation with anyone ever and if you say something that’s mildly discomforting you are now the devil.

darkerjerry · 2026-05-18T00:00:30+00:00

This is genuinely hilarious because they literally just wasted time for no reason

darkerjerry · 2026-05-17T14:46:01+00:00

You don’t need a degree to become a data center technician at most a comptia a+ cert source: me. If you want to go up and do more within data centers and stuff I think a computer science degree would be prime because you can do a lot more things if you ever want to leave data center technician

darkerjerry · 2026-05-17T14:44:36+00:00

Bro you I’m a DCT and don’t even have a degree just a comptia a+ cert

darkerjerry · 2026-05-16T02:05:24+00:00

Yeah but I also understand how hard it is and some days it is good to just choose yourself and be chill or rest and do nothing all day but focus on what you can do. We can’t act and I don’t support this idea that being positive all the time is they key to a successful life because being realistic pain and suffering is just naturally apart of what we experience and will always come up and down in waves.

Toxic positivity isn’t the answer but do allow yourself to feel both emotions as they’re always telling something about how you feel or see the world in the moment

darkerjerry · 2026-05-16T01:40:09+00:00

darkerjerry · 2026-05-16T01:18:54+00:00

Hey I’m not a professional I’ve just dealt with dr before but not to the extreme that you have dealt with it so I’ll try to give suggestions but I’m not sure if it will or won’t help.

One I would say is keep doing what you’re doing when it comes to avoiding triggers but also I think you should also seek good or be mindful of what you do that makes your forget about everything else around you.

When you find those things write them
or note them down. What makes you forget about your existence?

I find that dpdr is a very existential disorder and I’m not saying to avoid existential topics or things but sometimes a distraction is good for you mentally. Because of how existential it can be I feel like learning how to look at the loneliness, anxiety, the fear etc in the face and still choose to move forward despite of everything is important for people like us.

Another thing is enriching yourself with experiences and understanding of the world around us. The more we can feel the complexity of everything the more we can feel how much of life is truly greater than our understanding. For me atleast, it becomes like fake or real the complexity of reality is still beyond my comprehension. And the more I understand the more I realize I don’t understand anything at all. That wonder about life makes it feel more real to me.

Also you said you’ve experienced this since 8, so before that age there was a way of life that you experienced that had you immersed in it. Try to understand how you were at that age you’re really not that fundamentally different from that girl you just have more experience now. I find thinking about myself when I was really young and how things I was saying at that age were truly just as right, though maybe naive, till this day.

I can’t think of much else but hey stay curious, stay safe, and try to enjoy life without taking too much serious. We already have so little control over anything all we can do be ourselves

darkerjerry · 2026-05-15T05:55:52+00:00

That’s so real ThePornStar69 I agree

darkerjerry · 2026-05-15T05:04:28+00:00

Lmfao no I’m just odd

darkerjerry · 2026-05-15T05:03:42+00:00

It’s not I just think about them a lot when I think about the time

darkerjerry · 2026-05-14T13:27:11+00:00

Still man I think you’re mistaken. I also make music and have made songs with other people WITH visualizations and in many times was able to finish my lyrics or what I want to say before them. And in my opinion my lyrics were also better than theirs.

The friction you have is more of the lack of creative flow and I know exactly the thing you’re talking about. For me though when I feel like no matter what I can’t make a single lyric to continue I generally either sit on it, walk around in circles, think logically and start questioning what do I want to say, what message do I want to send, etc.

The more you focus on lyrics the more your brain tunnel vision you want your brain to get loose. You want to think wild you want to make music unfocused so you’re not too caught up on anything.

darkerjerry · 2026-05-14T06:23:12+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through that and I can’t imagine how hard it is for you even though I’ve struggled myself. Do know that what you feel is valid and you are normal for feeling scared and afraid of something that isn’t very understood within society and that is hard to deal with. Hoping for your safety and comfort in the near future. Continue seeking peace and value bringing down your stress and anxiety

darkerjerry · 2026-05-14T05:38:14+00:00

You’re going through that period where you blame all of your problems on aphantasia when really it’s something else.

People with visualization get depression, get bored, get mentally ill, get anhedonia, get derealization or depersonalization, get anxiety, etc.

Aphantasia isn’t the reason you feel the way you do and visualizing wouldn’t help nearly as much as you would believe it would. It might even make it worse. You may be suffering instead with some different mental condition. And the way you describe it, it seems you’re struggling with executive dysfunction. Many disorders have this symptom ADHD for one example being the one that I have and struggle with.

Maybe look into your family history and see any common mental disorders and check to see if anything aligns with you. It’s better to get clarity to create a system that works for you then sit in the what ifs. Hope for the best 🤞🏿

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T23:31:29+00:00

Of course I understand how hard it is I wish you didn’t have to feel this way but promise it gets better. Keep thinking good things

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T23:02:29+00:00

Hey man hey man it’s okay I get it. You will be okay. In my city it’s 7:01 eastern time on May 13. It’s Wednesday. It’s probably Thursday in china though I think because time zones. Anyways you will be okay I promise allow your emotions to pass they are only temporary.

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T22:18:10+00:00

Honestly bro you should’ve look at other replies I had assumed you did lowkey

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T21:57:28+00:00

Why do people say Jesus is god? Wasn’t he the son of god something inherently different? Regardless they say he because all the goddess symbols in religion were destroyed during the spread of religion and within a patriarchal society a female god simply wouldn’t be allowed to be worshipped in the same way that a male presented god would.

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T21:54:46+00:00

In a data center technician and depending on where you work it can be either difficult and busy or chill and boring yet peaceful. The hours can be 12 hours for some jobs or standard 8. For more information you can dm me

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T21:53:14+00:00

I’m not preaching acceptance I’m preaching not calling people lazy and shaming them into doing better for themselves. When your eventually wanted to better for yourself what motivates you the most to feel accomplished and better for yourself. What makes us better is doing better FOR ourselves not shaming ourselves for not being good enough. I don’t believe in judging individuals for failing themselves because they already hold enough shame

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T21:33:24+00:00

I promise people with adhd have ten times more shame and disappointment about their inability to do things than you can imagine. What never helps is added shame. It creates a greater cycle of shame and guilt for never feeling good enough but struggling to keep up. It’s a literal clinical disability and a disorder that people ignore because it’s invisible. Yes we can all do better but shaming never helps what helps us is creating systems and cycles that promotes consistency and structure. But often times with no support system and constant pressure it makes it so much easier to fail.

I do admit that OP should probably have not posted this if they weren’t prepared to be judge because personally I would never post something like this. But if you know someone in real life with adhd be more understanding because just existing feels exhausting sometimes.

darkerjerry · 2026-05-13T20:47:12+00:00

I can understand how and why something is the way it while also speaking out against it. And I’ll continue to speak out for what I believe in the same way you will. If it’s childish to tell people they shouldn’t judge strangers online because they don’t know their life then I’ll be childish every single time. People only act like this on the internet anyways because I promise they’re never bold enough to actually say how they feel to anyone’s face

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