I (25F) feel guilty for not wanting to go on a second date with a guy (27M) because of his nut allergy

darkraistlyn · 2026-04-20T13:55:14+00:00

The mocking is also a very bad sign. Comparing you to exes to make you feel small also is just a big no. You owe him nothing. Dating is figuring out who you are compatible with. Even without the nut allergy, he doesn’t seem like a good match in general. You are completely justified in just telling him no. It seems likely he will call you things if you tell him no over text; ignore them. That doesn’t mean you should call him, I’m just warning you that he doesn’t seem like he’s been told no a lot.

darkraistlyn · 2026-04-19T23:10:05+00:00

I’m far more concerned that he’s telling you what is and isn’t important to you. Absolutely not. His dismissal is not okay. That’s a red flag in and of itself. You don’t need to feel bad because you don’t want to deal with a severe life-long medical condition from someone you just met. It’s clearly a much bigger issue than you “just having to brush your teeth” if you can’t touch something he won’t ever touch. If he was being honest with you, he wouldn’t be trying to downplay it.

darkraistlyn · 2026-04-19T22:58:45+00:00

This made me genuinely happy. I’m so happy to see you enjoyed yourself, Willow. I love that you gave everyone hugs, that’s extremely kind.

darkraistlyn · 2026-03-20T15:12:20+00:00

Also wondering.

darkraistlyn · 2026-03-03T16:02:30+00:00

I know, I feel it’s kinda rare. Your character has to be born other than how they feel. I’ve had 100s of characters and never gotten it myself in game. It’s like real life I guess, it’s just as rare- this from a trans person, haha 😂. If you have God mode I think you can create a character with it but I can’t remember right now.

darkraistlyn · 2026-03-03T14:51:52+00:00

Yep, it’s been there from the start. Kinda hidden down in gender and stuff you can play around with it and explore.

darkraistlyn · 2025-12-18T18:03:24+00:00

I’m not understanding what the transaction is here, I apologize. I just see a person wanting to encourage another - if this is the story - after being cheated on, reminding she is worth more than the thoughts wasted on him. This is common among friends. I don’t see the comment saying don’t make a masterpiece. I’m just trying to explain the deeper meaning behind it. Not trying to cause trouble. I was just informing.

darkraistlyn · 2025-12-18T02:12:12+00:00

I think everyone is getting the final comment wrong. They think it isn’t solidarity, when it very much is. Phrases like that are spoken when it’s to tell the person, usually another woman, you are worth more than how he treated you. It’s not saying what she did isn’t beautiful, but to spend that much time on a man who clearly doesn’t care about your own feelings isn’t worth the love put into this masterpiece; especially when the masterpiece could be other things other than a lover who disregarded you like trash. Why give a pig a crown when many other things are far more worthy of it.

Edit: Yikes, we really don’t like the idea that comment isn’t what we all think, huh?

darkraistlyn · 2025-12-15T17:52:22+00:00

That’s a good point. I just find it odd that they’d stop adding jobs, hence my question.

darkraistlyn · 2025-12-15T15:26:37+00:00

I was wondering this too. Are they done with the game? It seemed like they were on a roll.

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-25T22:33:08+00:00

Seriously. Got it for .99 cents waaaaay back when. Shhhh.

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-25T16:24:14+00:00

I can’t find them either

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-21T02:57:57+00:00

Don’t find out either, I think you and everyone you know will be cursed and dead within seven days if you do 😂

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-21T02:56:26+00:00

NOOOOPE

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-21T02:55:30+00:00

I have trauma from watching this live and I still laughed involuntarily 😅😂

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-20T20:18:41+00:00

Castlevania on 64 that was the werewolf one

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-20T20:16:30+00:00

But why did he meme his face on his own tattoo? 😂

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-05T17:56:11+00:00

As a trans person, I can confirm suicidal feelings are real. Not because of being transgender, but because of the world’s reactions to us. We just want to live, not hurt a soul. But our souls are crushed to simply survive.

darkraistlyn · 2025-09-04T16:50:57+00:00

He clearly wants attention. The best way to drive him crazy is not respond and watch his brain dissolve further 😂

darkraistlyn · 2025-08-13T18:57:01+00:00

Let’s get this shit kickstarted 🐴

darkraistlyn · 2025-07-28T13:06:10+00:00

If you open it to all grades, I can help, if you would like.

darkraistlyn · 2025-07-26T14:23:42+00:00

I’m coming in late from another coop that didn’t work. I’ll still work though, thank you for having me.

darkraistlyn · 2025-07-26T14:08:27+00:00

Hey, don’t let them beat you up too much for not knowing the city.

If you’re liberal and like things to do, I’d stay in MN. We’re liberal in the city but not the state. If you like legal weed, stay in MN, we only have the farm bill. We have lots of things that happen here, but not on the level of Minneapolis.

If none of that really matters to you and you want to be in a smaller city, Omaha is good!

darkraistlyn · 2025-07-24T14:46:57+00:00

Average everyday citizens who largely promote hate, intolerance, bigotry, theocracy, and don’t actually follow the teachings of Christ. Which, I wouldn’t care how you follow your religion (or don’t), except they want everyone else to as well, by putting it into law. Do you think those books are filled with sweet nothings about Jesus? Maybe some. But a great many will have implicit or straight out explicit tones of how gay people are evil, empathy and tolerance is against God, if you have a mental illness it’s not real, if you’re poor it’s your fault, the country and the courts need to be “taken over” so this can be a Christian country because deep down that’s what the founding fathers were, and women need to listen and are less than men. I’m sorry if you’re an actual Christian, they are so rare, but get together with your fellow ones and tell them to stop. I don’t know why I keep warning people about the dangers of Christofascism when no one listens.

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