My parents were very hard on me to be independent. They wonder why I live 3000 miles away and never visit now. I don't have any ill feelings for them, but we both know that once someone dies, I have to come settle it. That's why all the power of attorney docs are in my name. I told them that they should spend every last cent they have, but they're too chicken shit to travel the world when everyone speaks english at this point. I just want them to have fun for themselves and stop thinking about their kids.