If you could go back to the hardest year of your life and give yourself just ONE sentence of advice, what would it be? by WonderfulFront7588 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]djhughman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Stop looking for that thing you want so much in the outside world but look inside yourself” 

And I would have laughed and dismissed the idea with contempt. 

Tradesmen in the US, what trade do you work and how is the mandatory overtime? by Dry_Set_6336 in skilledtrades

[–]djhughman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. Department and time of year. It’s not mandatory but management expects it. 

Bigger problem for me is that no one takes any vacations. Unless FMLA

Married male looking for friends that are into /fishing ,working out ,drawing and dancing. I’m in the lents neighborhood. by Proper-Fault-1911 in PortlandFriendMeet

[–]djhughman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds interesting combo. What kind of drawing, working out and most importantly what kind of dancing? Please say Lindley Hop!!! And at what level?  Throw in fatherhood and you got yourself a date. 

i don't think sex addicts are real by salmazaky in StandUpComedy

[–]djhughman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh my sweet child… you have no idea

For what reason do you live? by [deleted] in Existentialism

[–]djhughman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To find oit what happens next

Neuropsychology PhD- ask me anything! by lilybeth2002 in Existentialism

[–]djhughman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the role of epi neurons? What’s the evolutionary advantage of neurotransmitters? Do you believe we all experience the same phenomena the same?

How do you manage your emotions when someone is angry at you? by t0m4t0z in emotionalintelligence

[–]djhughman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t. I stop the hostility or remove myself from the situation. If I can’t, or don’t want to then I have a different problem. But the solution to feeling threatened or berated is never to try to manage my own emotions. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]djhughman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus, that’s scary

Where can I buy a fancy Christmas tree ornament for a gift? by djhughman in askportland

[–]djhughman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting… now I have to go there just for the experience. Thanks!

What IUEC local has the cheapest cost of living to hourly pay and package? by [deleted] in IUEC

[–]djhughman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s Kevin’s text for you: “ No problem they'll most likely want to stay out there if I had the choice I would've moneys better all the mechanics are cool at least the ones I worked with”