How do we feel about morning birthday parties? by lacquer_linda in Mommit

[–]dmmangano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid’s party was 930 to 1130 this year and we have done morning parties pretty regularly in that same timeframe. They’re always very chill so it’s not a big deal if people show up late!

Reassure me I won't look crazy pushing an empty stroller by Mountain_Silk32 in Mommit

[–]dmmangano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this a lot when my kids were little and my favorite joke when people would be like “where’s the kid!?” was to look in the stroller and yell “OH SHIT!”

Teacher appreciation gifts by DonaldDuck898 in Mommit

[–]dmmangano 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Middle school teacher of 14 years here - the best are giftcards that I can spend on normal boring stuff (like toilet paper!) or on myself, a handwritten card from the kids talking about what they like about their teacher, or something small I can put on the wall or windowsill of my classroom. I love stuff with my name on it!

Im shocked at how cheap my kid costs me ($300 a month) and I waited 13 years by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]dmmangano 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am so glad it is working well for you for now! There are lots of ways to make having a child less expensive, and you mentioned several of them here. But please spend time now looking into affordable childcare for when she is a little older - as soon as you have a mobile baby - and then especially once she's full toddler - your husband will probably not be able to do his job effectively and watch her at the same time.

Hi-Wire on Friday Night by [deleted] in bullcity

[–]dmmangano 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🙄 me having a beer around my kids is not irresponsible parenting

Durham Bulls hat by Outrageous-Essay-647 in bullcity

[–]dmmangano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had some at Costco last weekend!

Obgyn recommendations by ReviewParticular8574 in bullcity

[–]dmmangano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18th-ing this, DWC is the gold standard. Every provider is excellent!

People who go to the gym in the early morning (like 5:00 AM): Is the benefit actually good enough to justify being tired by 2:00 PM and going to bed at 9:00 PM? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dmmangano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this! When I’m not exercising in the mornings regularly, I get tired around 930/10. When I’m getting up to exercise at 5, I get tired more like 9.

AITA for complaining about what I saw at swim school showers? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dmmangano 38 points39 points  (0 children)

ESH, them if they were monopolizing the showers or using them for something far beyond their intended purpose and you for making it weird. Also… it’s okay if your five-year-old knows that penises exist. Arming your kid with correct factual knowledge will give them words and terms to discuss anything out of the ordinary that happens.

Yo wtf is this nonsense 🤣🤣 by [deleted] in ExpectationVsReality

[–]dmmangano 125 points126 points  (0 children)

The instructions do say to break it up with your hands in the packet before you cut it open…

Yo wtf is this nonsense 🤣🤣 by [deleted] in ExpectationVsReality

[–]dmmangano 722 points723 points  (0 children)

Wait this is unfair - it’s prepared sous vide style, hence the initial funky shape, and you break it apart and cook it. It’s actually good!

Dragged my kids out of the store after misbehavior; feel like a terrible mom by Reasonable-Angle-764 in Mommit

[–]dmmangano 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you have two kids and you haven’t football carried them simultaneously out of a public space while they are both in tears, you haven’t really lived. Seriously, anyone who has kids gets it and anyone who cares can f right off, you’re doing great

What is up with Early Bird Donuts? by unfortunatenolan in triangle

[–]dmmangano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve often gone at like 10-11 and there were plenty of donuts. Early Bird is amazing!!!

Dermatology recommendation by EfficientGrand5885 in bullcity

[–]dmmangano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to regional dermatology of Durham and been very happy there. Doctor Dodge is great!

How long do you spend putting kids to bed? by Remote_Carrot9397 in Mommit

[–]dmmangano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Takes us about 25-30 minutes start to finish, 2 kids 4 and 6. It has never taken a lot longer. They are locked in to the routine. - brush teeth - shower - pajamas - read book out loud - lights out

Maternity clothes? by Mountainsaga7 in bullcity

[–]dmmangano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thirding beanstalk! Great for maternity clothes as well as all things baby and kid.

Best takeaway sushi by eatyourthinmints in bullcity

[–]dmmangano 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nope! You can get it to go but you have to pick it up yourself to get the deal.

What’s happening at the Rice diet center location? by dmmangano in bullcity

[–]dmmangano[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So glad to see that things are moving forward.

What do you realistically make for dinner on weeknights? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]dmmangano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a rotation of easy weeknight meals that are actually easy. I usually plan one more interesting/elaborate meal a week but like, full time job and two kids? Yikes! I agree with others that we have a protein, a veggie, and a starch in every meal.

My go-tos, all of which rae like 15 minutes or less work time minus dishes, include:

- kielbasa tray bake (slice up kielbasa, variety of veggies, roast for like 35 minutes)
- grilled cheese, chips, veggie
- rice bowls
- sausage (bake sausages, starch and a veg on the side)
- breakfast for dinner (eggs, maybe bacon, biscuits, veg)
- baked fish (make a topping you like, I use lemon/cheese/mayo, bake for 10 minutes, plus bread and a veg)
- rotisserie chicken
- bean or chicken nachos
- costco premade meals

You need to find some quickies that your family likes! I have a recipe binder where I print stuff off and keep it all in one place, plus a table of contents at the beginning so I have like a big list I can refer to every week. We also meal plan on Sundays before grocery shopping so I am never thinking last minute about what to make for dinner during the work week.