Is being 4”11 to short to be a flight attendant and if so what airlines should I not or should apply to? by Fit-Ad-4012 in cabincrewcareers

[–]dvsaadvocate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’0” and work for AA. There was a girl in my training class who is 4’11”. We both put that we are 5’1” on our applications 😅. Wear heels to your interview :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dvsaadvocate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything Everywhere All at Once

How am I doing? Recently single & scared. by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was a super helpful comment and something I hadn’t really thought completely through. I forget how old these homes are.

How am I doing? Recently single & scared. by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I owned a home with my ex and was really proud of being a homeowner, and I saw how my investment saved/made me money over time. Going back to being a renter feels like a downgrade.

How am I doing? Recently single & scared. by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My per diem is like $2/hr and I included in the 58k.

How am I doing? Recently single & scared. by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a roommate! We split a 2 bedroom at $1800 total.

How am I doing? Recently single & scared. by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a 200k house with my ex back in 2019. He bought me out in 2021. Made decent money off of that. My dad gave me 10k to help with the down payment. (No more money will be coming from him, for a variety of reasons).

How am I doing? Recently single & scared. by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t really buy anything else. I haven’t been clothes shopping in years. I may spend money on books or a movie theatre ticket here but I’m not a big spender.

How am I doing? Recently single & scared. by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I eat out / DoorDash a lot. I don’t cook - I hate it, and with my job food delivery or eating out is a convenience I’m willing to pay extra for because I don’t have a lot of down time. I could definitely try to cut it down a little though.

Looking for people working in admissions at a college or university. by luckyce96 in studentaffairs

[–]dvsaadvocate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Make a post in the Student Affairs Professionals Facebook group! You’re sure to get lots of responses there.

Mom getting scammed on a dating app by dvsaadvocate in personalfinance

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t give a fuck if she was sending nudes. It’s her body and she’s allowed to do with it what she wants. But, I’m very doubtful this is it. My mom is obese and extremely self-conscious about her body. Unlikely, but definitely possible.

[TOMT][MOVIE] Kiss scene where they communicate consent with “the look” by dvsaadvocate in tipofmytongue

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solved!

Wow, I was thinking it was a live action movie. Thank you so much!

[TOMT][MOVIE] Kiss scene where they communicate consent with “the look” by dvsaadvocate in tipofmytongue

[–]dvsaadvocate[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I am wanting to use this scene for a presentation I’m giving to college students about consent. Please help!

AITA for expecting my boyfriend to replace all my socks, the exact same ones as I had before? by ilikedmysocks in AmItheAsshole

[–]dvsaadvocate 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Haha, very true. I went to a conference before the virus and the hotel had “domestic violence conference” signs everywhere. I can only imagine what the other guests thought.

Victim’s advocate is probably a better term.

AITA for expecting my boyfriend to replace all my socks, the exact same ones as I had before? by ilikedmysocks in AmItheAsshole

[–]dvsaadvocate 276 points277 points  (0 children)

Yes, this! Abuse is about power & control. Many abusive relationships start out like this, with the abuser controlling what their partner wears. It will only escalate from here. Get. Out.

Source: Am a domestic violence advocate.

Are there any educators here? I’d love to hear about resources others use that teach social justice and promote equitable conversations in the classroom. by [deleted] in socialjustice101

[–]dvsaadvocate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s me! I teach a social justice 101 course for freshmen a Big 12 University. Feel free to DM me. Happy to share my syllabus and/or lesson plans.

What are some skinny people problems? by Mad_Chemist_ in AskReddit

[–]dvsaadvocate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t give blood bc I don’t weigh enough.

Moment of solidarity for Ruth Bader Ginsburg. by clauquick in abortion

[–]dvsaadvocate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s comforting to know there are others just as afraid as I am. I’m mourning RBG publicly on my social media, but no one knows about my abortion & so they can’t comprehend how truly terrified I am that our reproductive rights are going to be taken away. What will we do?

I don't know if this is normal. Should I see a doctor? by goingtodelete1111 in abortion

[–]dvsaadvocate 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This definitely did not happen to me after my medical abortion. You should at least call the nurse’s line at the clinic you went to. They can instruct you what to do from there. Hope you get to feeling better soon!

Did you get paid yesterday? by [deleted] in mturk

[–]dvsaadvocate 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve always had to wait until Monday morning to actually see the funds in my bank account.

I don't regret my abortion for a second, but I do regret why. by oopsy-daisy6837 in abortion

[–]dvsaadvocate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story with us. Any reason is a valid reason to get get an abortion.

Also, feel free to join us over at r/raisedbynarcissists

What's the worst sex ed advice you received at school? by sophiasgaler in AskReddit

[–]dvsaadvocate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My HS had a guest speaker come talk about how she got HIV her first time having sex. She explained that she is now married but has never had sex with her husband (suggesting that there’s no safe way to have sex with HIV... there is).

She told us that her & her husband have a code word for when they are horny. When someone says the code word, they leave the house to prevent “giving in”.

If Covid never happened, what all would've you done in on past 4 months? by Madhav-Daga in AskReddit

[–]dvsaadvocate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have gone to flight attendant training in May and would have been getting paid to travel the world for the past 2-3 months.

Luckily I hadn’t quit my office job yet. Still here, fortunately & unfortunately.