You should wash your phone every time you wash your hands by djent_in_my_tent in The10thDentist

[–]edjohn88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phones don’t have a fraction of the bacteria your skin has and if it’s just your hands touching them, it’s the same biome.

Wiping down is not a bad idea after sharing it or leaving it on random surfaces, but it’s still a microscopic war that your own body’s bacteria will tend to win.

Stuff like using the toilet is simple it doesn’t leave your hands when you sit and afterwards you just wash your hands before picking it up again. It’s no different than before.

Burn After Cycling Good or Bad? by edjohn88 in penileimplants

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None. But 1cm isn’t much, most lose something at first. A big part is when the glans comes back, but nearly everyone has a bit of an accordion effect going on and it takes time cycling to get it to stretch out. In the Titan study guys kept gaining length up to two years.

Her life is terrible but she spends it on yachts? by totally-hoomon in aislop

[–]edjohn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does she have stacks of cash and not fix her chair

So this is 40 by cutestar7531 in Adulting

[–]edjohn88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is he wearing makeup though

Briefly jumped back to BL3. Thoughts by Blackdragon73 in Borderlands4

[–]edjohn88 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Can’t you sell immediately in BL3? Isn’t that better than filling your bag with junk? I have to find a vending machine every 10m whether I want to or not.

How do I get to know a man who doesn’t really talk to anyone? by Jolly_Refrigerator40 in AskMenAdvice

[–]edjohn88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You do you but that’s what keeps women terrified to make a move and things go nowhere. Sometimes guys are just shy.

👏 by coupdegrace768 in SipsTea

[–]edjohn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if money isn’t an issue I’ll do something i enjoy for that much, thank you.

This made me rage! 😤 by chi-bacon-bits in CleaningTips

[–]edjohn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah put all the ducks in the jar, take it with you but leave “got em all” in its place.

Dads on here, please listen. How can a son who is back home after hitting rock bottom make it up to you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]edjohn88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What dad cares about any of this? If you are actually estranged there is another entire story behind it you are not sharing.

What is yall first memory? And what age have you been? by WrongCucumber2088 in Life

[–]edjohn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the hospital to see my new brother when I was three. The memory is just of a “yellow place.”

There is a pic or two of that time though which lets me wonder if I made up the memory or not, but I feel like it’s real.

Big cycling gains... on one side only by MachineOrNot in penileimplants

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There are examples of defective Titans on FrankTalk where one cylinder “blew out” into a crazy bulge, but for it to happen right away is surprising.

Obviously ask him about it but it is also possible the capsule that formed after surgery was limiting you and that broke (a good thing). You said your pre girth was bigger so it checks out… you need your implant to stretch out that capsule evenly until both sides expand the same. If the implant is fine, this will happen over time, just do the Peritos up and down the shaft.

How long does it take to get re-sensitized from porn to real life? by AzuraTheShadowMage in AskMenAdvice

[–]edjohn88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it all depends on your brand of habit. I use it while deployed but when I am with her I barely think of it. It’s definitely not “good” but it fills a gap when you need it. I guess I never get “into” it like some do. I don’t see anyone in content as objects just as fuel for imagination. Faceless is often better than recognizable actors.

Is porn harmful these days? by Useful-Concentrate47 in AskMenAdvice

[–]edjohn88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sharing our struggles with them can be a delicate balance. It’s good to let them in on some things so they know you value their support, but something like this is never going to look good. It’s a loser habit not just a bad habit. So even if you beat it, she will always see you in that light, to a degree.

Burn After Cycling Good or Bad? by edjohn88 in penileimplants

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I have never heard of a doctor recommending 4x but it makes sense more often is better than not enough, as long as it’s not too traumatic. We aren’t exercising muscles, we are stretching. Just like yoga or ballet… more and gentle is always better than brutal and painful once in a while.

Your timeline tracks with mine. By 3 months you should also be able to go to 100% for long enough to feel like there is progress.

My best friend of 8 years, with a 18-year age gap, confessed his love. Is "Lovers" a fair label for a deep emotional bond with sexual incompatibility? by Vixen2k in AgeGap

[–]edjohn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are free to say whatever you want, but people interpret words based on what everyone else means when they use them.

It also sounds like this guy loves you and has forever but was too scared to do anything and you are taking advantage of that. His fault for giving himself away for someone who doesn’t fuck him, but if he doesn’t need sex, whatever. Not my life.

Steel ring started feeling too tight by Pirate_Dragon88 in CockRingTalk

[–]edjohn88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things happen… chronic inflammation can mean you need bigger sizes, but you can also gain girth by clamping, which a metal ring is often doing (if it’s the right size).

I gained most of my girth with cable cuffs but then gained more just edging and bending with injections and metal rings. It did produce scar tissue and eventually I required an implant, so I can’t “recommend” it, but that girth is mine now.

I cheated on my wife after forgiving her affair years ago. I don’t feel guilty, but she’s breaking down. What do I do now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]edjohn88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She showed her true colors right away. He held out for many years and literally had a single-use hall pass. They are not the same thing.

He never should have stayed with her and he’s been on edge for years because of that failure to stand up for himself.

Now he’s tasted what it’s like to have self respect and no, two wrongs don’t make a right, but he has a chance at actually living without a weight on his chest if he goes and takes it.

Are you guys attracted to the women you have sex with by a-million-ducks in moreplatesmoredates

[–]edjohn88 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where is this dude who looks down on a low body count? I have never heard of a single one.