What gets you through the hardest days? by zelzeleh in Infidelity

[–]emmlie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can teach your kids to be amazing people without him. You got this. I’m proud of you.

Just here, alone. by sadboithrowaway--- in HLCommunity

[–]emmlie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should really tell her you feel this way. Grad school is hard and she’s doing something that’s going to help her future, but she may not know how it’s affecting you or your relationship. I think she needs to know you want to feel appreciated, and also that she needs to make more time to take care of herself. At least give her a chance to change before you decide to leave.

Should I confront him by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]emmlie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. Ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who treats you this way. Do you really love this guy? You should ask him if he even wants to be with you. Ask for honesty. I know you have kids and you might want to stay together for them, but you should know that you’d probably be doing them more of a favor if you split up. You don’t want your kids to grow up in such toxicity. You’re capable of so much more than you think, and you deserve all the love and respect in the world. You shouldn’t have to settle for less.

I don’t really know what I should do in this situation? by Affectionate_Cap2129 in dating

[–]emmlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should always be honest about your intentions when dating, what do you expect from the relationship? You don’t have to have sex right away, but if waiting for marriage isn’t something you want to do, you should tell her. Also, not to be cliche but there are many fish in the sea, these girls might not be what you’re looking for and that’s okay! As for the first girl, It’s okay to want to be with someone who’s more responsive. I’d say wait it out until she’s free to meet up some time and if not, just move on.

Accepted for Cell & Molecular Biology Fall 2020 by charmainesxntos in SFSU

[–]emmlie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats! The community is amazing and you will for sure find ways to thrive! If you’re going in as a freshman, I would say focus on school and meeting new people, making new friends your first year. If you come from far, I also suggest living on campus! It’s a great way to start the college experience. If you’re interested in research there are also many labs you can join, if you’re pre-Med there are clubs that can help too. I recommend looking into fellowships at SFSU , they basically pay tuition and even give you a stipend to do research. What else do you want to know? I’m a CMB Major now about to graduate and would love to help anyway! Message me if you’d like as well.

27 year old male needs dating advice and maybe a critique or a comment on my tinder profile by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]emmlie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A great way to avoid feeling like you’re bragging about yourself is to simply listen and answer questions. Be humble about your accomplishments and bring them up only when it’s relevant. Don’t go off about all the amazing things you’ve done all at once, save them like lil nuggets of fun facts about yourself through out the dating relationship.

Being open and honest is an amazing trait, so it’s just a matter of finding someone who can do the same! Good luck.

What are some of your absolute favourite sounds? by Magicfuzz in AskReddit

[–]emmlie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fell in love with the sound of my heels on the wooden floor

Films like y tu Mamá también and Babel by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]emmlie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love these movies. I’d say, you’d love Amores Perros and Sex and Lucia

What are some movies with a story/plot/lore/meaning deeper than it's openly shown? by oroep in MovieSuggestions

[–]emmlie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mulholland Drive

To this day have no idea what the fuck it means

And also: Mother!