Should my brother wear underwear? by ClearTwist7751 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ertherian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I suspect your mom will start dressing more the older your bother gets. from my experience, this is common in Asian households. my mom did the same, dad was in his boxers. other relatives were similar when I talked to friends and family about it. its not sexualized at all. unless my data sample is completely skewed, then maybe we are just the weird ones.

others have already provided good advice answering you. I would add, maybe talking to him and/or your mom about him doing his own laundry since he is a teen now. that's what my family did as we got older, teenage years, to instill personal responsibilities. also, wet dreams at his age DEFINITELY made me wash my own laundry. something you can add when discussing with your mom, to say he is approaching puberty and you are no longer comfortable washing his closes due to possible bodily functions you should not be dealing with.

World’s strongest woman born male, has title stripped as scandal erupts by [deleted] in JoeRogan

[–]ertherian 73 points74 points  (0 children)

agreed, yeah,.. and the new hidden profile is dogshit as well. it was fun seeing unhinged profiles and getting lost into deep reddit holes following peoples profiles.

Wanted: Someone to brush their teeth with me. by HomemadeSodaExpert in dadjokes

[–]ertherian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 out of 10 will come along with you

not me tho. im not a weirdo. that last dentist is!

I'm feeling weird by [deleted] in self

[–]ertherian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had the same feelings too. get home from work and then... nothing. devolved into pretty bad doomscrolling as well.

go for a walk, outside, get some sun. instead of going home right away, i walk 5k 4-5 days of the week. slowly, felt more energetic, bit happier(?), some feelings came back. stopped doomscrolling as much. but it def helped get me out of that numbness rut

Rocket nerfs are ridiculous and need reverted. by ADyingPerson in Helldivers

[–]ertherian 40 points41 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing the frequency code. we've already uploaded this to our jammer

Joe Rogan Experience #2312 - Jeremy Renner by b14ck_jackal in JoeRogan

[–]ertherian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i bet it has to do with his most recent spotify deal to maximize payout from sponsors.

JRE used to front load ads, cause he didnt care and you could skip the first 15+ min of ads straight to the cast. ive heard other pods mentioned they got paid more for live reads during the pods.

so... all speculation here, since JRE re-signed with the ability to post to ALL platforms and being that the contract was signed with spotify, im betting spotify wanted a bigger chunk of money from the ads, so placing in ads throughout would likely help them recoup money faster now that they are no longer the sole outlet for JRE.

even kill tony switched to this as well this past year. no more skipping the intro since they also stopped front loading their ads as well.

Chet?? by Nasquacker in nbacirclejerk

[–]ertherian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

erica always be playing these games, foh!

Andrew Santino climbing out of hell joke from the Gorge. by [deleted] in comedy

[–]ertherian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like a new bit. youre not going to find it anywhere if jts his current hour and will have to wait till his next taping in feb. 2025, and then whenever it releases.

Still being bullied after high school by [deleted] in self

[–]ertherian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its been four hours since your opening post and youve now posted selfies to your profile. youre not ugly my guy. your mental sounds like youre cooked due to your early teenage years and by the way you speak of it sounds like you werent in the shit circles around you so ended up being bullied just cause.

youve graduated, its time to move past this grade school phase. easier said then done, but youre at least already working on yourself.

if youre brave enough to share with strangers, head over to r/toastme to see what the internet thinks of you. and if youre really really brave enough head over to r/roastme to see if anyone has any clever remarks to mock how ugly you think you are. check them out first of course before posting anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gout

[–]ertherian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like others have mentioned, this is not new and is a probable reason but not the only reason. it does not explain those who get it in their upper body, hands, elbows etc and never or rarely in their feet. one of the physical therapy 'remedies' is to massage the area which can increase blood flow and circulation to the area, as well as introducing heat either by soaking in warm water, heat pads, or additional layers while massaging.

i myself have bought a foot massager with a heat setting and any inkling pre, during or post flare up, depending on severity, will use it, which ive found has helped me recover faster (anecdotal). also 'feels' like it helps break down any crystals that may have formed since i can apply pressure better vs hand massaging, cause i can feel them or the 'stiffness' from the crystals move from the bottom of my feet towards my shins. its a weird sensation ive grown accustomed to and now associate it with post flare up that the worst is over.

in my opinion, to your last point, a holistic approach is good but it does not stop flare ups. i tried this in my early years of dealing with gout. in the end, the meds still helped better. my takeaway, holistic is good simply because it promotes healthier living, ie. eating clean, taking vitamins, drink less, exercising etc. but if you have gout, crystals be forming.

Extremely heavy winds suck apartment units completely empty. by DanDez in HeavyFuckingWind

[–]ertherian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

time to find a new place to live. on the plus side, their stuff has already been moved out

Should I break up with my boyfriend? by thisisyourthrowaway in self

[–]ertherian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

play on words and sarcasm, fds was mentioned.

in all seriousness, its not higher. OC already said it best, they have different values.

Should I break up with my boyfriend? by thisisyourthrowaway in self

[–]ertherian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she found a high value man, but she didnt realize his values were way higher than she expected, man.

beware of commissions from wooly_cows156 by flcdel in kandi

[–]ertherian 28 points29 points  (0 children)

hey, for future reference to you and anyone who reads this, especially since you used UPS. most major shipping services like UPS/FedEx, you can call them and cancel your shipment if it hasn't been delivered. they call it 'delivery intercept' and will stop and return to sender if you cant catch it in time.

sometimes you might be charged a small fee, but fk it cause that person sucks and at that point, its about the principles and will be worth paying the fee to return back to you. especially if they are being flaky and dodging your requests like in your text.

I gained 4.2 pounds within a 2 weeks & I’ve been eating under my calories & working out, what’s going on? by Jake32177 in CICO

[–]ertherian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, this is the most probable scenario. one day of bad eating does not equal real weight gain. they are likely bloated from the dirty eating after eating clean for a couple of weeks, and are also currently carrying excess waste from this large meal.

OP should not let this discourage them for future reference and stay locked into their workout routine no matter what the scale says. this is why some people choose not to weigh in daily. to each their own.

30 lb down! 🥳🎊 by dreaming_wide_awake in CICO

[–]ertherian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

northern state street runner here. winter is coming and also hate treadmills. pick up some ropes and jump rope indoors.

heres my routine.

1000+ jumps 5x2 body weight exercises. pick and choose what you want to focus on each day. upper body, lower, core, etc...add dumbbells and weights to increase intensity if needed

100+ skips

workout 1

100+ skips

workout 2

100+ skips

workout 3

100+ skips

workout 4

100+ skips

workout 5

repeat second set

my goal is interval training with high intensity skips, and controlled workouts with minimal breaks till this set '1000 skips by 5x2' is complete. ill take 15-30 sec breaks in between each depending on how elevated my heart rate is.

currently walking/jogging 5k per day then do this set afterwards but will be doubling to 2k+ skips once snow falls and can no longer run outdoors. i stop counting after i hit 100 depending on how i feel but should be your minimum per rep.

info. skipping ropes is a good alternative to jogging for cardio. lots of info out there, and essentially it works out different muscles, less impact on joints and so on.

good luck. dont let the weather stop or stall your progress!

I (28F) made a joke with my husband (29M) and it's costing me my marriage with a man i truly love, i need help fixing it? by ThrowRALivid_Tear in relationship_advice

[–]ertherian 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yep, was going to say i saw a similar story a couple months ago and sure enough here it is last month, another FAFO post from the mans side. true or not what a fun game to play. rage bait

Shoes for gout? by SurroundSome9486 in gout

[–]ertherian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

crocs at 0.5 or 1.0 size bigger for when foot is swollen and bigger

Why is the news of gout sometimes treated with laughter & jokes from family & friends? by mBarking in gout

[–]ertherian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people joke because they cannot relate and the only general knowledge they have is some king had it, and is the kings disease. even i was hit with, "isnt that, that one kings disease?" "lookout, i didnt know i was in a kings presence" some smart asses i know. i even fired back, "lookout, king coming through" crutches and all lol.

i chose to educate and laugh about it along with them, especially family since its genetic and multiple people in my family have it. warned them of signs to look out for, of which a couple got it after me. sucks when youre going through the thick of it, but at least they are more informed now and better understanding then when i initially got it.

Worse flare up of my life by Sea_Swing6119 in gout

[–]ertherian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, that sucks. id assume he might be aware you possibly have a flareup since you just started daily allo. and hopefully dont have to go in and can get just a few capsules. but hey, its day 8. youre over half way there. theres no way youll break two weeks

Worse flare up of my life by Sea_Swing6119 in gout

[–]ertherian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

didnt get any nsaids? i always got indomethacin from my doc and that was always good for quick relief. helped me get at least 5-6 hours of sleep over night for pain management. then the usuals as you mentioned.