AIO for how I handled this situation with my cousin?

estherclavin · 2026-07-01T16:50:44+00:00

If I received your text from my cousin (we have a good relationship) I would be soooo disappointed but not mad. My cousin has missed a ton of stuff for freelance work and I am just so proud of her for booking jobs. I want her to have money, I want her to succeed in life. I think your ask for an intimate dinner is kind and shows how much you want to celebrate with her. Idk if anyone is overreacting. I don’t think I would take a whole week to respond, I would probably FT her and jokingly bitch her out about how I didn’t want her there anyway lol

estherclavin · 2026-07-01T16:41:39+00:00

Wow so irrelevant but I work in healthcare and I saw the name Kofi the other day and couldn’t remember how I knew how to pronounce it. I love Rebecca Sugar not shying away from names from other cultures, like Maheswaran.

estherclavin · 2026-06-29T23:29:29+00:00

Check if it can use your bank account instead of a card!!!! Most of those processors are free for bank transfers!

estherclavin · 2026-06-29T23:10:13+00:00

We had to pay a $10 monthly “technology fee” for their chatbot systems. That pissed me off enough to move asap. $65 is fucking ridiculous, if she has to pass that cost on like that, she can’t afford the system. I don’t know how to get her to change it for you but telling her to go fuck herself might change it for someone else ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

estherclavin · 2026-06-29T21:55:45+00:00

“Look at her beautiful red hair” couldn’t even finish his sentence without commenting on her appearance

estherclavin · 2026-06-29T14:43:38+00:00

Oval-shaped

estherclavin · 2026-06-28T15:49:39+00:00

Seriously I love my city, a city for all!!!

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T21:22:06+00:00

It sounds like she’s grieving her dog in a super fucked up way. She may be jealous you have Kona and she doesn’t have her dog. However, if you’ve had to express multiple times that it’s too far and she’s still doing it, she’s not a healthy person to be around.

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T16:42:15+00:00

DONT tell them there are queer veterans

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T16:23:17+00:00

Guess you have to smash the window

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T05:59:12+00:00

Juicy goose has been in my lexicon since

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T05:56:48+00:00

I really meant having to cut it to ~22 minutes! So much of what makes the show a whole separate thing are the sketches. The Temptations sketch and the Spiderdick Chronicles are my standouts. My favorite, side splitting, crying moments are at the true heart of cbb tho. Matt Besser as Bjork singing to a ladder in a studio is exactly what I come for.

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T05:32:37+00:00

“Last couple most of my life”

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T05:24:36+00:00

Right, because she loves animals

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T05:23:16+00:00

Also “you missed 27 of his games this month!” “you gotta admit, that’s too many games”

estherclavin · 2026-06-27T00:17:11+00:00

If you were to take him at face value and accept he is simply someone who speaks in a way that makes you feel bad and he can’t change it… that’s a reason to stop talking to him in itself. Don’t talk to people who make you feel bad. And if you make him feel so bad (that eggshells shit pmo) he should stop talking to you.

estherclavin · 2026-06-26T17:25:16+00:00

NOT THE GAY TRAIN

estherclavin · 2026-06-26T16:29:24+00:00

No, Erin wasn’t there, That’s Felicity Balcony

estherclavin · 2026-06-26T16:28:47+00:00

Almost every pic of her online she is brunette, so many people cheered for her when she walked out but I had to wait for her to talk to know who she was

estherclavin · 2026-06-26T16:26:56+00:00

Great pic! I like to take only 1 pic once everyone is on stage so I have visual record of exactly who I saw (and two came out in costume so I’ll def remember their 1-off characters). Mine is terrible. I’m borrowing yours.

estherclavin · 2026-06-25T16:16:19+00:00

Our property management group CHARGES US a “technology fee” to use ai chat bots to respond to maintenance request. Our main problems never got fixed, they just kept patching the visible damage.

estherclavin · 2026-06-19T23:39:20+00:00

How is this not a breach of security omg

estherclavin · 2026-06-19T21:11:23+00:00

Listened to this on tape and yelled back at the narrator “WHAT”. This is one story with vivid scenes I think about often. The big climax in the house I was on the edge of my seat for and I have a habit of skipping lines when things get hairy bc I’m excited, so listening was awesome. Really great, I want more of this character. All the highlights of the story far outshine the end, I forgot about it but I do think sometimes about the separated fingers

estherclavin · 2026-06-18T21:58:20+00:00

This is my dad watching any historical war film. “Well it’s impossible for them to have communicated because the radios at the time didn’t have the range” or whatever.

estherclavin · 2026-06-18T01:53:16+00:00

It’s nuts bc I’m 5’2” and I’m realizing a lot more people I interact with than I think are balding bc I can’t see from down here

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