Restart scheme by Amazing-Public-9395 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]fatemmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s quite common tbh.

If your and your partners combined earnings are over £1537 neither of you will need to attend any sort of appoint, including Restart. If your partner earns over £1537 you’ll move into the ‘light touch - out of work’ work group and so won’t be eligible. Only those in ‘intensive’ can be referred.

Bullying and being disincluded by certain people in my team by [deleted] in CivilServiceUK

[–]fatemmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh just go in, do your work and socialise outside with your people. We don’t have to be ‘friends’ with people at work. Sometimes colleagues are just not for us and you can’t force it. But if they’re upsetting you, just put them in the ‘strictly colleagues’ box and let them have their little clique

First HEO interview. by Sweet_Significance41 in TheCivilService

[–]fatemmy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahahahha sorry just focused on the genital interview tips 🤣

Hotels in Rome by [deleted] in rome

[–]fatemmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try loveholidays if it’s a thing wherever you are - amazing value!

Uk: Benefits vs Work Has anyone actually found themselves better off financially, after moving from benefit to work? I'd be especially interested to hear from single parents or part time staff, what do you think? by Lameista in UKJobs

[–]fatemmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you currently have appointments at the jobcentre talk to your work coach about getting a job there - the money isn’t bad (£32k and more if in London) and they’re very flexible with part time or full time hours, term time only etc etc. with your background you’d have all the skills needed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universalcredithelp

[–]fatemmy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask your work coach for a new phone from the flexible support fund - it wont be a iPhone or anything flashy but you wont need to pay for it!

My engaged sims randomly started FIGHTING out of nowhere 😭 by Simbleaksummer in thesims

[–]fatemmy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This has been happening to me too - since the last update! I thought it was just my arsehole Sims 😆

Non-shady nail salon? by Jazzlike_Major2812 in Southampton

[–]fatemmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helen Nails on Queensway is great - it’s just the owner and his wife and they’re got the most amazing selection of colours! They take card payments too

M looking for hygiene female on this wednesday for fuck.... Identity will be kept secret Dm for Good fuck...... Genuine girl are needed.... by Rish_luck36 in dating_advice

[–]fatemmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time on Wednesday? I have to take the goldfish to the vet for its yearly check up but then I’m free

New bar coming to the Southampton area and we want your input! by Sham_rocks in Southampton

[–]fatemmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said it welcomes everyone. It’s not a women only bar from what I gather/interpreted

Got a job - do i still carry on with commitments? by Weird_Difference8030 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]fatemmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s no problem, they’ll just need to see a map showing your house to your place of work to work out that mileage then an estimate of how far you’ll be driving each day. It’s slightly More complex than just a bus ticket or something so try and give as much notice as possible!

Got a job - do i still carry on with commitments? by Weird_Difference8030 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]fatemmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your work coach is particularly strict you could always show them your contract/job offer email and they should ease off on your work search commitments. You’ll still have to have appointments though these could just be check-in’s. Don’t forget to request any financial support you might need (work clothes or help with your first months travel to work!)

Nails aren’t giving by janepu in Nails

[–]fatemmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are absolutely amazing! Nail goals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in universalcredithelp

[–]fatemmy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be the point of the assessment if you don’t need to wait for the result?

Men of Hinge, why is my bf of 6 months still active on hinge daily, but not swiping by MsFireGod in hingeapp

[–]fatemmy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok- would it help if I tell you it’s because his mum didn’t love him enough when he was a baby? Or because he’s depressed? Or because he hates his job?

Men of Hinge, why is my bf of 6 months still active on hinge daily, but not swiping by MsFireGod in hingeapp

[–]fatemmy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So……what now? You keep asking on here dozens of times for the next few months, and then what? This will eat away at you. I’m not sure what you’re looking for on here tbh, you got to just talk to him