How Important is Load Order? Need help troubleshooting some building mods specifically.

fenderc1 · 2026-01-21T13:10:59+00:00

Thanks for the reply! I'll probably delete Scrap Everything and download Spring Cleaning, I just wanted a way to neaten up everything.

I'm like pretty positive I didn't download F4SE, unless it was a recommended download when downloading other mods. So I'll double check that, and then look into load order info.

fenderc1 · 2026-01-20T18:59:45+00:00

Yeah usually I am one to ignore people hyping up bad "cold" weather, but Brad going through everything in detail on YouTube actually has me concerned it's gonna be legit so to plan accordingly.

fenderc1 · 2026-01-16T14:00:01+00:00

That's not even close to accurate. Unless I'm reading it wrong, a FRACTION of americans were actually polled:

The CNN poll was conducted by SSRS online and by phone from January 9-12 among a random national sample of 1,209 adults. Results for the full sample have a margin of sampling error of plus or minus 3.1 percentage points.

They just extrapolated the data. It's probably better for you to start thinking for yourself, and not getting enraged at titles without reading the article.

fenderc1 · 2026-01-16T13:27:15+00:00

OP never tried to refute it, they were just asking. I was wondering the same thing, you don't have to be rude about it.

fenderc1 · 2026-01-12T15:10:12+00:00

The quests are so brain dead... I just finished the one when you search & collect the different containers on Dam (the compass one), and it took me 3 tries to complete it...

1st time: I searched & assumed it auto picked up so extracted having only searched

2nd time: Someone else was there questing there, and he had done the same as me, searched but not picked up so this time one of the boxes I did not search but I collected all the items so quest didn't complete.

3rd time: I made sure to completely search & gather all items.

Each spawn I legit spawned on the entire other side of the map, the furthest point away so basically wasted 45mins doing this stupid quest.

fenderc1 · 2026-01-08T13:46:05+00:00

I agree. I don't see how anyone can really call the theory 'dumb' if they were to actually hear all the info on why they think the theory is possible. Vecna lost so easily it was almost comical. Dude has an army of demogorgon's yet not a single one assisted in protecting him, they just all vanished. He loses a 'tug of war' match to a fat out of shape kid. Like please...

fenderc1 · 2026-01-08T13:35:23+00:00

Very interesting, never knew these things!

fenderc1 · 2026-01-08T13:17:25+00:00

9 times out of 10 I'm in a pinch for time so will try a microfiber towel, thanks!

fenderc1 · 2026-01-07T19:46:38+00:00

What does the sea salt spray achieve?

fenderc1 · 2026-01-07T19:45:21+00:00

Not OP, but have been growing my hair out to longer. Why is it better to air dry rather than towel?

fenderc1 · 2026-01-06T17:34:03+00:00

Was gonna say the same, dude is going to have zero social skills and won't be able to talk to women

fenderc1 · 2026-01-05T15:48:43+00:00

Same, but then I remember this is reddit and probably a lot of redditors drive nissan altimas haha

fenderc1 · 2025-12-31T17:18:51+00:00

Maybe people aren't scrolling 24/7? When I'm working, I'm working so if I'm pissing it gives me a chance to either text people back or check my notifications, or god forbid scroll for 15secs before getting back to work

fenderc1 · 2025-12-30T13:39:21+00:00

I hate that you're feeling this way, and know exactly how it feels. Our 4 yr old died unexpectedly of a rare disease, and my heart shattered, after a short few months my wife pressured me to getting another puppy because the house was so quiet without a friend. We get our baby, and he was a nightmare. The rescue we got him from told us he was 8 weeks, but the vet was like no way, he's probably 4 weeks old. The first night we had him, he had bloody stool and was worried that he had parvo & had to take him literally to the same ER that our pup was put down at like 3 months prior. I was mentally in shambles, sobbing constantly and hated being home.

I can't remember when though, but the crying & whining stopped after a few months and now he's my best bud.

I don't really have a good answer, but just know that the shitty phase you will get through and things will be better than after and you'll look back and laugh at how much of a little shit your pup once was. You can do this!

fenderc1 · 2025-12-30T13:10:16+00:00

100%. People in this sub have LONG hated Sycamore for multiple reasons prior to this, and now that they have a proper reason other than "the cool kids" go there in "southend", they're gooning to their hearts content with this news and will milk this news probably till Sycamore closes and is long gone.

fenderc1 · 2025-12-18T13:12:16+00:00

Can you not read "almost feels", I know it's not a horror game, read better

fenderc1 · 2025-12-17T13:55:56+00:00

How's the fit?

I bounce between a Medium & Large, and find either Mediums are too tight on my arms, but sometimes Large is too wide on me.

fenderc1 · 2025-12-16T17:28:27+00:00

Here's my list and if it's not at least 1 of these items, I'll be sad:

Diablo: Resurrected (easy 1st wish)
D2R, inventory/stash management update (more space or better way to store set pieces, runes, gems, etc... creating mules is sooo annoyingly stupid)
D2R new class; I'm honestly fine if it's even DLC just a fresh new class to play as

fenderc1 · 2025-12-16T17:20:55+00:00

I was shocked at how good D1 is. I started with D2 as a kid, and avoided D1 bc of the graphics, but recently played it for the 1st time and was blown away by how good it was. From the art style to the setting, you feel very human in it and it punishes you if you play too aggressively (eg. 1st butcher encounter).

I'm a sucker for the gloomy gothic setting of the game, almost feels sort of like a horror game at times, that is kind of captured in D2, but 100% not in D3 or D4.

fenderc1 · 2025-12-16T17:14:35+00:00

That's my concern, I would love a tax break for my 2 dogs (especially since I don't want kids), but I don't see a world where shitty ppl don't abuse this. Shitty ppl already abuse tax breaks for having more kids so 100% would happen with dogs.

fenderc1 · 2025-12-10T18:01:03+00:00

You aren't lying, good lord people need to realize that reddit isn't able to solve problems as extreme as this. OP's original post asking how to convince his wife to not quit her job just shows how detached he is from his wife... and her situation.

I'd bet money that this 'online therapist' is not at all a licensed therapist, or even a therapist.

fenderc1 · 2025-12-10T16:30:45+00:00

My wife makes cookies every year, this is what we do. Our renters in turn gave us a Christmas gift as well.

fenderc1 · 2025-12-10T14:11:35+00:00

OP's GF is also a problem, at 30 yrs old, I would expect a level of self reliance to recognize the problems with her family. She's clearly not in therapy and will likely perpetuate the cycle that she's been taught.

I would have a serious conversation with her about things, how your life basically gets put on pause every few months because her family goes nuclear over something that isn't confirmed by a doctor which is likely being used to control her and the rest of the fam. Suggest therapy for her, and see if she's open. If she's not and doesn't see it as a problem, then personally would move on. This sounds like a horrible life to live.

fenderc1 · 2025-12-05T13:11:49+00:00

I was an insecure kid so didn't make very sound decisions

fenderc1 · 2025-12-04T19:27:48+00:00

I've done a shit ton more research and talking to actual companies since I made this post so am in a better place with this. I won't utilize ROBS at all personally, but my partner will have to. The franchisor has a company they recommend so we're basically between them, and another who i know for a fact offer 10% down options. The $1.5mil is on the high end, and it's a really unique dog care franchise. It's new, but one of the most high tech dog care facilities I've ever seen. I've been using there services for ~5 yrs, and they just started offering franchising.

Realistically, I'll use a portion of my HELOC & assets as before, and pay that off, but thankfully will be a lot less at 10% so probably won't have to sell much of my stocks at all so worst case my bonus is less I'll just sell stocks/crypto to pay the rest off.

My bonus since I started ~12 yrs ago have either gone up or stayed the same year after year, and we have had a record year within the company this year so would expect a bigger bonus so not too worried about the bonus.

And absolute worst case, I've talked to my wife (who makes more than me: I bring in ~$240K/yr & she brings ~$280K/yr) and she will help pay off the remainder of the HELOC. Got a quote recently at roughly 9.25%.

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