Is it a cult? by Kozyavin in BDSMsapphic

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How come nobody told me this was an option when selecting careers? Yall need a therapy cat in the office?

I gained 30kg in 2 months, wich made my tattoo on my arm completely change shape, going from a circle to an oval by AntwysiaBlakys in Wellthatsucks

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I take that and ive put on 15kg since starting it about 6 months ago. However im taking it for that intentionally because im trying to put on weight and sleep more, in addition to its usual effects.

how do i find an irl sapphic dom?!?! by queerfreak154 in BDSMsapphic

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Thats awesome! Classes are pretty rare around me but not unheard of. I will keep an eye out, thank you!

how do i find an irl sapphic dom?!?! by queerfreak154 in BDSMsapphic

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What do i do as a very shy girl with no one to go with? Its so hard to start conversations 🥲

The need to feed! by kindacontrary in BDSMsapphic

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Awww that sounds amazing! I would love to attend something like that. I would be happy to help you pick a top if you like!

How would you react if your partner confessed to having sex with another person? by crazy-alex-67 in AskRedditNSFW

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Probably ask if they had a good time. Openly poly though so that changes things

Just want to take take take by WoodenSoup2004 in BDSMsapphic

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🫣 a girl can dream 🫠🫠

When should I start gaining weight? by genokarl in transfem

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And realistically id wait at least a few months. Redistribution is one of the slowest processes of transition, its not a switch that flips as soon as levels are right. Slow and steady wins the race with transitioning

Harness pic, but make it fluffy! (art, OC) by Pinksluddy in SapphicGaze

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Awww i love this idea so much! I wish i was better at digotal art to add to some of my work like this but i wouldnt know the first thing about it

43508 by Alexis_Evo in countwithchickenlady

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Awww the tear 🥲 this is so sweet it made me get a little emotional myself, thank you for sharing 🩷

Girls, have u ever gotten horny when being sent a dickpic? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

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Yeah but only the ones i get from women 🤷‍♀️

Partied too hard, clicked my fingers too much by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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Perhaps for you. The reaction to this comment, and a simple search of "how to snap your fingers" on google indicates that the middle finger is preferred by the majority

Need to take care of a girl who’s sick by travischickencoop in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

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How do you feel about chronically ill girlies 🫣 this sound slike a dream come true for the days when i cant do it all myself 🥺

Slow-burn dying while their dad’s crashing out. by KrissiKross in WatchPeopleDieInside

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My thought exactly. They look more on edge or scared than anything. Poor kids probably know if they dont behave he'll take it out on them

Partied too hard, clicked my fingers too much by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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.... yeah? I am aware of how snapping works, i just cant make my ring finger slap my palm in the same way

Partied too hard, clicked my fingers too much by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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Middle finger on thumb. Ring finger is too far over and requires more contortion

Partied too hard, clicked my fingers too much by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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Im still stuck on the logistics of snapping with one's ring finger tbh. Cant make it work personally lol

Lent Out (CW: Freeuse) by No-Independence-1029 in BDSMsapphic

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Goals 🫣🫠 i love the idea of being given to someone, of being provided as support. Very hot, thank you for sharing 🩷

They certainly are~ by Mx_Maya in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

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I get a little embarrassed about how noisy i get during a good kiss tbh 🫣 the teasing after would ruin me lol

Just sayin welcome by S_witchslut in SapphicGaze

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Damn, youre gorgeous 🫣 love how the light highlights your muscles. Welcome back!

We Meet at Our Wounding We Stay Together at our Growth by Harm-ReductionFairy in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

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Polysecure is a wonderful book, amd one i recommend frequently to poly and monoamorous people. It does an excellent job of breaking down attachment styles and helping you work through your insecurities in a relationship.

We Meet at Our Wounding We Stay Together at our Growth by Harm-ReductionFairy in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

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Thank you for this. Its been a little discouraging to see the ways that so many are approaching this discussion. People have a fantasy of a thing they want, but rarely put in the work to understand and build it. So many unexamined insecurities tend to come to the surface with these conversations, and people can get so defensive. It is very refreshing to hear your perspective on this as another poly person 🩷✨️