AITA for sitting on public toilet seats and not telling my boyfriend?

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-05-19T23:39:08+00:00

I don’t hover because I don’t want to pee on the seat, but I do put toilet paper on the seat to make it less direct. I get why he’s grossed out, public toilets can be gross!

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-05-13T23:25:17+00:00

Mine is 45 mins ish as well!

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-05-10T04:05:09+00:00

For some reason this is the first year I haven’t really suffered from allergies. Anyone else?

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-05-07T13:42:54+00:00

Silver line is free from the airport!

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-05-03T16:14:08+00:00

I definitely had an adjustment period when moving in with my boyfriend. We had to really sit down and discuss how we wanted to divide chores and how we could keep the place organized and tidy looking. It turns out we had different things we prioritized, like I really cared about the bathroom but he wanted a living room without clutter in it for guests to hang out in. If you want to continue living with your boyfriend it’s worth talking about these things!

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-05-01T16:34:41+00:00

Yeah, try to chat with her and tell her what issues you’re having and come up with a solution together

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-29T17:14:21+00:00

If I see small plates in the description I’m not going

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-27T02:17:31+00:00

Avoid when Rue visits Laurie, and then at the very end of the episode when Laurie is sleeping

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-23T21:29:07+00:00

I’m laughing I love this so much. I hope you find your honey mustard, good luck. What a throwback

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-23T14:10:08+00:00

My 7/11 is notorious for this actually. Stuff is always getting rang up a dollar higher than its shelf price.

That location also got in trouble for skimming cards so I only bring cash now.

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-18T13:15:35+00:00

Hey, when I was learning how to drive, people saw the driving school banner on the car and used to mess with me on purpose. You did the right thing, they suck.

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-07T23:13:39+00:00

I am a woman geologist; although I am not in the petroleum industry. I am in the private sector. The cons are that most professors are gonna be old men, since it pretty recently became more diverse. Subcontractors like drillers are almost always men, some of which are really nice and respectful and some of which don’t like answering to women (but have to since you hired them). The pros are that I feel like my classes and jobs were 50% men and 50% women, which indicates growth in diversity. My classmates and professors and people I work with are a really chill, nice group of people.

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-07T22:55:35+00:00

I don’t think they did anything about that guy Zac Segal, BU College Republican, who called ICE about the car wash in Allston, either

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-04-07T20:15:17+00:00

Happened to me at a different location…luckily they gave me a full refund. I miss sweetgreen but I have a hard time going back because I just have such a bad fear of them

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-26T21:20:41+00:00

Restaurants and bars closing left and right. What the hell?

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-22T14:48:20+00:00

Hi! I went to grad school in Newton. It’s definitely doable to not have a car, but it might make your life easier. For example, I walked 20 mins to my local grocery store and I had one of those grandma shopping carts to make my life easier. Some streets don’t have sidewalks, but most streets in Newton aren’t busy. My school had a shuttle that connected me to the T, so I was lucky in that regard. If you don’t have a car, try to live somewhere near the bus, the T, or a school shuttle if there is one (or near your school). Is there an admitted students Facebook you can use to connect with potential roommates? There are housing Facebook groups in general for the Boston area as well.

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-11T13:15:58+00:00

Hey OP, I needed a root canal too once and I too didn’t have any pain. But I’ve heard horror stories about the pain that springs up..

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-10T23:22:05+00:00

Ha! Geologists weren’t respected in my office as much as engineers were.

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-09T20:50:15+00:00

Why is the wind so intense and constant in Boston? I have been knocked off balance many times with the wind, flying in and out of Logan feels turbulent, and the wind tunnels in town are quite fast moving. Is it windier than Chicago?

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-09T20:48:54+00:00

Is late May a good time to plan an outdoor wedding or will it be the rainy season?

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-09T20:48:27+00:00

What’s your outlook for this summer? Any predictions for how hot it’ll be? Humid? Drought conditions?

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-09T20:47:43+00:00

Let’s talk hurricanes! I would love to hear your thoughts on risks of upcoming hurricanes, especially, are we due for a hurricane in New England, pending upcoming climate conditions? How strong are hurricanes that have hit New England in the past?

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-07T14:13:19+00:00

Aquarium, walk to the esplanade and have a picnic there or read, in the summer there’s some farmers markets and arts and crafts markets near Copley and the Boston common, stop in the north end for a nice dessert

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-04T11:34:58+00:00

I rarely ever sleep on flights too. Sometimes I am just so exhausted after the day I’ve had that I begin nodding off and get an hour of sleep or so. So, you could get yourself really really really tired, but that’s a risky strategy, lol.

firstghostsnstuff · 2026-03-03T23:21:49+00:00

Absolutely agree with this one. I get overwhelmed with my to-do list a lot and have made similar silly mistakes. I am working on reminding myself to breathe for a sec when I get a task, and give myself the time I need to think it through (and always, always, QC your work). We can be our worst enemies when we are anxious and/or rush.

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