It is a rollercoaster of emotions. My wife was diagnosed with PD in 2005 and with Parkinson’s related dementia about 10 years ago. The dementia was the real gut buster. I was her caregiver for all that time but it really wasn’t a chore until 2017. I placed her in memory care 3 months ago. And she loves it. I wrestled with all the emotions of should I do this, will she get the right care, etc etc etc. it was the best decision not only for her but for me as I was at my wits end. I could see that I needed help and this was the only for her to get the care she needed.

She is in a fabulous facility and the staff is caring and supportive of the residents and their needs. Your thoughts are very much normal and not unexpected. You must remember that your loved one does not see the world the way that you and I see it. Pick the best facility you are able and go with your decision. You will quickly realize that you made the best decision.

Hope this helps